‘Walk-up’ to Christ

Life is so simple really. We, ourselves, complicate it.

It can be joyous and beautiful, and at other times tough and painful, but deep down when you look at it, life is simple. It is about love. Choosing to love, and letting yourself be loved. So many things have been done because of love. Sometimes it’s to protect those we love – our families and friends. Other times we do things to others because of a lack of love.

People have done great things out of love, helping so many people. But yet wars have also been fought.  Families have been destroyed. A teen sits alone in despair, years of being picked on or alienated because he or she is different, they don’t look a certain way, or act a certain way. They are contemplating taking their own life, or perhaps the lives of those around them, just to get back at them, at society. All because they are yearning for love.

It’s simply really. It doesn’t take a PhD to see this. We want love. We want time with those we love, and in today world we often have neither.

Underneath all the distractions, life is simple. Our faith is simple. It’s about love. We’re the ones who complicate it.

In our imperfectness, we twist love in so many different ways so that it becomes a mangled mess, a shell of its former self. I love to observe things, and I love to observe people. I see this every day, out and about, the love that is there around, and in particular those that are yearning for love. Those lonely souls who are calling out for help. Too often we get caught up in the complexity that we create.

I see the simplicity, but I too often don’t take the simple actions. A simple smile and a ‘Hello’. You look at the fallout from the school shooting in Florida a month ago, and just the other day students in schools around the nation conducted walkouts in protest. But many students, urged by parents of some of the fallen in Florida chose to do a ‘walk-up’… Not walking out of class, but instead walking up to those lonely souls, sitting with them at lunch, perhaps thanking someone, getting to know others who differ from them. I don’t know how many students actually chose to do this, but I like the thought of it. Simple acts of kindness, simple acts of love towards each other.

This is what our Father in Heaven did to us. He walked-up… He walked-up to us through His Son. You can analyze the readings to your hearts content today, there is so much packed into them. You can stew and stew about a particular verse, trying to understand, and that is totally fine. It is important to think and to seek meaning, especially with how sacred Scripture is written with all God has filled it with.

But when I look at the readings and reflect, I seek out the simplicity, simple things. God comes to us in simple ways. And so with today’s readings, God saw that His initial Covenant was not working.  He knew that we needed Him in our hearts, written into our very heart and soul if we were ever to be saved. He had to become a part of us – literally. He loves us so much, and what is the greatest form of love? Sacrifice. He had to become flesh and He chose to walk-up to us, to reach out to us as a Man, in the flesh, one of us.

And Jesus had emotions and feelings like us. He had to suffer like us, and for us, and learn obedience from that. He came to be with the lonely souls, and through His sacrifice, through His Eucharist, He comes to our lonely souls every day. When we walk-up to Him, He’s in turn walking-up to us. Through this sacrifice 2000 years ago and the same sacrifice that happens in every Mass, every time we receive Him in Communion, God’s new Covenant is written into our hearts, into our very soul, just as He told Jeremiah all those millennia ago.

But what about all the suffering and the pain and unfairness we encounter?  It hurts, it really does. I see the things we have to deal with today, the things our youth must deal with. I see how we treat each other, and how we treat our children. I see the people, the kids yearning for help only to spiral down the pit of despair, thinking there is no way out. I see the rage that people feel and exude towards one other. I see the pain in people’s eyes.

I don’t have an answer for as to why any of it happens.  The only thing I can tell you, the only thing I can do in these times is to let the it bring me closer to God, and to let it teach me obedience to Christ, just as “Son though He was, He learned obedience from what He suffered…”

Walk-up to Christ, don’t walk-out on Him, embrace His simplicity and let His love be written in your heart. We don’t have to overthink it. It doesn’t get any simpler than that really. Perhaps then, by Jesus leading us closer to Him, through our pain, we will someday have peace, and understand.

About the Author

My name is Joe LaCombe, and I am a Software Developer in Fishers, Indiana in the USA. My wife Kristy and I have been married for 19 years and we have an awesome boy, Joseph, who is in 5th Grade! We are members of St. Elizabeth Seton Parish in Carmel, Indiana where we volunteer with various adult faith ministries. I love writing, and spending time with my family out in the nature that God created, and contemplating His wonders. I find a special connection with God in the silence and little things of everyday life, and I love sharing those experiences with all of you.

