Thursday 30th September 2021 – Mission impossible!

behold, I am sending you like lambs among wolves.
Carry no money bag, no sack, no sandals;
and greet no one along the way.

29 days ago this is exactly how I felt the need to move across the country to a new hospital to work. Yes the money was good and I always envisioned my self helping the poor and needy being the only hospital in an town bordering the mighty hills and forests.

So I packed just one suitcase of clothes and few books and flew across with hope and dreams in my eyes to do good work for the Lord and selfishly earn some money to save for my further life.

Little did I know , while I managed to get myself immersed into the drama and issues of the daily life here, the local crowd has no sense of orderliness and has been screaming and yelling at me for their complaints while I struggle to listen and sort them. I was just getting a hang of adjusting when there was a chaos cause some one felt disrespected and more complaints flew across the hospital management and chief and so on and forth.

I was constantly paged for issues with patients and I ensured I attended to everyone day or night. So as I settle in my new role, someone leaked my personal phone number and address to the local villagers and I was flooded with calls some threatening, some not, there was an invasion of my privacy at my residence by patients. Repeatedly I was told I have to adhere to the old set ways of place and break laws for the hospital. Everyday I was listening to women taking abortifacients and attended to complications of the same, some threatened me for medications for abortion while some just were disgusted why I refused to comply

When I finally stood my ground and refused to comply with the cheating, lies and illegal activities in the name of healthcare , my boss calls me and explains to me how I can get to “cut so many patients and should not get affected by the situation ” While the law abiding catholic in me cringed, I never have worked for just the money and operated on a patient cause I wanted to, I always had a sound medical reason for either. It broke my heart to realise the healthcare system of my country was being abused not by just patients in getting their own way but by doctors too.

Todays Gospel struck me like a bolt of lightening

Whatever town you enter and they welcome you,
eat what is set before you,
cure the sick in it and say to them,
‘The Kingdom of God is at hand for you.’
Whatever town you enter and they do not receive you,
go out into the streets and say,
‘The dust of your town that clings to our feet,
even that we shake off against you.’

I am quick to react to situations but when I read this , I knew the Lord spoke to me and asks me to uphold my dignity and leave. Which I hopefully will.

Everyday when we face situations which are beyond our control, we should look for the solution with our Lord and in His word, whether at work or home or otherwise. While I fear for my safety on a daily basis and kept wondering if I had been to hasty to judge the people here for their beliefs and practices, I realised I am not recieved here – neither as a christian nor as a medical professional.

Pray, hope and focus your worries and situations unto the Lord and remember the LORD will guide us as we shake off the dust off our feet and hearts.

P.S. Kindly pray I am safe and sane till I get home from this current work place. I have never felt the need to ask for more prayers than today for all the humans and doctors here. And I request every one who reads the reflections to dedicate a daily rosary for every aborted fetus and their mother in the month of October.

PRAYER: Dear Lord, as I kneel today before you hopeful and fearful for the situations in my life, I surrender them, the people hurting me, my emotions and the sins I have committed to you. Protect me Mother Mary and let me cling to you for help and safety. Amen.

About the Author

Hello! I’m Dr Analise Maria D’ Mello, (MBBS, MS obgyn, DNB) from the beautiful state of Goa in India. I was born and raised in a Roman Catholic family, learning my prayers, catechism and Catholic values from my parents and grandmothers. I am currently practicing as an obstetrician and gynecologist for 3 years since my residency. I often speak on anti-abortion to college students and married couples, and counsel distressed pregnant women with appropriate medical advice. I am part of the St Luke's Medical Guild of Catholic Doctors in my state providing services in prisons, and Lenten and advent retreats for medical professionals and their families.

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39 Comments

  1. Dr. Analise, peace and hope in Christ our Risen Lord…,
    Dearest Child of God.. So much you are going through right now.
    I too confirm your faith-based decision to leave your current practice.
    The gospel passage for this day, is most certainly God’s word to you,
    to “go to the next town,” where you can find Catholic/Christian support
    and fellowship (as well as a closer church for Mass) and hopefully a
    hospital or clinic that is not mired down in “cheating , lies and illegal
    activities..!” – and not live under threat to your life or safety.
    I know that God our Lord, will provide and guide you for your next
    ministry position. Listen to His word to you esp. after Communion
    at Eucharist…
    And I am moved to tears, not only to read what you
    have already endured, but that you ask us to pray the Rosary for the
    aborted children and their mothers during October ! You are truly
    a faithful, dedicated servant of God, in the love and Spirit of Jesus.
    Continue to “cling to Mary,” and remain “hidden in the Sacred Heart
    of Christ.” You have my admiration, my daily prayers, and my
    ‘anointed Blessing,’ in Christ our Living Lord, Fr. Leon

  2. It sounds as though you are caught in a trap Analise. I hope that you find your way out. I will keep you in my prayers.

