Thursday , 6th May 2021 – Me?!

As the week was busy with my routine, I woke up one morning with a throat ache, dismissed it as the air conditioner being on for too long ( thanks to the sveltering heat of Indian summers), the ache grew more prominent with my senses getting wary of the symptom and the constant news! But how ? supermarket? driving alone? ” Rubbish!” I dismissed the thought.

Next morning I woke up with a runny nose and as I walked over to clean my bathroom, I could not get the whiff of the new cleaning product which I used a few days ago! I rushed to sniff the coffee in the kitchen and the perfume on my dressing table….. a faint whiff of what smelt like a perfume! Realisation crept in and as I broke a sweat , I called my best friend ( also an obstetrician and gynaecologist) and she drove to drop me the necessary medications and equipment from a distance and convinced a sheepish me to test myself. I knew in my heart, it was me! But my mind kept telling me otherwise.

So I drove to my medical college and walked in a room full of humans gasping and clutching to oxygen and surrounded by worried masked relatives and requested for my test in view of symptoms. Perks of being a doctor , I was swiftly swabbed and lo and behold! I saw the 2 lines on the rapid antigen kit !! The reality sunk in and as I gave my details for the form and data collection, all I was thinking.. ” Me?!”

Its been almost a week of waking up with a blocked nose and itchy throat, I strictly follow the home isolation routine with 4 hourly vitals monitoring, my gargles and steam inhalation, popping vitamins and antivirals for strength and chugging more water than usual. While I stay isolated and indoor my apartment cooking my meals and trying to make sense of the situation I looked upon my phone to connect to my friends and family. While I was in luck to live alone and have no floor mates or family around, I do feel more isolated than usual with this diagnosis, and when I was trying hard to distract my exhausted body and overthinking mind, not once did I pray to the Lord.

While I sought selfishly sympathy and empathy from fellow doctors and studied for my exams in the coming months, my head was pounding with covid infection and a weird sense of fear of what next. Suddenly out of the blue, a friend from my christian group texted me , “Rosary at 8 pm on zoom. Do join” and I knew my mothers prayers were answered and I found my direction. As I joined the families and friends across the internet to praise Mother Mary and Jesus through the rosary, I felt a sense of calm and faith restore in myself. While I am well on my way of improving with symptoms and yes my vaccination early this year did help my body fight off the virus, I realised how weak my faith was as with one attack it was outa the window.

As nearly 51% of my tiny state and 35% of my country is testing positive and the 2% severe and 15% moderate symptoms are experienced by youth and finally succumbing to death owing to lack of facilities of testing and treating and poor infrastructure, the vaccine are like our sacraments fighting to keep us worthy and helping us to get through heaven in our journey with the LORD when the sin penetrated through the mask of our resilience and will power. Let us mask up and get our vaccines to fight this pandemic of sin and recklessness.

Let this virus remind us to not deny our sinfulness when called out upon but to acknowledge and surrender ourselves to the faith in the Lord and the medications advised by the doctor, and hope with all our heart and the lungs (left intact) that every breathe we take is a symbol of life and we should be grateful for every one of it!

As the Father loves me, so I also love you.
Remain in my love.
If you keep my commandments, you will remain in my love,
just as I have kept my Father’s commandments
and remain in his love.

PRAYER:

Thank you Jesus, for having kept me safe from the effects of this virus. Help me lord to fight this virus and sin in my life with every last breathe and praise you through all we do. Bless everyone with health and safety. Bless my co frontline workers with health and strength to fight this battle!

Amen.

About the Author

Hello! I’m Dr Analise Maria D’ Mello, (MBBS, MS obgyn, DNB) from the beautiful state of Goa in India. I was born and raised in a Roman Catholic family, learning my prayers, catechism and Catholic values from my parents and grandmothers. I am currently practicing as an obstetrician and gynecologist for 3 years since my residency. I often speak on anti-abortion to college students and married couples, and counsel distressed pregnant women with appropriate medical advice. I am part of the St Luke's Medical Guild of Catholic Doctors in my state providing services in prisons, and Lenten and advent retreats for medical professionals and their families.

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  1. Dr. annalise, may the healing of the almighty seize you! And thank you for this message. Sin like a disease can only be fought through a physician’s advice. How can I fight temptation if I am never in God’s presence? I must change and yes, our mother is praying.

  2. Dear Analise, may the Lord watch over you and grant you a speedy and full recovery 💕💕🙏🙏

  3. Dear Analise, my prayer today is that you get stronger each day in body, mind and spirit. May the Lord watch over you and keep you safe. Sin is definitely a disease and in times of struggle we tend to forget the Lord because we are only human. However, God never leaves us and, like the good shepherd he always goes after that one lamb that has strayed. I suppose we need to open our eyes and realise that and lean more on him than the earthly world.

