Thursday, 2nd November 2021

Trust in the LORD forever!
        For the LORD is an eternal Rock.
    He humbles those in high places,
        and the lofty city he brings down;
    He tumbles it to the ground,
        levels it with the dust.
    It is trampled underfoot by the needy,
        by the footsteps of the poor.

My Lord is my rock. My family is my support, yes like every one, we have our disagreements more often than we like. We have issues and conflicts on almost a daily basis but despite it all I know I would do anything in my power to keep it together!

Today , we read about how Jesus expects us to build our lives around His faith and it would amuse me , watching my parents so faithful to Jesus through their prayers and following the church, still have so many flaws of envy, contempt, gossip and worse pride!! I always would wonder if is that being faithful or actually being a better person and emulating Christ through our words or deeds.

This advent as I read a daily reflection about the growth of my spiritual life and faith across 4 weeks while I sit with dad through his post operative recovery, I realise how much harder it is being a relative of a patient at hospital. From waiting in lines to pick medicines at ungodly hours at night or waiting for hours for the oncologist.

My eyes have been opened to being on the other side of the situation and it was not pleasant. But as I do my best to spread my faith through small good deeds, what struck me was the positivity and the Christ like attitude from most of the relatives of patients, who guided me through the appointment system and helped me when I was lost for directions! Literally..

This advent, I dont just want to read the word of God and decorate my house and order presents, I want to experience Christ through a regular human being who helps me find my way along the line at the pharmacy, or the doctor who spoke sweetly to my dad when he was terrified on the operating table. My coworker who despite his hectic schedule, made it a point to visit my parents while he couldnt make it for his sons birthday!

As the season of hope begins, let us as believers focus on being better humans then building wreaths or adding another prayer to our list! Actions do speak louder than words especially to the Lord!

PRAYER:

Lord, I submit my life at your feet and ask for your deliverance from the chaos in my life! Help me to use my empathy and be a better human and doctor where ever I go!

AMEN

About the Author

Hello! I’m Dr Analise Maria D’ Mello, (MBBS, MS obgyn, DNB) from the beautiful state of Goa in India. I was born and raised in a Roman Catholic family, learning my prayers, catechism and Catholic values from my parents and grandmothers. I am currently practicing as an obstetrician and gynecologist for 3 years since my residency. I often speak on anti-abortion to college students and married couples, and counsel distressed pregnant women with appropriate medical advice. I am part of the St Luke's Medical Guild of Catholic Doctors in my state providing services in prisons, and Lenten and advent retreats for medical professionals and their families.

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11 Comments

  1. Lovely, Analise! The fact that you’re at such an exhausting and stressful time in your family’s journey and you’re still sharing your beautiful and insightful reflections speaks to YOUR actions as a human who strives to improve the world

  2. Yes, Dr. Analise. The Lord is an eternal rock, let HIM guide you through this journey. My prayers are with you and your family. God bless!

  3. Thanks for sharing your reflection for today. Beautiful!

    Sending you my prayers…and a big virtual hug. Our Lord will carry you through.

  4. Wonderful reflection Dr A…its the small Christ like things that we can celebrate in our daily lives that make our faith so special…every day is Christmas day…if we make it that way. Blessings!

  5. Thank you for your always beautiful reflections. Let each act of kindness, patience, charity be a piece of straw in the manger awaiting our saviors birth.
    May God bless us all.

  6. Thank you Dr. Analise. Praying for you and your dad. May the Lord heal your dad completely…all according to his Will. Blessings to you. Amen!

  7. Thank you Dr. Analise. Prayers continue for your father, mother, and your heavy load. May God calm your heart and mind

  8. Thank You for sharing your thoughts on how to live chaotic daily life. Many of us can relate and need to stop and remember to submit! Our Lord is with us every step of the way! God Bless…🙏🏼❣️

  9. Thank you Analise- I always enjoy your thoughtful reflections. This day will soon be over but I’m glad I took the time to read your words of hope and guidance….I will try to be a better human being.

  10. Thank you, Analise for sharing your wisdom and faith with us! You, your father and family are in my prayers. And you’re right, we can find Christ all around us if we just look. What an awesome way to put us in the Christmas spirit….recognizing in our daily lives those around us that bring us to the Lord.

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