  3. Dr. Analise, I just finished The Rosary for you and will continue to pray for you daily. May God continue to Bless you with your wonderful work. I have enjoyed reading all your notes on this site.

  4. May God bless you Analise. You inspire me every week to be a better person with your reflections.
    I pray that God’s grace and peace with you always

  5. Dear Analise, I am deeply sorry for what has happened and is happening to you. Thank you for this beautiful rendition and sharing. You blog today has opened my eyes to what I am experiencing in a home where I counsel children, as a volunteer. I have recently walked away because I could not put up with how the children are being treated. This gospel struck me too, but your sharing struck me more. Thank you and God bless you always. Praying for you.

    Cheers
    Christine

  6. Peace and Grace to you Analice. There is trouble at work. However, you encourage us with your strength and steadfast faith. You are in my prayers. Our good Lord will see you through.
    “Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.” (Isaiah 41:10)

  7. Dear Analise, praying the Holy Spirit’s blessings and guidance for you each day. I offered up Mass for your intentions this morning. God bless

  8. Dear Dr

    This is so inspirational

    Thank you for the wonderful meditation, will keep you in my prayers.

  9. We pray for you Dr A. Heed this Gospel message and move on. It is what Jesus is telling you to do. Peace and safety be with you.

  10. Analise, I am praying for your safety. Your honesty and sincerity in your writings has always touched me and I know that you are struggling against huge odds to bring the light of Christ to the hurting world around you. Trust God and He will lead you to a place where the peace you bring will be accepted and appreciated. Don’t forget to “shake the dust off your feet” when you leave town!

    Your sister in Christ,
    Bev

  11. I recently read about patient abuse of doctors in India and was concerned about you. Yea, trust in God and move on. I am praying for you. Bob

  12. Annalise,
    Thank you for your bravery, your courage and your trust in God. Keep this experience in your heart so you may grow from it. I will pray for your safety and to know where Good is calling you next.

  13. Analise, I said a prayer for you. I pray Our Blessed Mother leads you out of such a place determined to break the will of someone dedicating her life to Christ by helping others in the medical field. Stand strong, nobody should have to put up with abuse or threats from anyone.

  14. Prayers for protection for you while you work on getting away to a new place. May the good Lord wrap you in His loving embrace and guide you to a job where you are accepted and appreciated for your good works. 🙏

  15. Oh my, dear lady stay safe! Praying you will find the place you need to be, for your work life and your life outside of work.

  16. Dr. Analise, my heart goes out to you; thank you for sharing your struggles and for your honesty. I will keep you in my prayers; I will leave you with these words as a way of comfort,
    We delight in the beauty of the butterfly but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty. Caroline

  17. My prayers are with you. I am a firm believer in God put us where he wants us to be. Your faith will protect you! May your strength bring you peace. I admire you for answering His calling! God bless you Analise…❣️🙏🏼

  18. Philippians 2:13. for it is God who is at work in you, both to [a]desire and to work for His good pleasure. Praying for you!

  19. Dear Analise,your present situation sounds stressful and dire.I pray that you will protected by God’s embrace in the coming weeks.You will also be in my daily prayers and thoughts.Stay safe.

  20. Dear Dr. Analise. As you read these comments, may you feel the love, support and prayers of the many people who read your reflections. May God grant you wisdom, strength and courage to face the challenges ahead of you. May you feel God’s arms holding you tenderly…surrounding you in His love, peace and protection.

  21. I thank each and everyone for their prayers and comments
    I have never felt more blessed, and as I fight the guilt in my heart of judging the humans here and
    leaving the place in a haste.. I do know I am wrapped in His arms and I am safe.
    Thank you for all your prayers and lets keep praying for everyone here!!

  22. We leave you with prayers of hope and courage.
    Just remember joy has nothing to do with external circumstances. 
    Stay safe.

  23. Dr. Analise, please know that I am praying for you and your situation and safety! Blessings upon blessings for doing God’s work!

  24. We all love you Doc. I am praying for your safety. Thank you for still writing for us and Leaning on us for prayers everyone that reads your posts loves you and is praying for you

  25. Jesus’ own words, Gospel of Matthew, Chapter 10, verse 23: “If they persecute you in one town, take refuge in the next; if they persecute you in that, take refuge in another. In truth I tell you, you will not have gone the round of the towns of Israel before the Son of Man comes.”
    You are doing what is right, Dr. Mello.

  26. I am praying for your safety and change of heart for all those involved in the deception. I am nurse in childbirth in Ontario Canada and I really enjoy reading your reflections. I find I can relate to them. Thanks

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