God’s Grace & Persistence in Prayer

It makes you wonder why Saint Paul was declared a saint, after you read his words in today’s first reading for Mass today.  “O stupid Galatians! … Are you so stupid?”  Pope Francis is probably cringing a bit inside while these words are read at Mass today.  He sent a tweet out in the past that said:   “Let us ask the Lord for the grace not to speak badly of others, not to criticize, not to gossip, but rather to love everyone.”

That is an ideal that even Saint Paul had trouble living up to.  The pope is right of course, but we do not always live up the highest standard of Christian behavior, that’s for sure.  We strive for perfection in all that we do, but we always fall a little short of it.  And yet, this is exactly the way it should be.  Jesus is more perfect than we are, and it is a good thing that He is the only perfect person that has ever lived.  What would we need God’s grace for if we were already perfect?  That is really what today’s readings for Mass is all about.  God’s grace that is bestowed upon us, through the action of the Holy Spirit.

Saint Paul also makes a really good point about the true nature of the Holy Spirit, toward the end of the first reading from the book of Galatians:

“Does, then, the one who supplies the Spirit to you and works mighty deeds among you do so from works of the law or from faith in what you heard?”

And this verse ties right on into the last verse of today’s gospel:

“If you then, who are wicked, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him?”

The entire gospel today is about prayer.  About persistence in prayer and also about asking God for what you need.  God isn’t a vending machine though, that you can put in a lot of time and effort requesting things from Him and expect that you will receive it, just because of your efforts.  It just doesn’t work that way.

Have you ever heard the expression, “Thank God for unanswered prayers?”  Sometimes we ask for things that are not right for us, or those we love.  How do we know what is right?  We can only see the present moment.  God sees well into the future and knows how everything will turn out, so He ignores our prayers sometimes for our own good.  It could be that He has something even better in mind for us!

It is also tragic when illness and death occurs though. We tend to pray heavily to God during these times and things do not always turn out the way that we would like them to.  There are reasons behind these things too though, that we are unaware of.

We were put here on this earth to love, honor and serve God.  Each of us has a mission, a purpose for living.  We may not even recognize what it is until we reach heaven.  Our mission, or our purpose in life, may be accomplished quickly like a flash of light, or slowly like a long burning ember.

One last thought about the gospel today.  Jesus said, “How much more will the Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him?”  If we pray for something, more often than not, God answers our prayers through us.  He simply makes us aware of what to do, through grace, which is an action of the Holy Spirit.  We may pray a lot about a situation, even for a long time, and then suddenly in a moment of inspiration, the Holy Spirit will reveal to you, the solution to your problem.  It is a knowledge that we do not have on our own.  It comes out of nowhere, like a light bulb that is suddenly turned on, and then everything makes sense.  It all falls into place.  The solution was right there in front of you the whole time, but you did not recognize it.  It took God’s grace to reveal this to you.  (This is called actual grace by the way.)

How do you know if a particular revelation from the Holy Spirit is real?  If it is a genuine gift of grace it will bring a deep down sense of peace, and certainty.  Grace will settle deeply into your soul and heal it.  This is the two clear indicators of a gift of actual grace from God.  Also, the Holy Spirit will never upset you, cause division, make you question yourself, or try to lead you to believe something, or do something that is contrary to the gospel or Catholic teaching.  You also will never hear the Holy Spirit speak audibly.  When he speaks, it is more of a sharing of knowledge or insight that you did not have before.

We do need to be careful what we pray for though, because we might just get it and then it turn out not to be the blessing in our lives that we thought it would be.  This is also God’s way of teaching us that He really does know what is best for us, in the long run.

 

Daily Mass Readings:  Galatians 3: 1-5 / Luke 1: 69-75 / Luke 11: 5-13

 

NOTE TO OUR READERS:  Mary Ortwien usually writes the Thursday reflection for A Catholic Moment, but her home recently burned down.  Her family is safe, but she lost her home and just about everything in it.  Would you please remember Mary in your prayers during the coming weeks?

