Wednesday, August 5, 2020 – Us… vs Everyone Else

All of humanity is broken down into two groups today in the gospel – God’s chosen people of Israel, and everyone else.

Jesus makes it sound very polarizing – telling the Canaanite woman that “It is not right to take the food of the children and throw it to the dogs…” Does that sound very loving? Not really. But it was a test for the woman. Jesus knew. He knows everything about this woman. He knew why He came and it just wasn’t for the Jewish people.

But He wanted to see how much she wanted healing for her daughter. He wanted to see, even after reminding her about her class in society of the day – how much did she really want it?

She was starving for Him, and was willing to take anything. Anything He could give, if only just a little. But He gave so much more…

She was willing to do anything, even facing embarrassment, ridicule and scrutiny. She persisted in her faith that Jesus could help her daughter.  And Jesus saw that faith. He felt it.

Jesus sees us all as one – but He knows that we see each other differently. He sees us as one body, His body. And we see things as us – those who agree with ourselves – and then… everyone else.

Too often, we look at ourselves as Gods chosen ones, in an entitled way, and then there is everyone else.

Don’t believe me? Look around. Black vs. white. White vs. Black. People against the police. The police against the people. People who wear masks… vs. people who don’t wear masks. People who take Covid-19 seriously vs those who don’t. Conservative vs liberal. This list goes on and on.

We are so polarized in this society, and no matter which side of the coin you are on, you fall into the us vs. them paradigm. We are no different today than in the days of our ancestors. They were as polarized in generations past as we are today. We just see it on a global scale.

But Jesus – He came to save us all. To bring us together. To bring us to Him. Perhaps the bring us to Him is the most important part. The world is what it is. There is going to be good, and there is going to be evil. There are going to be times of prosperity, and there are going to be challenging times.

Sure, we can come together as a community, as family, and help each other get to Christ, but really it is about letting Christ lead us, draw us in to Him. And in the end, if we put our trust and faith ultimately in people, we will be disappointed.

It is only through putting our utmost trust and faith into Christ that we will be fulfilled. Communities can do great things, but only if they do those things in the name and purpose of Jesus.

And maybe that is the difference now from generations past, that God is being removed from the equation now. And the polarization is even more extreme. Even more magnified. Even more intense.

And I’m not sure what the answer is because everyone thinks they are right, and that everyone else is wrong.

Jesus came for all of us, to bring us to Him. But too many are not wanting Him. Too many of us are not wanting to believe in Him, not wanting to believe in what He can do because perhaps it is too difficult, or too crazy, or just too much.

We want to point fingers, and scoff, and judge and call names. We think we know better than these out of date teachings and archaic ways.

You have to have the hunger for something better. And the only times I’ve been fulfilled are when that hunger has involved Christ in one way shape or form.

It’s not us vs. everyone else, it is me vs. myself. We have the choice. You have the choice. I have the choice. We all have the choice in how we live our lives, and how much faith we have in God, and how much of our lives we entrust to Him.

Do we give Him everything and entrust everything? Or do we expect it?

About the Author

My name is Joe LaCombe, and I am a Software Developer in Fishers, Indiana in the USA. My wife Kristy and I have been married for 19 years and we have an awesome boy, Joseph, who is in 5th Grade! We are members of St. Elizabeth Seton Parish in Carmel, Indiana where we volunteer with various adult faith ministries. I love writing, and spending time with my family out in the nature that God created, and contemplating His wonders. I find a special connection with God in the silence and little things of everyday life, and I love sharing those experiences with all of you.

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11 Comments

  1. Joe, thanks for yet another deep reflection. What has touched me among others is asking myself how much I yearn for Christ; the faith and trust in God… given the various challenges faced at individual, family and even national levels. The polarization stated is not any different even here in my country…. Come Holy Spirit and empower my and our faith.

  2. Thank you, Joe, for a very thought-provoking reflection. We/I always have the choice. Then sometimes choice is taken away from us, yet the hunger remains. And like a foreign woman with a sick child, one dares to trust in God and to have the courage to seek a better way, for all of us. Be blessed.

  3. Thank you Joseph for this beautiful reflection. We all needed to hear this.

  4. Thanks Joe. I never quite understood why Jesus belittle this woman as he did.
    Testing her makes the most sense but still, that very belittling of Jesus to be that harsh, even a non Jewish woman.
    Now, the pharisees and scribes are a different story – Jesus dressed them down with their own words.
    Anyway, thanks once again Joe. I hope and pray you and family are doing well.

  5. Thanks Joe.I look forward to your weekly reflection.Humility and trust in God will get us where we need to go.God Bless you.

  6. Some thoughts to share:

    Today’s reading ends from the book of Jeremiah. Those who survived the devastation and destruction by the Babylonians will receive God’s grace and rest. God’s message to Israel was His eternal assurance of His love – an everlasting love, anchored in the past and joined to the future. God’s love is evident in creation, in you and me. God’s love is clearly abundant when He sent His only Son to save us.

    In today’s gospel, Jesus went to the Gentile cities of Tyre and Sidon. A Canaanite woman intercedes with Jesus for her daughter who is demon-possessed. She understood who Jesus was, but Jesus’ own countrymen didn’t know or didn’t accept Him. Jesus did so many miracles in Jewish territory as Gentiles came to Him, but here, Jesus was in Gentile territory. At first Jesus ignores her plea, and then says, “I was not sent except to the lost sheep of the house of Israel.” But she persisted and when she cried out, “Lord, help me”, Jesus’ heart softened, though He still continued to say, “It is not good to take the children’s bread and throw it to the little dogs.” It was her great, determined and persistent faith that won Him over when she said, “Yes, Lord, yet even the little dogs eat the crumbs which fall from their masters’ table.”

    Surprisingly, even though Jesus came to save the lost sheep of Israel, it was the Gentiles and outcasts who proved to have more faith in Him. The demons recognized Him as the Son of God. Do I have strong, persistent faith? Do I dare hold Jesus’ hand and walk on water? Do I trust to cast my net on the other side as Jesus commands? And when He says, “follow me” do I respond with loud yes?

  7. “We are no different today than in the days of our ancestors”….I was thinking this exact thing this am. well, actually daily. We are no different today than we were generations ago EXCEPT…we seem to hear everyone’s thoughts, everyone has an opinion and has to voice it or tweet it or put it out there on some social media for all to see /hear. I don’t think we were meant to hear everyone’s thoughts about everything ALL..the..Time. we were not born Mind readers for a reason. I pray that we keep opening our ears and our eyes to hear and see the good things in Life ( and mostly keeping our mouths and our fingers quiet) and realize the Reason God placed us on the Earth. Love one another. Period

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