Sunday, December 2, 2018 – Let Him Arrive

It’s natural, in the world we live in, to want to put walls up around us, to protect those we love, and ourselves, from the evil that has run rampant. We see the things going on and we want to block them out and isolate ourselves. No, I’m not talking about the literal walls people want to build (please don’t go there), but I’m talking about the mental walls, the emotional walls, the relational walls and the spiritual walls we build around us, that we think will protect us.

We see the signs in the world, in society, and we think – now is the time. The world is going to hell, the end-times are near. When is Jesus going to come again? Is He going to come? We spent the last couple weeks of Ordinary Time reflecting on this in the daily readings. And so, our natural instinct is to put up a guard out of self-preservation or the preservation of the ones we love. It’s easy to do. We pull away.  But this isolates us – it isolates us from others and often form God.

We as humans have done this over and over since the beginning of time. We pull away from God. We put up walls and fail to trust in Him, and we become guarded. Hardened. He loves us so much that He gives us the free will to do this. He keeps trying to pull as back, and for a time we come close again, but then the weeks and months and years go by, and we pull away again. This is the natural ebb and flow. This is why the Sacraments are so special, the Mass is so special, because they are a way for us to come back to Him, or perhaps a better way to look at it – He comes to us.

This is why Advent is so special. Because Jesus is coming to us. He is arriving. It’s a new beginning, a new year where we can go back home and tear down those walls that guard us, come back to our faith and to Jesus and see and feel and experience His love for us, the ultimate love where He comes to us in the flesh as one of us, where He becomes our brother.

We can be touched by this Love, and transformed by the Love, and healed by this Love because it is not just something that happened 2000 years ago – but an arrival that is happening now. He is here – every day. But it’s these seasons in the Church that help us to not only come closer to Christ again, but to also remind ourselves how to live a Christian life out in the world today. It’s when we relearn how to be vigilant and learn how to avoid the distractions and be ready – ready for when He calls us home, ready He physically comes again, or simply ready for when He calls us to do His work in the world.

This is what we can do this Advent. We can use this as a time to tear down those walls, where we can go to Christ and let Him arrive in our hearts so that we can be Him out in the world, and bring Him to others around us.

About the Author

My name is Joe LaCombe, and I am a Software Developer in Fishers, Indiana in the USA. My wife Kristy and I have been married for 19 years and we have an awesome boy, Joseph, who is in 5th Grade! We are members of St. Elizabeth Seton Parish in Carmel, Indiana where we volunteer with various adult faith ministries. I love writing, and spending time with my family out in the nature that God created, and contemplating His wonders. I find a special connection with God in the silence and little things of everyday life, and I love sharing those experiences with all of you.

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5 Comments

  1. Thanks Joseph. Your thoughts regarding advent is timely. I have been struggling to bring myself back to God’s arm after those experiences of doubts gnawed on me. One cannot help but build walls for self preservation particularly if painful situations come from people closest to you. Downside, though is isolation. At times I would laugh at myself because I’d pray hard in front of the church altar offering my crosses but when I go back home I still feel the heaviness. Must have forgotten to leave them there. Anyways, thanks for the insight. God bless.

  2. Thank you Joseph. Adds to the tenor of my prayers, this first day of Advent, and rejoices me that in fact, we all pray together. God bless you and your family.

  3. Very good thoughts to start the Advent season. My doors need to open to his coming in spirit and in deed. Thank you Joe.

  4. Marie, I can relate to what you say. Over 15-20 years I’ve done something similar. Praying before the Blessed Sacrament, unloading my hurt, anger, trials and tribulations, but like you, I’ve probably forgotten to leave them there. ?.

    When I first started to experience certain behaviours, which were so subtle, I didn’t realize how hurtful they were. I once explained to a trusted friend that it was like someone poked me with a pin everyday, till I realized how uncomfortably painful it was. So I started to keep a journal. I would read and reflect on the daily readings, then write down verses that helped me cope. At the end of a year, I read my journal and noticed that one verse would be pleading for help, another would be an answer. So I decided to arrange these verses into a booklet which I used daily as part my prayer life. I titled the booklet Words to Comfort and Heal: Message of Hope. That was more than15 years ago. I still use the booklet because it is so easy to build barriers to keep from getting hurt. I too have separated myself from those especially who should have nourished my faith.

    Advent is supposed to help us to begin again. This Sunday/week of Advent symbolizes Hope. Every Advent we hope for Jesus’ return. But in the meanwhile, we do what we can to bring the barriers down. Jesus said that we should not let our hearts be burdened with the anxieties of daily life. Strange that he would couple the anxieties of life with carousing and drunkeness! But as a friend said to me, daily anxieties of life often cause us to make bad decisions. Something to think about.

    Keep the faith Marie, I will, if you will. God bless.

  5. Thank you all for sharing. All of your thoughts and words have helped me today, God bless all of us and our world!

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