Thursday , 23 rd September 2021 –I do not see Him!

Who then is this about whom I hear such things?”
And he kept trying to see him.

I try to see the Lord. I try. Maybe not as much. But I do try!

As I sit typing this reflection, I am pondering how I havent prayed in a while nor have I had a productive day of any form besides going through the motions of the day and binge watching some random netflix show. I have heard about HIM through scripture, this website, through churches, parents and evangelists but just like Herod I keep trying to see HIM.

However,

I do not see Him in the beggar by the road who yells out at me every morning as I walk across to the hospital. I do not see Him when the woman does not cooperate in labor and delivery with me or the staff. I do not see Him in the 160 women who flock my clinic with compliants. I do not see Him when I judge them for being poor hygiene and illiterate!

But

I do try to see Him, when I swallow my impatience and hide my resentment when I see that I am stuck with more patients than I can handle especially with no break. I do try when I smile behind the mask and hello random humans who respect me for my position. I do try when I am just trying to the best for my patient and her baby and they do not listen to me! I do try when I am make a call or respond to a text in the midst of my work and console a friend or be there for them.

I am Herod of the new world, jealous of every one better than me or beheading (figuratively) every critic in my life .Like Herod, I have heard about this Jesus– who was born and preached, was crucified and resurrected to Life and calls me everyday to be a light in the world like Him but I cant seem to see Him , I am constantly trying , some days harder than others but not hard enough ….

Let us try harder, envy less and be more like Jesus than Herod this week and give our prayer lives a tiny boost as we keep trying to see HIM!!

Prayer:

Dear Lord, I have strayed, some days longer than usual. Help me, guide me and enlighten me with your spirit to focus on you and try harder to reconnect with you.

Amen!

About the Author

Hello! I’m Dr Analise Maria D’ Mello, (MBBS, MS obgyn, DNB) from the beautiful state of Goa in India. I was born and raised in a Roman Catholic family, learning my prayers, catechism and Catholic values from my parents and grandmothers. I am currently practicing as an obstetrician and gynecologist for 3 years since my residency. I often speak on anti-abortion to college students and married couples, and counsel distressed pregnant women with appropriate medical advice. I am part of the St Luke's Medical Guild of Catholic Doctors in my state providing services in prisons, and Lenten and advent retreats for medical professionals and their families.

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14 Comments

  1. Dr. Analise, peace and hope in Christ our Risen Lord…
    Thank you for your once again, honest, hope-filled and inspiring
    reflection. And it is wonderful to see you “admit” to the times you
    DO “see” HIM (Jesus ) as well as the times you are “blind” to HIM..
    because each of us as followers of Christ, do the best we can, within
    our selfish, fearful, doubtful ways, and only do so, as you say in your prayer,
    with the SPIRIT to enliven and enlighten us. May God our Lord give the grace and strength, to “keep on keepin’ on” – in your life saving ministry, and loving witness;
    – blessings, Fr. Leon

  2. Analise, I really appreciate this and your other reflections because they are heartfelt and talk about the feelings so many of us experience. Your reflections are short enough to read attentively in our busy lives, and do not wonder off into deep theology and arcane theories, which are hard to follow and lose our attention. Thank you for keeping it simple for the reader, and yet encouraging and compassionate.

  3. Thank you for the really helpful message. I needed reminding about where I can find Jesus. In the needy and sometimes annoying people I meet, rather than in my own activities.

  4. As always Dr. Analise. You have written exactly what is going on in my mind. Than you Father Leon for Saying “followers of Christ, do the best we can, within our selfish, fearful, doubtful ways, and only do so, as you say in your prayer, with the SPIRIT to enliven and enlighten us”.
    I beat myself up for being selfish, fearful, resentful, and doubtful. I pray throughout the day for God to lift these emotions.
    Wonderful and honest insight.
    As Leslie mentioned, you do not dive into deep theology and arcane theories that have me feeling like such a lost cause. You encourage and share in your honesty and compassion.
    Thank you and bless you

  5. Thank you Annalise. I never realized how much I had in common with Herod.
    For the record, I really enjoy the variety of CM reflections…. Some deep and some more like today’s, they all speak to me. Thank you.

  6. Thank you for your wake up call to me. I guess Herod is a little bit in all of us…wanting to see him but never really concentrating on what we need to do in order really see him. I pray for that recognition. Peace with you.

  7. Analise, your reflections are always honest and sincere. Thank you for helping me to stop and think and providing encouragement as I begin a new day. God bless!

  8. Your heart is in your writing. Thank you for your courage and honesty in sharing. May your quest to see God in all things be fruitful and may God bless you.

  9. I am so grateful to have found this website.I appreciate all the talented writers who share their thoughts and I have learned so much more about our Catholic faith from reading their reflections.My mornings aren’t complete until I’ve read the reflection after prayer and daily readings.
    Analise,you speak for so many of us.Sometimes I find myself asking for God’s help for the exact same things that I asked for the previous day and the day before that etc. I pray each day for a new awareness of Christ in my life.Like Herod,I’m curious and need to be more open to hearing His word and really listening.
    God Bless all writers and readers of A Catholic Moment.

  10. Thank you for this Analisse!! I needed to hear this today!! Have a blessed day with multiple opportunities to see and connect with our Lord.

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