Thursday 27 October 2022

But I tell you, you will not see me until the time comes when you say,
Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord.”

I just put down a book by Fredrick Backman titled ” A man called Ove” with tears in my eyes. A lot of the 39 chapters made me realise how we feel when someone takes away what we love and how much we wish for a routine or semblance of one! Much like the Pharisees, while being the centre of attention and the only ones who studied so hard over years to reach that stature, suddenly a carpenters son comes by and disrupts the entire situation by claiming to be Gods Son! pretty annoying right?!

I had that issue at work place, where I was so confident about everything and someone new just strolled in and stole my thunder with their fancy degree – call it jealousy or plain attention seeking behaviour! I ensured I too studied for same degree and would not feel lesser ! Or I couldve just made a false claim and pushed the newbie back in place!!

It is very difficult for us to adapt to change and the pharisees were no different! They didnt care about Son of God or any man , they just wanted their position in the world!I agree with it – If I work hard for something I do expect my reward and undivided attention ! Unfortunately, alot of our identity we tend to attach with the work we do or goals we set and forget the actual purpose behind it all!

While I am studying for higher qualifications and tougher exams, I forget my primary purpose is to be a good doctor and decent human- which often seems like an obstacle in the way of my goal but I do justify myself at most times and inside deep down my conscience squirms with guilt!

Today when I read , I empathize with the Pharisees and wonder if I am turning into them with my actions! I want to be a decent human but it costs me a lot of my time and patience and at times even affects my work! I realise I need to realign my focus and get to the simple fact of being kind and generous! It is hard and I cannot preach when I barely practise it myself …

but we can all try!

PRAYER:

Thank you Lord for giving us values of being better humans and christians

help me to be less focus on my earthly wishes and be a better person despite knowing how its going to pan out in the long run!

GUide me !

AMEN

About the Author

Hello! I’m Dr Analise Maria D’ Mello, (MBBS, MS obgyn, DNB) from the beautiful state of Goa in India. I was born and raised in a Roman Catholic family, learning my prayers, catechism and Catholic values from my parents and grandmothers. I am currently practicing as an obstetrician and gynecologist for 3 years since my residency. I often speak on anti-abortion to college students and married couples, and counsel distressed pregnant women with appropriate medical advice. I am part of the St Luke's Medical Guild of Catholic Doctors in my state providing services in prisons, and Lenten and advent retreats for medical professionals and their families.

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14 Comments

  1. A timely reflection for me. I have been on both sides of the newbie. Being a sensitive person, I pick things up easily. Never sure what to do, so I pray and bring Jesus into the inner conflict. Thanks for the spiritual validation!

  2. Thank you for this reflection! This is a constant struggle in my professional endeavors as well. Appreciate you sharing.

  3. Thank you for the reflection.
    This is a lesson towards humility, being humble.
    I have had to rein myself and usually say the older people in the profession have knowledge and experience, while the younger once have knowledge ( mostly)only, so by holding hands we learn from each other and bring better service to those we serve.

  4. Well said Doc, we need to swallow our pride and be humble all the time. People were quick to judge Jesus Christ as a nobody since he was the son of a carpenter. Little did they know that Lord’s power was bestowed on him.

  5. Thank you Analise. Being honest and forthright keeps your soul in check. Keep that straight path you are on and the Lord will never fail you. Peace and good thoughts and wishes my sister.

  6. A nice reflection. Unfortunately I was distracted by way too much advertising. Can you please become less greedy and reduce the quantity of advertisements in these blogs.

  7. Thank you Dr. Many encounters in life challenge us. We all can learn from one another. A hard lesson. May the Trinity continue to be our guide as we swallow our pride.

  8. Analise,
    Your reflection has, once again, hit the nail on the head. As I ease myself into retirement, I can sometimes feel under appreciated or feel as if I am being pushed aside for those that will replace me. Strange to have these feelings even though I am (and have been) mentoring those same people for a smooth transition upon my leaving the job. I can see this struggle is not unique to me. I am encouraged by the fact that we recognize our shortcomings, pray to the Holy Spirit for guidance and rely on our belief that God, despite those shortcomings, loves us unconditionally.
    P.S. From todays first reading, “…pray at every opportunity in the Spirit.”

  9. A wonderful and pertinent reflection today Analise.Who can honestly say that they have never,even for a moment,felt a slight sense of superiority over another less qualified or educated person?
    We all feed the need to be validated sometimes and that we matter.Help us to realise that we are all equal in God’s eyes and that his is the only opinion that matters.

  10. The reflections here are beautiful. However, the number ads appearing in the reflection make it difficult to focus and reflect without use of an ad blocker. It is understandable money has to be raised to publish this site, but a less intrusive way needs to be found. I published this comment here only because I don’t know of any other way to contact publishers of this site. Peace.

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