Tuesday, March 8. Our Daily Bread

Our Daily Bread

Do you know a child who is picky about what she eats?  I do.  If she was allowed to fix her own plate, guess what would be on it.  Two cookies, a donut, several pieces of candy, and a large scoop of ice cream.  That’s why she needs a mother to fix her plate for her.

Guess what.  Most of us are picky little kids when it comes to fixing our “plates of life” each day.  We want lots of good things happen to us, everyone to treat us kindly, many kudos, and, of course, no pain or suffering.  Thankfully we have a God who fixes our plates for us each day because he knows what’s best for us.  A “candy and cake” diet will not only spoil us but ruin our spiritual health.

With this in mind, we read Jesus’ exhortation on prayer today (Matthew 6:7-15).

In praying, do not babble like the pagans, who think that they will be heard because of their many words. Do not be like them.  Your Father knows what you need before you ask him.”

Do you know anyone who loves to hear themselves talk?  When you ask them how they are doing, you open the door to an endless monologue.  At some point during their babbling, you shut them off and just put up with the noise.  Apparently, the pagans of Jesus day prayed this way.  Their prayer was an endless monologue.  There was no room for God to say anything.  Maybe they thought that if they bombarded him with enough words, he’d give them what they wanted just to shut them up. Do we ever pray this way?  Do we have our catalog of prayers that we say each day thinking they have the magic power to twist God’s arm?   Are we babblers?

Having warned against babbling, Jesus then taught them the Our Father.

Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name…”

The second half of the prayer is the “gimme” part.

Give us this day our daily bread…”

Just seven words cover all the bases—three seconds to recite if prayed slowly. What are we doing in this prayer?  Aren’t we asking God to “fix our plates” for the day?  Aren’t we telling him that he knows what best for us? There will be a few scoops of blessings that make us feel good, a helping of pain and suffering shaped like a cross, and a handful of opportunities for serving him during the day.  It is for us to be dutiful children and gladly “eat” whatever he chooses to put on our plates.  Do we find ourselves being picky children who want to push aside the cross because it doesn’t appeal to us?  Or do we “eat” it with a grouchy look on our faces?  Do we think that we know better than God what to put on our plates?

Three seconds doesn’t sound like time enough to ask God for the list of needs that we have.  What do we do after that?  Trust in Him!  As our day unfolds, we trust that whatever comes our way is part of the “daily bread” we asked for.  We ask his help in accepting our lives as they are, especially the unpleasant parts.

Yesterday was about fasting.  Today is about prayer.  Let’s examine our prayer lives.  Are we babbling?  Do we take time just to listen to God’s voice?  Do we spend time thanking him even for the unpleasant things he allows to come our way?

One does not live by bread alone…” (Matthew 4:4).  

About the Author

Author Bob Garvey lives in Louisville, Kentucky. He has a master’s degree in religious education and has been an active leader in the Catholic charismatic renewal for forty years. After retiring as a high school teacher, he began to write daily commentaries on the Church’s liturgical readings and other topics relevant to Catholic spirituality. He is married to Linda, has three daughters and four grandchildren.

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8 Comments

  1. Simple and beautiful. The best and healthiest portions are vegetables yet they are most detested especially by kids.

  2. Thank you Bob for a great reflection. Yes, we all can be picky children who concentrate on wants, but like good parents, God gives us a balanced diet of nutrition that covers all the bases – our needs. When my mother used to push me as a kid to eat certain veggies that I did not really like, she always said they were good for me. I must have learned a lesson because I still eat some veggies only because I came to realise that they ARE good for me. And I think that is the way God operates with us. Eventually we can be trained well enough to believe that God provides for our needs not our wants. And even when we get an extra helping of the cross, His Cross, sometimes, that can be good for us – it is His gift to us to gain an active share in the real Jesus, the one who died for our sins. From Frank Callinan (Brisbane, Australia)

  3. Thank you Bob for a timely reflection during this Lenten period. Dear Lord, may you fill our plates with repentance, thanksgiving, and alms giving during this time. Let us draw near to you dear Lord. Amen.

  4. Straight up excellent lenten reflection. This is how we are to pray…are we paying attention…are we babbling…what is the bread we are eating. Wake up call! Thank you Bob

  5. You hit the nail on the head with this beautifully written reflection Bob. Thank you for your thoughtful words.

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