Aspire to have a tranquil life

In our first reading today in 1 Thessalonians 4:11 “aspire to live a tranquil life, to mind your own affairs, and to work with your [own] hands, as we instructed you”.

Not sure about you but there are rare moments in my life that are tranquil. Seems like there is always something to do. Busy people are happy but not always tranquil.The formula for that tranquility might be in  the Gospel reading for today. The master left on a journey and gave a task to three servants. Two of the three took what the master gave them and doubled the masters money. The third buried the money in the ground and sat on it so to speak. A”talent” was a measure of gold or silver that weighted about 75 pounds each. When you consider 10, 5 or 1 talent, you are not in my mind talking about small responsibilities.

When it came to a time of accounting, the first two were rewarded but the person who did nothing received nothing. Now, I think it is obvious that Christ was not talking about money but the talents and gifts you received from Him when your soul was created. Notice all of them had a different number of talents but the masters expectations were the same for each of them. He expected a return on his investment. God expects a return from us. Not in monetary terms but the fruits from the talents or gifts he has given us. It is interesting that the Hebrew “talent” and the English talent sound the same and have both meanings in this scripture.

Years ago, I had a friend by the name of Ron. He will not be upset when I say this but he was not a handsome man. He would admit this himself but the thing that made him remarkable was his intelligence and spirit.  Ron had Cerebral Palsy and had a speech impediment. Nonetheless, he was a great story-teller and loved to tell corny jokes. It was his delivery. He would start out with a joke you had heard a thousand times before and speak about 2 lines, cough and laugh with this huge belly laugh then continue with the joke. Anyone else telling the same joke would take 2-3 minutes but Ron would take 5-10.  All this time everyone is hanging on every word and laughing with him. Again his delivery was everything.

Ron graduated with a degree in History and Journalism in 1953 before Citizens with Disabilities was even thought of existing. He retired after 25 years as editor of a monthly construction magazine. He wrote a weekly article for his church bulletin.

Ron and I  would attend a church diner  twice  yearly. The place that the event took place was a run down children’s camp. The community would have to bring in  bottled water since the sulphur-water was undrinkable. There was a further complication because there was no place to sit down at table when we ate. Because we were very good friends,  I volunteered  to feed Ron by hand. He was wheelchair bound and could not hold the paper plate, so I fed him and tried to feed myself at the same time. Everyone else in the room loved this scene and so did Ron. It wasn’t that enjoyable for me as any mother or father feeding a baby and trying to eat themselves would agree. Still everyone looked forward to the event. Years later that old camp is a housing development and we now hold the same event in a much more modern facility where Ron could feed himself. People will still come up to me and say how much they enjoyed me feeding Ron. I miss it myself.

The master said to the useless servant in Matthew 25:27-30 ” Should you not then have put my money ( talent ) in the bank so that I could have got it back with interest on my return? Now then! Take the talent from him and give it to the one with ten.For to everyone who has, more will be given and he will grow rich; but from the one who has not, even what he has will be taken away. And throw this useless servant into the darkness outside, where there will be wailing and grinding of teeth.” 

God gives each of us certain gifts. It is all too obvious that some people have more gifts than others, but Jesus is not telling us that we are good servants by the number of gifts we have. No, no! He is telling us to use the gifts we have to further the Kingdom of God here on earth. We can take what God gives us and bury those gifts or use them for the common good. Remember this world is not about you or me, but it is about us and God’s agenda for us on earth as a people of faith . If we bury those gifts we are like the useless servant.

This brings to mind the people of Texas who are at this very moment doing things to help their neighbors devastated by hurricanes and flooding. My  heart goes out to them, but I am humbled by  the spirit of community and love and even those who have lost everything are still going forward helping others. They are definitely using their talents.

Mother Teresa has a quote.” We can do no great things – only small things with great love.” The tranquil life from our first reading comes from using the gifts that God has given us in small or large ways and in using those gifts. The other two servants made their master happy in  Matthew 25:23 ” Since you were faithful in small matters, I will give you great responsibilities Come share in your masters joy.”

We make God happy and joyful when we use our gifts to produce good fruit.It may take all your life to find out what those gifts are and we could have different gifts at various times in our life. It could be as simple as telling a corny joke or as major as helping out in a flood, but God gives us all gifts to use and produce fruit. The tranquility we all seek will come when use our gifts for the Masters purpose. Amen!

