The Joy of Anticipation

Mary Visits ElizabethAll of today’s readings deal with joy. In my mind, joy is different from happiness. Joy is active, compared to the passivity I associate with happiness. I’ve been happy after eating a tasty meal, reading a good book, or using a coupon that saves a few dollars. In those circumstances, onlookers might not even know I was happy by my outward expression.

But joy? For most, joy is unmistakable. At its weakest, joy bestows a compulsion to smile, a brightening of the eyes, a chuckle at the back of the throat. At its strongest, it compels action: a delighted clapping of hands, a spontaneous hug, or even more explosive exuberance. The phrase “jump for joy” is rooted in the human experience.

This joy is evident in practically every moment of today’s selections. From Song of Songs: “Hark! my lover–here he comes springing across the mountains, leaping across the hills.”

From Zephaniah: “Shout for joy, O daughter Zion! Sing joyfully, O Israel! Be glad and exult with all your heart, O daughter Jerusalem!”

From the responsorial psalm: “Give thanks to the LORD on the harp; with the ten-stringed lyre chant his praises. Sing to him a new song; pluck the strings skillfully, with shouts of gladness.”

And from today’s Gospel selection from Luke, detailing the meeting of Mary (pregnant with Jesus) and her cousin Elizabeth (pregnant with John the Baptist), Elizabeth declares, “the infant in my womb leaped for joy.”

On this, the day of Christmas Eve Eve Eve Eve, we have less than 100 hours to go before we celebrate the birth of Christ. Less than 100 hours until the culmination of our Advent contemplations, our prayers, our charitable acts.

Many outsiders consider the faith to be joyless, because so much of our time is spent in soulful hymns, in calls to repent, in reflections on Christ’s suffering. But little could be further from the truth. To the faithful, joy is an integral part of life. We’ve been taught by Christ to live beyond the meager physical pleasures that the world would tempt us with, that it tries to say are “joy.”

Instead, we turn our attention and focus to that which really gives joy. The coming of the Savior. The realization that death need not hold any fear for us. The knowledge that we are part of the Body of Christ. The understanding that the Communion of Saints continues to play an active role in our lives. The feeling of the Spirit in our hearts and minds and lips.

Linguistically, the word “rejoice” literally stems from the idea of “cause joy to” or “experience joy.” It is active. The hymn “How Can I Keep From Singing?” speaks well to this overflowing bounty of active anticipation that fills our hearts, and today’s readings bolster that. Like the feeling of seeing a beloved, like the percussive exuberance of drums, like the ascendant voice of a choir, like the delight of an expectant mother, like the glee of seeing a favorite family member, like the gladness that comes from sharing that elation with others . . . all of this, and more, is true joy, and it vastly overshadows the fleeting temptations of the secular world.

In the time it’s taken you to read this, you’ve grown five minutes closer to the celebration of the birth of our Savior – with that most humble of origins, destined to bestow the greatest gift the world has ever known. If your heart isn’t quickening, if your lips aren’t curling in happiness, if there isn’t some part of you waiting, begging to act on that joy, then I humbly suggest reviewing today’s readings again. Then hug a loved one, send a card to a friend, visit a neighbor, sing a song, and . . . well, rejoice!

Today’s readings: Sg 2:8-14; Zep 3:14-18A; Ps 33:2-3,11-12,20-21; Lk 1:39-45

About the Author

Despite being a professional writer and editor for over 15 years, Steven Marsh is more-or-less winging it when it comes to writing about matters of faith. Steven entered the church in 2005, and since then he's been involved with various ministries, including Pre-Cana marriage prep for engaged couples, religious education for kindergarteners, and Stephen Ministry's one-on-one caregiving. Steven lives in Indiana with his wife and son. Despite having read the entirety of the Bible and the Catechism of the Catholic Church, he's still surprised at elements he rediscovers or reflects upon in new ways. The more Steven learns about the faith, the less he feels he knows; he's keen to emphasize that any mistakes are his own.

