Wednesday, 3/28/18 — The Power of Uncertainty

I think many of us have a vision of faith as this unassailable fortress. You see a depiction of this in today’s first reading, from the Book of Isaiah: “The Lord GOD is my help, therefore I am not disgraced; I have set my face like flint, knowing that I shall not be put to shame . . . See, the Lord GOD is my help; who will prove me wrong?”

I understand the appeal of that kind of faith. Jesus himself exhorts us to live to that level, noting that if we have the faith of a mustard seed, we can move mountains (Matthew 17:20).

But as I reflected on today’s Gospel selection, I thought about those who were in attendance at the Last Supper.

First, of course, was our Lord Jesus Christ. He had a disturbing statement for those assembled: “Amen, I say to you, one of you will betray me.”

There was also Judas. He had already decided on his course in life. While his free will — and God’s forgiveness — may have guided him back from the path of doom he traveled, he remained true to his damning course.

Then there was Peter, who believed he was so steadfast in his own faith that he balked at the idea of ever turning his back on the Lord, as recounted in Matthew 26:35: “Peter said to [Jesus], ‘Even though I should have to die with you, I will not deny you.'”

But my thoughts turned to the other ten disciples. There’s one line that kept speaking to me from today’s Gospel selection from Matthew: “Deeply distressed at this, they began to say to [Jesus] one after another, ‘Surely it is not I, Lord?'”

Note the lack of certainty there. No one was pounding on the table exclaiming, “There’s no way it could be me!” Their statement is a question: “Surely it is not I, Lord?” You usually phrase statements like that when you’re pretty sure you’re not responsible, but you can’t be certain: “Whew! Who stinks in here?!” “It’s not me, is it?” Or “Wow, someone parked terribly outside.” “It’s not a 2007 Honda Accord, right?”

(I do note that the end of Matthew 26:35, quoted above, does indicate that “the disciples spoke likewise” . . . that is, they agreed with Peter’s steadfast refutation that they would deny Jesus. But the lack of quotes or specific anecdotes here make me think it wasn’t as forceful as Peter’s proclamation — especially given the flavor of the “Surely it is not I, Lord?” question.)

I think our society has a certain distrust of uncertainty. We want our leaders to be unwavering buttresses of certitude. We want our declarations of love to be eternal and unchanging. We want our scientific experts to be steadfast in their declarations of what we should do, even if it completely contradicts what they said we should do a decade ago.

Yet I find myself thinking about those other ten disciples. What was in their hearts and minds in that last evening with Christ? What did they feel at the crucifixion, as likely every vision they had of a glorious king bringing triumph to the world breathed its last gasp and then died on the cross? As the day turned dark and night fell, is the stillness of the air a marked contrast to the jubilant din of their entry into Jerusalem mere days before?

I bet they felt a lot of uncertainty.

Even after the Resurrection, how did they feel? Well, John 20:19 describes how they were hiding, afraid before Jesus appeared to them again. Again, I imagine they were really uncertain.

But what did those ten end up doing?

Oh, they just spread the faith throughout the world. Billions of souls can trace their realization of the truth directly backward to those ten men, all struggling with nervousness and uncertainty.

There’s a fair bit I feel confident about. My marriage to my wonderful wife has been a true blessing to me, and I have a reasonable degree of certainty that nothing would disrupt the God-granted bond between us. But I don’t feel absolute certainty. And there’s power in that uncertainty: I try to love and provide for her to the best of my ability so she doesn’t feel neglected, I make sure my relations with female friends don’t get too intimate, and so on.

I feel pretty confident that my son has a good and happy life in front of him. But I also recognize that tragedies happen every day, and — for reasons I may not fathom — he could face turmoil or despair. I don’t let that possibility cripple me, but I take it as an opportunity to do my utmost to care for and protect him, to give him the tools he needs to be good and happy, and to make sure he knows how much I love and care for him . . . because there’s always the chance I won’t get to say it again in the future.

I feel pretty confident in my faith. But I use my uncertainties to empower it. For example, when I taught religious education, I was really unsure about my ability to do so effectively . . . so I did my utmost to learn the material, prepare my lesson plans, work on my rapport, etc. I overcome any misgivings about my faith by staying true to my discipline: praying, going to Mass, seeking Reconciliation as needed, etc. And I have uncertainties when it comes to writing these blog posts, so I first read the readings at least a week before, and spend at least a day thinking about them before having them edited (by — again — my wonderful wife).

There are elements of the faith that I do feel certainty about. I can have utmost confidence in the infallibility of the Holy Spirit to give me strength when it comes to spreading the Word, even as I have uncertainty in my ability to do that strength justice. I have unwavering faith in God’s plan, even if I may have deep troubles in my ability to understand it at any given moment. And I feel certain about the promises of Christ, even as I struggle with my uncertainty about being worthy of such a gift.

