And the Lord God said, let there be sex. And there was sex. And babies soon followed.
OK, I made that up.
But when you think about how God communicated to our fathers in the faith, especially in the Old Testament – and by extension, I would argue, to our present generation – it’s not hard to imagine Him urging us to have sex.
Be fertile and multiply fill the earth! (GN 9)
Those are his words in today’s first reading for Noah, who had just survived 40 days of rain and deadly floods … and is now charged with starting over.
Be fertile and multiply … and fill the earth!
Those were also the words God spoke to the first man and woman he created – on Day 6, I believe – in the first story of creation.
From that point on, God gave a similar message to Abraham (look up at the sky and count the stars if you can … just so, shall your descendants be.)
In other words, time to get busy old man!
Again, I exaggerate.
But there is truth to this command from God for married couples to be fertile and multiply. It really cannot be overstated – mankind’s very future depends on this single act of sexual intercourse which has the potential to result in a child.
Seems rather unbelievable to have to write these things, but you see what has happened in places like China, where the state imposed a strict policy on children – forcing abortions while trying to limit the number of children. Today, there are many media reports that China has a serious issue on its hand with a population that is not replacing itself, has too many males, not enough females – and certainly is not providing enough workers to fill the jobs of the future.
China is not the only nation to have these problems. Other countries are battling the same issue with young couples that are choosing to delay having children or not having them at all. Some nations are offering cash bonuses for couples willing to “be fertile and multiply.”
We will see how that goes.
All of this craziness can be partially blamed on one of the greatest lies of our lifetime … the fear of “over-population” and the rise of a contraceptive and abortive culture that has led to the devaluation of human life.
Babies are not seen as blessings any more (by some) but as commodities to plan for, prevent or extinguish in order to satisfy the expectations, desires or perceived hardships of mothers and fathers.
Skip ahead to the Gospel today – which has nothing to do with sex, but does have a really cool line that fits right … about … here …
Jesus told Peter … Get behind me, Satan. You are thinking not as God does, but as human beings do.
I think that is our problem. When we decide to try and plan out our lives and where children may or may not fit, we are thinking too much like humans and not enough like God. We really need to constantly pray for guidance and seek to do God’s will, not our own.
Poor Peter today. He was just expressing horror and defiance that his Rabbi would be rejected, arrested and killed. He was missing the bigger picture.
Now, I realize there are many valid reasons for young married couples to tread lightly when it comes to pregnancy. And I hope that they seek the advice of medical professionals, spiritual directors and pastors to navigate those things.
I also realize that there are many, many examples of wonderful marriages that produce much fruit in this world – even though there are no children.
I offer my own marriage as an example.
Still, I would like to remind our younger generation that there is a reason that sex feels so good. It’s because God wants us to enjoy this act of self-giving love that can result in a child.
He wants you to have sex … to have children … to be fruitful and multiply.
The world may be telling you differently. They may be selling you some fake news about how the Earth is just not big enough for more babies …
Don’t believe it.
There is plenty of room on God’s green earth. And He loves every child conceived in the womb … up until the moment they enter the tomb.
We should all be like God and begin treating every human as a blessing, the way Noah, Adam, Abraham and Jesus did.
Today’s first reading closes with a bit of an apology and a promise from God to Noah, who was probably still dripping wet from the storms …
I will establish my covenant with you, that never again shall all bodily creatures be destroyed by the waters of a flood; there shall not be another flood to devastate the earth.
That gave Noah the confidence to be fruitful … and multiply, which he did.
Let us pray that we do our part to preserve this covenant with God by counting our blessings … one child at a time.