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17 Comments

  1. Good teaching this is. Love is the greatest message that mankind should embrace. Jesus so loved us that he sacrificed his life for us.

  2. Wow, very nice reflection Joe. I’m the lector tomorrow and was reviewing the readings and reflections to prepare. I thought I was reading a Priest’s reflection! Enjoy your little Joseph, our children are the light our inspiration for a firm Godly life on this earth. My wife and I are so fortunate to have four beautiful kids given to us from God through the sacrament of marriage, with the eldest in the seminary. Keep up the good race and look forward to your future thoughts.

  3. Beautiful reflection as always Joe! Looking forward to read your reflection again next Sunday! God bless you! ?

  4. Very inspiring and insightful. Our Christian faith is all about love – dying a little for one another, especially the most needy of our attention.

  5. This is a very inspiring reflection. Yes, we need to pay back for the Love God gave us. To love one another, our family, children neighbors and extended family members. I feel indebted to love to those around us.

  6. So beautiful, Joe. When we are tempted to accuse or assign blame, we must ask Christ to help us find ways to do as he instructed the disciples at the Last Supper, to love our neighbor as he loves us. By reaching out to others in simple ways, I agree that is key. Thank you for the reminder.

  7. This is so refreshing and timely. It is try’s that loving us and can be so simple. Two years ago I had a double lung transplant and lived near the hospital for 3 months following to do daily rehab. I spent a lot of time in elevators and noticed how it appeared that everyone riding in elevators always seem to be looking at the floor or straight ahead ignoring the other riders. I began to make it my mission to acknowledge all the passengers I ride with with a smile, a good morning etc. I was amazed that a single greeting could have the power to bring life to that little group of individuals. So yes it can be just as simple as a friendly greeting. Look around and see where you can touch your world. Great reflection. Thank you

  8. Thanks be to God,Our lady of perpetual help come to our aid o loving mother and show us how to love .

  9. This message really spoke to me. The simplicity of Gods Love for us. I am going to share your passage with my 7th grade Religious Ed kids tonight! ?

  10. Hello Joe – awesome reflection as always. Nothing could be simpler than loving – yet simple isn’t always easy, especially in the context of love when it’s just so much easier to point fingers, fall into despair, or hate. Thank you for the reminder that there are always small opportunities to show love. God bless you and your family.

  11. Hello Joe, I agree with you that life is simple and beautiful, but we complicate it most of the time. We should focus on the love of God and walk towards Him through His son Jesus. We can do this be being kind and helpful to others whenever opportunity arise. God bless you and your family. Continue to share with to others your inspiring reflections.

  12. Carol, what a wonderful message! I love your elevator mission! I think that just getting acknowledged means a lot to us, and so being smiled at and greeted shows that we are important enough to be noticed, acknowledged, and spoken to. I will make it my mission to greet passersby on a road I walk on. Not such a congested road that it’s filled with people, but I always see someone on that road, even as many as 5 people. I will greet them all. Thank you for the inspiration, Carol! I hope that you have fully recovered and I pray that you will be fully healthy!

  13. Joe, I totally agree with you. We need to be loved, and spend time with the ones we love. In a previous reflection, you mentioned the children and teens of today struggling. I remember that, because I am proposing the same answer now that I proposed before. The US needs longer paid parental leave than it currently has. 12 weeks of unpaid leave forces some parents to go back to work too early. Mothers before they have fully healed, and before breastfeeding has been fully established (8 weeks for the latter). A longer paid parental leave would allow parents to bond with their babies, thereby setting up a bond of love for a lifetime. I don’t understand how a country that touts “family values” all the time refuses to give a long, PAID, patental leave.

    Maybe Americans should invest in their children’s future by lobbying the government for humane parental leave.

  14. Joe, You always break it down to the simplistic. For me this is one of your best. My day has changed and my thoughts have changed to simple walk-ups all over the place. God Bless you…and keep this stuff coming I know it helps us all. Thank you

  15. Thank you for boiling it down for me. All the rules are overwhelming sometimes. Your writing makes me recollect that Jesus said there are two simple and most important commandments… To love God with all my heart and to love others as myself. I can do that! Thanks 🙂

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