Judas was certain in his beliefs, and it led him to be a terrible, tragic element of the Easter story. Peter was certain in his faith, and found himself weeping bitterly as that certainty was shaken. Peter overcame that moment to serve as the rock upon which the Church was built, and the other disciples overcame their own uncertainty to spread the Good News to the world.

If you feel uncertainty, don’t take it as weakness, but as an opportunity to grow closer to God. A period can end a conversation with unsaid doubts, but a question mark can open the door to the Spirit providing a truer path to the Lord. If you don’t scrutinize your uncertainty now, in these final days of Lent, on the anniversary of apprehension felt by the disciples, then when will be a better time?

Today’s readings: Is 50:4-9A; Ps 69:8-10,21-22,31, and 33-34; Mt 26:14-25

About the Author

Despite being a professional writer and editor for over 15 years, Steven Marsh is more-or-less winging it when it comes to writing about matters of faith. Steven entered the church in 2005, and since then he's been involved with various ministries, including Pre-Cana marriage prep for engaged couples, religious education for kindergarteners, and Stephen Ministry's one-on-one caregiving. Steven lives in Indiana with his wife and son. Despite having read the entirety of the Bible and the Catechism of the Catholic Church, he's still surprised at elements he rediscovers or reflects upon in new ways. The more Steven learns about the faith, the less he feels he knows; he's keen to emphasize that any mistakes are his own.

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19 Comments

  1. I am very thankful to you for your daily reflections which i used to read and shared with my friends.

  2. Thank u for the reflections…they mirror my anxiety and worry that I feel sometimes. God bless

  3. thank you for the reflection.we all in anyway have acted the same way the disciples did. thank God he has not given up on us.i ask him to continue to strengthen our faith in his word.God bless u

  4. Thank you so much Steve,as always. My wife is a convert (Pentecostal),by marriage and even though she attebded catechism classes,she has not had an internal conversion to the Catholic faith. It deeply troubles me and attimes,gives me uncertainty. Your reflection this morning has told me that the uncertainty is a door that leads the Spirit to lead us to even a deeper revelation. I have spent more time studying the Word,reading books,listening to podcasts,all in an effort to entrench myself and to teach her. I want to start a form of Catechism class in which I explain our doctrines to her.I pray for the Holy Spirit’s guidance and the prayers of you all as well.

  5. Thank you for your inspired reflection, Steve. Much of our greatest Catholic literature is the product of saints being inspired by the Holy Spirit diring periods of uncertainty. Have a blessed and inspired Holy Week.

  6. Thank you Steve for a reflection reminding me of my own uncertainties. Strength through the Holy Spirit gives me confidence and certainty in my faith. God Bless

  7. An interesting reflection. Why are you referring to 10? There were 12. Take away Judas and there are 11.

  8. Hey Steven,

    Why did the 10 question their loyalty to Jesus? It’s pretty simple.

    It’s not a question of if you are going to sin again, it’s a question of when.

    Mark

  9. Bob
    Unless I am mistaken, Steve discussed Judas and Peter’s “certainty” of their convictions while the remaining 10 posed the “Surely, not I, Lord” question.

  10. Thanks for your reflection. I needed to hear that uncertainty is a way to a closer relationship with God.

  11. Thank you Stephen. I found meaning in your reflection. Faith and punctuation…I love it. Fewer ‘periods’ and more ‘question marks’ in prayer sounds like a start. One makes a statement, and the other invites dialogue. Who wouldn’t benefit from more conversation with God?

  12. Thanks Steven! Didn’t Paul say, “I will boast in my weaknesses so that the power of Christ may rest on me?” It came to mind while reading your reflection. I’ve had to put away my pride time and time again in order to allow Christ to help me and give me strength and courage to do what is right. We are no different than the disciples, and that gives me comfort. This will be a big help to me going into the Triduum tomorrow. God bless all this holy week.

  13. Thanks Steven for reminding me of my own uncertainties and I can tell you at times I feel very hopeless until I sit down and start recollecting back
    God bless you Steven and your family. For our friend Uchenna with time your wife will convert to Catholicism only do not give up. I promise to pray with you for her.

  14. A perfect reflection for today’s gospel. Each one of us will have uncertainty at times in faith – we are all fallen in nature. When uncertainty raises its ugly head, it’s how we act that is key. God knows our heart – we need to give it to Him and stay open to His graces in those uncertainties. Love the analogy of the ? versus the (.). Beautiful way to say we must be open to God!! Thank you for sharing your faith and talents with us.

  15. Steven, you and several others on this blog are very talented writers. I really like reading/reflecting the gospels the not so obvious light. (The other 10) Very insightful. And kudos to your wife and her editing. As I’ve stated before, many of these reflections are better than the homilies I hear at church. As Blessed Easter to all the writers and readers in this blog.
    Your brother in Christ

  16. What a great way to define uncertainty as a hopeful beginning and not an outcome of failure or lack of faith. Thank you for your enlightening reflection.

  17. Thank you Steven. I often feel I’m going in a very bad direction when I feel uncertainty in my faith. Your reflection gave me a hopeful perspective. Happy Easter season.

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