  4. Praying to God for your health and well being. Stay well and be safe🙏🙏🙏

  5. May God grant you a speedy recovery. May you (I need to do this too) combat fear with faith

  6. Praying for a speedy recovery. I did a mission trip to your beautiful country a few years ago and spoke to my friends in Delhi and Ghujarat on the weekend. Prayer works! Peace be with you and may our Holy Mothers loving mantle of protection wrap around you and all on the front line.

  7. A wonderful reminder that we can never let down our guard against illness nor sin. Be well 🙏

  8. Wishing you a speedy recovery and the strength to continue in helping others. Let your faith be complete in the joy of the Lord. Blessings and good health abound in you. Peace.

  9. The Lord is our Divine Physician. Like the Surrender Novena points out, we are a sick people who tell Him how to cure us instead of following His healing. Prayers for you, your whole beloved country, and all who suffer from Covid, that we may allow our Divine Physician to heal us. Jesus, I trust in you.

  10. Praying for complete healing for you and your country! May God heal us all, spiritually and physically! AMEN

  11. Praying you have a full recovery from the virus. God is so faithful that even when sin and fear cripples us from making the right decisions, God extends his helping hands to his faithful servants. Thank God for friends whom the Lord uses to support us in our time of need. May our Lady continue to intercede for you and all front line workers. Keep the faith.

  12. Sending prayers for your recovery Annalise and more prayers for the people of India.As humans (myself included),we tend to go straight into flight or fight mode whenever we receive challenging news.I’m pleased you were able to connect with your Rosary group online.May the peace of our Blessed Mother fill your heart during the coming weeks.🙏🏻

  13. May the Lord watch over you and all the frontline workers who give of themselves so selflessly every day.

  14. Thanks for sharing, Analise as you probably were not feeling up to this commitment. Your analogy of the virus and sin and our need to protect ourselves from both is right on target.

    So sorry to hear about your diagnosis. Prayers for your speedy and full recovery.

    ‘Suddenly out of the blue, a friend from my christian group texted me , “Rosary at 8 pm on zoom. Do join” and I knew my mothers prayers were answered and I found my direction.’ This is an example of what a Cursillista might share as a “moment closest to Christ”, which is when we are most aware of Christ’s presence in our life. Even though at the time, you may not have been thinking of Christ, He was thinking of you. And through your friend, made you aware of His presence and our need to stay attached to the vine.

    God bless you.

  15. My pray for you and your County and share my daily prayer to Our Blessed Mother since the pandemic began.

    O clement, O loving, O sweet Mother Mary,
    We, your children of every nation,
    Turn to you in this pandemic.
    Our troubles are numerous; our fears are great.
    Grant that we might deposit them at your feet,
    Take refuge in your Immaculate Heart,
    And obtain peace, healing, rescue,
    And timely help in all our needs.
    You are our Mother.
    Pray for us to your Son.
    Amen.

  16. Dear Analise,

    The Holy Father, Pope Francis, has asked us all to join in praying the rosary each day during the month of May, the month of Mary, following the example of the first Christian communities, asking her to lift up to the Lord our unceasing supplications for the end of the pandemic, as well as our particular intentions. (Reference Pontifical Council for Promotion of the New Evangelization, “Prayer by the Church was fervently being made to God” (cf. Acts 12:5), Liturgical Guide, May 2021).

    In today’s Gospel, Jesus discloses how much he loves his followers. He loves them with the same love that the Father has for him: As the Father loves me, so I also love you. (Jn 15:9) Tim Gray [President of Augustine Institute] reminds us that Jesus loves us with that same divine intensity. Jesus asks us for something in return. What does he ask of us? Tim Gray says that the gospel tells us further: Abide in my love. Basically, Tim says we spend a lot of time thinking about our guilt, we think about our sins…our failings…, we think, “I’m no good, I’m a disappointment…” When we do that, we’re thinking about ourselves. He invites us instead to contemplate how much Jesus loves us? The Gospel tells us how to do that. Jesus tells us: If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love. Just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and remain in his love. I have told you this so that my joy might be in you and your joy might be complete. (Jn 15:10-11)

    Finally, Tim says that Jesus wants his joy to be in us, and our joy to be complete. And the best way we can do that is by loving him more and experiencing his joy. The more we love, the more joyful we’re going to be. He added, if you think about the most joyful moments in your life…your wedding, the birth of a child…it was because of love that you were experiencing that joy, and that joy was overflowing. Joy is the fruit of love. Tim encourages us to pursue joy by loving and abiding in God’s word.

    I pray for your continued good health and for the people of India. Thank you, Analise, for your heartfelt reflections. Blessings.

  17. Pandemic and Sin. Vaccine and Sacraments. Masterful connections, Analise. The Holy Spirit is active in your reflection and you remain in our prayers.

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