Thursday, September 19, 2019 – Pray for Your Loved Ones


Remember the hymn, “Amazing Grace” that we sing at mass sometimes?

“Amazing grace how sweet the sound that saved a wretch like me … I once was lost but now am found … was blind but now I see.”  

This week has several Gospel readings about the parables of the lost sheep, the lost coin, and the prodigal son. These readings emphasize finding the lost, repentant sinners, and the love and forgiveness of our Lord God towards all of us, who come to Him through the sacraments of confession and holy Eucharist.

My elder brother was a straight A student at a Jesuit run boys school. He found a vocation for the priesthood during his high school years. Afterwards, he joined the Jesuits seminary and was preparing for the priesthood, for a period of 10 years. He was away from home and our family, working with the Lord to spread the Word, until one day, after much deliberation, he decided to discontinue his vocation. This was a decision that broke the hearts of my devout parents, who pray for vocations every single day.

For a long time after my brother’s return home, I noticed his indifference to the church and his less than positive opinions about the Catholic faith, which hurt my family and I so much.

After a lot of disagreements and discussions, I finally resorted to the best solution. PRAYER. It has been 6 years now and my brother is back in church and is a faithful, practicing Catholic again!

As we go through our lives, and responsibilities of family, jobs, and finances – emotional instability, grief and health issues crop up. Our coping mechanisms often fail, and then we sometimes resort to a mentality of being victims, and look to blame someone for our current situation and circumstances. Most often it ends up being the Lord, and our dissatisfaction with His ways of managing our life, which in fact are often the consequences of our own decisions. This vicious cycle of blame and unhappiness causes many of our own friends and family to lose the faith.

Let us pray today for all of our near and dear ones who have strayed from the faith, and fallen into the fad of atheism or sin.

Help them Lord, to see Your light and return to You with renewed hearts. Help them to encounter You, Lord Jesus, through our unceasing prayers and good deeds.

Amen

About the Author

Hello! I’m Dr Analise Maria D’ Mello, (MBBS, MS obgyn, DNB) from the beautiful state of Goa in India. I was born and raised in a Roman Catholic family, learning my prayers, catechism and Catholic values from my parents and grandmothers. I am currently practicing as an obstetrician and gynecologist for 3 years since my residency. I often speak on anti-abortion to college students and married couples, and counsel distressed pregnant women with appropriate medical advice. I am part of the St Luke's Medical Guild of Catholic Doctors in my state providing services in prisons, and Lenten and advent retreats for medical professionals and their families.

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16 Comments

  1. Welcome to A Catholic Moment, Dr Analise Maria D’ Mello! We are happy to have you.

    Yes, let us pray for those who have strayed from the faith!

    Thank you for your reflection, and may the good Lord continue to bless you and your family!

  2. Thank you Dr. Maria, we indeed have to pray for our loved ones who have strayed from the faith. May the Light of Christ bring them back to the faith

  3. Welcome and thank you Dr. We pray for the lost ones to see the light of Christ. He waits with grace and patience for their return. Blessings!

  4. Thank you Dr. Maria.
    I have never come this close to an Indian catholic Christian. I hope through you I’ll come to know more about their Catholic faith and how they do to cope in life better than we Africans.

  5. Welcome Dr. Analise Maria D’Mello. I look forward to hearing more from you…. and hoping some stories will be in relation to your amazing practice as a doctor who is fighting for the life of others.

  6. Welcome, Doctor. Thank you for sharing the story of your brother. I’m happy to hear he has returned to his faith. My father was agnostic. I always prayed he would come to believe before he died. We lost him this past January. I pray he accepted our Lord when he met him face to face and is with him now or in Pergatory preparing to be with Him.

  7. Thank you Dr. Maria. Your reflection is very helpful and encouraging to me as this can describe my husband, who has been discouraged and unhappy and has therefore turned away from the Lord on several occasions. God is always drawing him back and I feel certain God calls us to stand in the gap and pray for those loved ones. Welcome to A Catholic Moment, I love having a Catholic family all around the world!

  8. Thank you for sharing this story with us Dr Analise Maria D’ Mello. God is so merciful and forgiving.
    Your brother must have had some challenging experiences in the seminary – we know that even people who are deeply involved in the church – can be unchristian – can be unforgiving, jealous, greedy, uncharitable – disappointing – even priests. But God is steadfast and always loving and forgiving. He blesses us abundantly and listens to our prayers. So glad your brother is back!
    On a side, I saw a little of Goa, India in a movie – and it is on my ‘bucket list’ of places I still need to visit – looks beautiful!

  9. Thank you Dr Analise for the touching personal reflection it was wonderful that our fellow Goan has so much to offer to build our faith.God bless your work

  10. Welcome to a Catholic Moment Analise.Your faith and love for the Lord are evident from your first reflection on this site.I look forward to reading more.God Bless you and the great work that you do.

  11. Thanks a lot Doctor.May the Lord bless you and give you more time to share your insights in his Holly word

  12. Thank you for your heartfelt reflection Dr. D’Mello. Prayer works!!! After 10 Year I came back to the Lord and in communion with the Catholic Church. Thank God for confession & the Eucharist. Prayer is always the answer!

    Look forward to you next reflection. Blessings & Joy!

  13. A heartfelt and loving welcome to you, Dr Maria. I look forward to read your next reflection and am thankful you have this voice hear. How joyous your brother must be to have come home! Please continue giving to us, we want to receive.

  14. Wow! First Mark and now Analise. Commenters that became reflection writers.

    In this case, I nominate Chris Wheeler. She has a lot of insight from her years spent working at a parish, and subsequently being hurt by it. Sometimes her comments were on Mary Ortwein’s level of depth! I miss your comments, Chris! May the Lord bless you!

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