About the Author

Hello! My name is Laura Kazlas. As a child, I was raised in an atheist family, but came to believe in God when I was 12 years old. I was baptized because of the words that I read in the bible. I later became a Catholic because of the Mass. The first time my husband brought me to Mass, I thought it was the most holy, beautiful sense of worshiping God that I had ever experienced. I still do! My husband John and I have been married for 37 years. We have a son, a daughter, and two granddaughters. We are in the process of adopting a three year old little girl. We live in Salem, Oregon in the United States. I currently serve as the program coordinator for Catholic ministry at a local maximum security men's prison. I‘m also a supervisor for Mount Angel Seminary’s field education program, in Oregon.

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31 Comments

  1. Thanks for your insights about prayer, Laura. Your article gave me a better understanding of the Holy Spirit and that of actual grace. What is so difficult with faith is that you have to rely on believing without really seeing. There are instances in life that brings about grief and I really wish I could talk to God face to face just to have an answer to all my queries. And then this article! I believe this is an answered prayer. Thank so much for explaining how the Holy Spirit works in our prayers. By the way, sorry to hear about what happened to Mary. I will include her and her family in my prayers.

  2. Thank you Laura; you made me understand about “actual grace”.
    Really, we need the Holy Spirit to fire us up in a constant and persistent prayer.

    Thank you for letting us know about Mary. We are so sorry to hear about it.
    Surely, we will include her too in our prayers. Thanks God that she and her family were safe! We just miss her too in her regular reflections.

    Thanks

  3. Thank you Laura. Very insightful of the Holy Spirit, another great a catholic moment daily reflection writer. To Mary and her family, very sorry “pole sana”. She is in my daily prayers. God bless.

  4. Answered prayers through a particular revelation / idea from the Holy Spirit
    I’m a living testimony of that
    I share with you one of such experiences
    I was in my third year in the university, For some reason, I had to resit an exam, after writing the written aspect, next was the oral exam. The morning of the exams, I was wondering what I would be asked. All of a sudden I remembered a certain lecturer mentioned in class that in an oral exam, you may be asked what you had for breakfast, the class of that food, then explain in details the process of digestion of that food. I quickly revised digestion of a particular food and headed for the examination hall. Lo and behold, my examiner was that same lecturer and my exam question goes thus:
    What did you have for breakfast? Which class of food is it? Explain in detail the digestive process.
    At that point, I said God is great and indeed answers prayers. This and other experiences have reinforced my belief in the existence of God and the fact that he hears and answers our prayers.
    For me, if my prayers are not answered, it may be because I did not pray well hence the need to pray again, this is where persistence in prayer comes to play or it is not yet time for God to give me what I asked for hence the need to continue to pray, again persistence in prayer come to play or God doesn’t want to give me what I asked for because it’s not good for me hence the need to pray to understand that.
    Sorry about what happened to Mary’s house. Thanks to God she and her family are safe. She will be in my prayers.

  5. Thanks Laura.
    Our thoughts and prayers are with you Mary. May this tragedy bring you ever closer to God and not away from Him. Remember what Job went through and God was with him throughout,. We don’t know why these things happen but do know that He is there with you.

  6. Thanks Laura for this very insightful message about prayer and persistence in prayer gives better results. I am a witness to this in very many occasions. A case in mind is a time when I needed new clothes and one of my relatives brought me a new skirt suit she had made in her shop. Let us all pray for Mary who has lost her home through fire that God will provide a new home for her. Thanks to God that they are all safe. Glory be to God. God bless you Laura for your wonderful message

  7. Oh Mary, I’m so sorry to hear about your home. You poor soul. So grateful that you’re family are all safe. I’m praying for you all. May God comfort and hold you all. You are such a gifted kind lady.
    Laura, thank you so much fabulous reflection! Really appreciate your detailed knowledge on the Holy Spirit wonderful! We need to remember to always turn to our heavenly Father with deep trust, hope and love. He will never let us down. Praise the Lord!
    God bless you always.

  8. Dear Mary, we were reading about Job last week. After he was tested he was rewarded. I’m praying that happens to you.
    Bob in Florida

  9. Thank you Laura! Mary, so sorry to hear, about your home but so grateful to God that no one was hurt. We all will be, praying for you. Please let us, know, if there’s anything else we can do.

