Thursday, 21st January 2021 – Ssshhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!

We all love appreciation. Validation for effort may it be at work or at home.. We feel pleased when we are complimented and it boosts the enthusiasm to do more. However , the rise of social media has led to this aspect of life to be displayed and gauged – by the number of followers.. retweets ..shares… likes… and so on, making it measurable and hence competitive !As some one who has to repeatedly explain myself to everyone I meet that I am off social media for my own mental well being and to not publicise every event that occurred in my life!

He warned them sternly not to make him known

Todays reading explains how Jesus was sought after by the sick and needy for miracles and escape from their illness. He however did not seek recognition or grandeur! He always asked to not make him self known… so why should we… regular humans want unprecedented recognition.. may it be for good work or good looks and somedays even while doing charitable work..

I ask Jesus daily in my short morning prayers to help me do his work as a student and surgeon and not boast about my accomplishments! In the end it doesnt even matter.. we all are headed to HIM!

Prayer:

Dear Lord, let me be a source of comfort and life to you. I ask you to make me humble and work every day with a goal of pursuing a better version pof myself and getting towards you and heaven.

Amen

About the Author

Hello! I’m Dr Analise Maria D’ Mello, (MBBS, MS obgyn, DNB) from the beautiful state of Goa in India. I was born and raised in a Roman Catholic family, learning my prayers, catechism and Catholic values from my parents and grandmothers. I am currently practicing as an obstetrician and gynecologist for 3 years since my residency. I often speak on anti-abortion to college students and married couples, and counsel distressed pregnant women with appropriate medical advice. I am part of the St Luke's Medical Guild of Catholic Doctors in my state providing services in prisons, and Lenten and advent retreats for medical professionals and their families.

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6 Comments

  1. I was pleasantly surprised by your post. I too, just last night, totally deleted my Facebook account. Partly to save my anxiety, as I am disappointed at what I am reading and seeing. So many friends/family feuding over the political system here in the US and other happenings around the world. I too, don’t need anyone to know of the good or bad things that I do, nor do I want to know theirs. Keeping in touch with “friends” has its advantages, but also its curses. I felt a bit guilt at doing this as it wasn’t an insult to anyone, just something to keep my sanity, and not get caught up in things that do not matter. Mother Theresa’s words, or lack of, are a great inspiration to me. I value the saying that integrity is doing something for someone who can not pay you back, or doing it without ANYONE knowing, except God. I want to be more like that, and look to Mother Theresa for encouragement. Hearing that you have excused yourself from social media helps me to know that I made the right decision. Thanks again.

  2. “Oh Lord, it’s hard to be humble when you’re perfect in every way…”

    So says the old song. I know I’m not perfect, yet humility comes slowly when I find I did something right! As you said, Analise, “Lord I ask You to make me humble…and getting towards You and Heaven.”

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