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12 Comments

  1. Good reflection! Defined for me what I have often noticed, that there is a difference in how satisfying joy is, compared to happiness. I’ve most often found that joy is heaven-sent, or maybe heaven-based, since happiness, too, is God’s gift. This year, with the extra week in Advent, has made Christmas more joyful, as if it were a week long. Merry Christmas, God bless all of you in Catholic Moment.

  2. Thank you Steven for your timely reflections. Indeed we need to rejoice for the coming of our savior. God bless and Merry Christmas

  3. This literally brought ‘tears of joy,’ when I read your reflection. What a beautiful summary of God’s intense love for us, and an invitation to give ourselves permission to think us worthy of His love. Merry Christmas.

  4. Hey Steven,

    Great reflection today.

    Twice you said that Jesus is our Savior. What did Jesus come to save the Jews from and what is He saving us from? And more specifically, what is Jesus saving you from?

    I guess, if you want this Christmas to be a joyous one, you have to realize that you need to be saved. If not, the next 100 hours will be a stressful time spent trying to figure out what to buy.

    Mark

  5. I do not know how to get this Joy. I pray daily and I am b still full of fear abouty kids and the hurting people around me I cannot help. I d not know how to feel Christ. I have been trying for years literally. Please pray for me ..I so long to trutruly believe and experience that joy. Even daily mass seems to make no difference. What am I doing wtong?

  6. Thank you all for the kind words.

    Anne, my heart goes out to you, and I will keep you in my prayers. I don’t have any simple answer for the situation you’re going through, but I have some insight that might help.

    First, know that some of the holiest people ahave had times of spiritual dryness. Saint Teresa of Calcutta struggled for years trying to reach that connection with God, even as she worked tirelessly for others. (There’s a good blog post about her troubles here.) Even Christ questioned that connection at his darkest hour: “My God, My God, why have you forsaken me?” (Matthew 27:46). But even in those dark times, they continued to do the Lord’s will, as difficult as it must have been.

    My other piece of insight is to try to see to what extent you can subdue your fear. There are many Bible verses encouraging us not to be afraid. If God is with us, who can be against us? Fear is a primal emotion that, working properly, spurs us to action. “Is that a tiger? My fear tells me I should either fight it or run away.” Fear for its own sake doesn’t do much good, in the same way that our brain telling us, “THIS FRYING PAN IS HOT!!!!” doesn’t do any good if it isn’t accompanied by the instinctual jerking away of the hand.

    So, to the best of your ability, see how you can act upon your fear. For example, if you’re concerned about your loved ones’ safety, pray for them and act as you’re able to make their situation safer (helping them make good choices, giving them safe places to stay, etc.). Prepare — if possible — for contingencies if your worst fears are realized. Then, if you’ve done as much as you can, recognize that the fear isn’t useful, and ignore it as much as you can. (I had an old car whose “Check Engine” light was constantly on, regardless of what repairs were done, whether we took it to a mechanic, etc. Eventually I just ignored it, and it drove fine for the rest of its life, until it was destroyed by a hurricane.)

    If you’ve acted on your fear as best you can, then the situation is in God’s hands. Trust in His judgment and plan for your life and the lives of those around you, and pray — as you’re able — for insight to see problems, courage to act, and strength to live through whatever happens.

    Finally, I encourage you to talk to someone else. If you haven’t raised these concerns with your parish priest (or perhaps a trusted deacon or parish-affiliated spiritual advisor), see if you can schedule an appointment. Tending to the spiritual needs of their flock is one of the principle tasks for the clergy. You might also see if there is a Catholic-affiliated Stephen Ministry program in your area, who might be able to provide a free long-term caregiver who would gladly talk with you and walk with you and Christ during this difficult time. (Even if there isn’t one in your parish, there may be one at a nearby parish that can help.) If your concerns are for others, encourage them to talk to someone else. (The Stephen Ministry program is a nondenominational Christian program, so even if your loved ones aren’t Catholic — but have another Christian faith tradition — they may still be able to find someone to help.)

    I hope this helps. Please know that you’re not alone, and I pray you find the comfort, peace, and connection with God you’re desperately seeking.

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