  10. Thank you Laura for this enlightening reflection. Gods grace is always present and with “persistent prayer” it seems the Holy Spirit always shines through with the help we ask for. So very sorry to hear about Marys home burning. I will keep her in my prayers.

  11. I stumbled upon a ‘Catholic Moment’ back in February when a negative change occurred in my life.
    The daily reflection in a ‘Catholic Moment’ is something I look forward to reading each day.
    Thank you for bringing this message to us.

  12. Thank you for this beautiful reflection.
    God bless Mary and her family during this tragedy. Her faith in God will see her through.
    Have a blessed day.

  13. Laura, There are so many points you make in this reflection about prayer and grace that I can relate to that it felt like it was written for me. I feel so blessed because I have experienced God’s grace since I was little. I have experienced so many unanswered prayers and so many deeply answered prayers, full of the indescribable peace you speak of, that it makes me trust in His complete love. Thank you for your insight. God bless you.
    I will fully pray for Mary and her family to feel God’s love and peace during this difficult time. She is one of my favorite writers on Catholic Moment.

  14. Dear Laura, I always enjoy the reflections from A Catholic Moment, but the one today particularly resonated. My sincere thanks to you and all the authors for your ministry. Blessings to you all. Georgia Frey

  15. Thank you for this beautiful reflection, Laura. I love what you say about the Holy Spirit. Many prayers for Mary in this difficult time.

  16. Thank you Laura for a beautiful reflection. It certainly brought to light in my own life that God has a reason for unanswered prayers. For our family it turned out to be a blessing.

    Is there a collection we can set up through all of us followers to help Mary for all her losses.

    Laura maybe you can set up a Go Fund Me account for Mary since you have all her personal information. Please let us all know.
    Thank you.
    Nancy

  17. Thank you Laura. Your reflections always speak to my heart
    And bring me closer to GOD. I am so very grateful that
    This site was brought to my attention. Please assure Mary that many
    of us are praying for her and her family and that GOD’s comfort
    And Love remains at their side during this difficult time. Blessings to
    You and Mary.

  18. I found this reflection very helpful . I am visiting my sister who left the church after her marriage ended and she was left with three boy’s under 5years old. She became a protestant and started to try to save my husband and me. This is many years later she is very critical of our church . She believes Mary was not a virgin , that we are to pray only to God that is what Jesus said. That Our Lady of Fatima was seen by many , but John Smith saw an angel and did what he did . That Mary’s appearances are from the same source, I don’t have to say what she thinks of the rosary. Pray for me to be silent and not to question why she thinks that Catholics don’t go by God’s word , that the catholic church added it all and we just go along blindly believing .

  19. Laura, very well written. Thank you. I’m 62 years old and still don’t know God’s purpose of me. Very frustrating.
    God Bless

  20. Dear Laura, upon first reading your reflection, my thought was AWESOME! I thought wow, amazing how you tied Paul’s letter to the Galatians to the last verse of the Gospel of Luke. I’ve read this gospel many many times and the last verse reminds me to keep asking for the gift of the Holy Spirit, and everything else will fall into place. I have no doubt that is what Mary is praying for during this time of devastation. Lord Jesus, send your Holy Spirit to comfort Mary and her family during the weeks ahead. Give them your strength to begin again. Thank you. Amen ?

    For me, I keep praying Lord, Your Will Be Done.

  21. Thank you Laura for this beautiful reflection this morning. Mary, remember what Job went through. God will not let you down. My prayers go to you and your family Mary.

  22. Please let us, the community of A Catholic Moment, know how we may assist Mary during this time of need. She has done so much for us by tending to our spiritual understanding, how may we help her?

  23. Thank you for the helpful insight, every time I think that the readings or gospel are to difficult to understand or I think that I am not sure of the message… along comes the Daily Comment to help me see with clarity and to find understanding. Thank you. Prayers for Mary and her family and all of the comment readers are offered to the Lord. When I feel the need to defend my Christian Catholic faith to family and friends, I simply say: I am a Christian, if you have a problem with that then that is your concern. I do not require your approval as to how and where I worship and my peace with the Lord is in my heart and soul. I pray that you too are faithful Christians and find your peace with the Lord. That usually ends the conversation or sometimes opens it up for positive discussion. The peace, order and faithfulness of the Mass inspire me to try harder to do what Jesus would do in this life.