God Bless

Bob Burford

Readings: 1 Thessalonians 4:9-11; Psalm 98: 1, 7-8, 9; Matthew 25:14-30

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My name is Bob Burford and am married to my lovely bride, Anna. I am a cradle Catholic and worship at Church of Saint Mary's in Tulsa, Oklahoma. I am active in the Knights of Columbus and praying where the Lord wants both of us to serve in our new faith home. College degrees in Economics and Accounting. My wife and I have eight grandchildren and six great grandchildren. Love Pope Frances and proclaiming the Word of the Lord in my life! Please pray for all the Ukrainian people. Pray for their salvation and physical and emotional health.

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11 Comments

  1. As always, Thanks Bob for your reflection.. I always get excited when I see your name and read/reflect with you. God bless you!

  2. Hey Bob,

    I do love your reflections.

    Hopefully you know that I have a way of looking at things a little different then the rest of your readers.

    I look to what Thomas Jefferson wrote in the United States Declaration of Independence:

    “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness.”

    Of course the most important part of what was written with relation to today’s Gospel is the “created equal” part.

    God loves each and everyone of us more than we will ever know…equally. I would say that within each of our souls we have an equal “talent” to further the Kingdom of God, physical attributes mean nothing in God’s eyes.

    So, what are the more “talents” than others are you talking about? What are the more
    “talents” God is talking about? And, most importantly, why is not using them worthy of eternal damnation? I would assume we all have talents that we don’t know about.

    Mark

  3. I always wondered why the man who buried the money was wrong. What if he thought that by doing that, that he was protecting the investment? What if he “thought” he was doing what was best? In his opinion, he was protecting the money. As a conservative thinker, this has always bothered me. Can our talent be – preserving the goodness around us? Is that wrong?

  4. Great reflection Bob. Linda the person with one talent is operating out of a position of distorted fear, so the parable say’s. What if the one talent person is just lazy and used the fear comments to cover his laziness. We don’t get to have all the answers but it’s important to know not to operate out of distorted irrational fear or laziness. Mark we are all created equal in dignity. Not equal, equal in dignity. Our souls are different, the soul is the mind, the intellect the will and emotion and feeling. Which should put your questions in a better perspective. God created us to need Him and each other. Not a generic equation of equality and soul are all statically equal. It obviously does not work that way. I hope this helps a little. Thanks for your attention. Praise be to God and thank you God for my soul. Thank you for my brothers and sisters in Christ dear God.

  5. “To one he gave five talents; to another, two; to a third, one– TO EACH ACCORDING TO HIS ABILITY”. The parable also states that the servants that were given 5 and 2 talents IMMEDIATELY went out and increased what they were given. I need to work on my procrastination which is a form of laziness. If it doesn’t take me more than 5 minutes to do, then I should just do it. Oftentimes, trying to be a perfectionist results in a stagnant outcome. The fear of wanting and waiting for that “perfect or ideal time” to complete a task just brings about more stress and anxiety. I agree with Anonymous’ comment above. God gives us our own specific talents and abilities in accordance to what He feels we can handle. Therefore, any hardship or challenge that we face needs to be looked upon as something that God knows we can deal with. I often tell my kids and myself as well that God will never give us too much that He feels we cannot cope with and overcome. Thank you, Bob, for your enlightening reflection! God bless and keep you.

  6. Hello Bob. What, though, is the significance of not reaping what i sown? It almost seems as if the servant is accusing his master.

  7. Laziness and reaping what is not sown. I must admit I am lazy sometimes but hopefully I use what God has given me in large ways and in small. One of the things I have learned over the years is that it is not about me. God gives me opportunity to use my gifts. If I don’t it is my fault
    I believe part of God’s plan is for us to be His instruments. We are the hands of God in everything we do. He expects us to be His hands. That is part of His plan. We are His sowers.

  8. I am the same anonymous and I do procrastinate and have my lazy moments that I must work on as well. But what I forgot to include in my comments is this. “Fruit” As Americans in particular but also as a social planet as well. We believe and sow and plant and we expect fruit too soon (least I do this as well as many, many others) It takes us working together with God once the seed is sown to nurture what kind of fruit and what will be the out come of the fruit, the point being is we modenized civilized people say we want something and plant the seed for it then expect the fruit the next day. It does not work that way. Don’t think it ever will yet it is God’s fruit and He will bring it to fruition. Love Anonymous

  9. I love the sharing, it has really enriched my thinking in God’s perspective. My question is how can we know our gifts or talents given by God and try not to bury them? This is because some people are born and thrive in families where they are guided/directed to do for their prosperity until their late ages.

  10. To Amos
    Romans 12: 2″ Do not conform yourselves to this age but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and pleasing and perfect” We go in many directions. Not all of them are where God wants us to go. We all have successes and failures in des
    cerning God’s plan. The important thing that we keep trying.

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