  24. I am deeply touched with your comments today. Thank you, Laura (and others), for subbing for me. Yes, this is a Job time for me, but also a time rich in Grace and love from many people. I am OK, coping, and surrounded by the caring of family, parish, and community. They are taking care of practical needs. Nonetheless, I need, welcome, and treasure your prayers and expressions of caring. I will return to writing for A Catholic Moment as soon as there is a bit of order in my life. Meanwhile, I treasure your prayers.
    Mary Ortwein

  25. Didn’t someone famous named James, said: show me your faith, and I’ll show you my works? Well, let’s show our faith by donating to a “gofundme fund”; set by somebody in “acatholic.org” for our dear Mary.
    That would be a great complement to our prayers and well wishers. Don’t you think?
    I’m willing and ready to cooperate.

  26. Hello everyone! I spoke with Mary earlier today and she has received such an outpouring of support from her parish and local community. Along with her insurance, she expects that she will be able to put her household back together soon. Thank you for your kindness and willingness to help her though. It shows that you care about Mary, even if it is through the internet. Your comments are a beautiful testimony as to how she has touched your life!

  27. I spoke with Mary earlier today and she has received such an outpouring of support from her parish and local community. Along with her insurance, she expects that she will be able to put her household back together soon. Thank you for your kindness and willingness to help her though. It shows that you care about Mary, even if it is through the internet. Your comments are a beautiful testimony as to how she has touched your life!

  28. I spoke with Mary earlier today and she has received such an outpouring of support from her parish and local community. Along with her insurance, she expects that she will be able to put her household back together soon. Thank you for your kindness and willingness to help her though. It shows that you care about Mary, even if it is through the internet. Your comments are a beautiful testimony as to how she has touched your life!

  29. Thank you Laura for your inspirational reflection that has inspired and strengthened my faith further.You raised so many points in this reflection like persistence in prayer,thanksgiving for unanswered prayers,the need to love,honour and serve God,and actual grace which all keyed to my understanding and belief in the ‘faith journey.’ I have not always believed in the use of material possessions and prosperity to measure God’s love and faithfulness;if they come,fine and if they don’t,so be it.As for God answering prayers,He does.I have had so many moments of helplessness and hopelessness in my life that, out of the blue,some help or relief emerged.
    Thank you also for bringing to our knowledge the situation of Mary.Ever since her absence on the ‘a catholic moment,’I have been suspicious.Initially I thought she went on a course or research,until one fateful Wednesday,October 3,2018 that she commented on Steven March’s reflection,and said something about lightening strike and fire.That really confirmed my suspicion but I still didn’t wan’t to be speculative.Sometimes I wonder why bad things happen to beautiful and good people like Mary.I suspect it’s all part of the JOURNEY OF FAITH-never always a smooth ride.I pray that God will comfort and strengthen her and her family in the recent condition.And that she is going to come out if it a better,happier,stronger and more faithful person.Have a nice and blessed day!

  30. Thank U Kaz Really We Need Not To Complain about Our Unanswered Prayers To Take Time And Thank God ,plenty Are Given Us Even Before We Raise Our Voices,for Mary Iam Exceedingly Sorry God Who Protects Her And Her Family Will Work Her Through ,she Is Gods Servant ,let It Be Done ;am Selestine From Uganda

  31. Thank you Laura, for what you have done bringing the word of God closer to us and helping us grow in our faith through all the Catholic Moment writers. That audacious step you took to found Catholic Moment has brought a lot of consolations into my live, I suppose to other readers’ lives, too. As always, you never fail to speak directly to my heart with your well-worded and spiritually inspired reflection. I pray this words remain in us and steer me into action. For Mary, God will help her rise above the valley she is in now to the mountain top. She is in my thought and prayers. Let her remain steadfast in her faith.

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