Saturday October 22, 2022: Second Chances

Today’s Readings

Ah the joys and the perils of home ownership. Those of you who own your own home know of what I speak. The comfort of somewhere to come back to at the end of a long day or a long trip. The familiarity of the neighborhood and the relationships with neighbors. The pride of a new garden or flower bed.

But there is also the other side of the coin. The driveway that needs to be patched or resurfaced. The hail damage to the siding. Rusted chimney caps. Sump pumps not removing rain water from the basement. Blessings and curses.

When we bought our home 30 years ago, we needed to do some major work to get the lawn back up to snuff. We fertilized, added weed killer, aerated and over seeded. Finally it began to look like something. Not quite a carpet, but you actually could walk barefoot on it.

Then came the quack grass. Not to be confused with crab grass…which is fairly easy to manage. No, quack grass has long, horizontal roots. Once you think you have killed it in one patch, it pops up in another spots. Evil tendrils of lawn killing death. I am imagining it in an episode of Star Trek on some remote planet strangling the life out of the world’s inhabitants. But I digress.

We tried everything to kill the stuff. Every weed killer known to man. No amount of aerating or seeding would help. Second chance for the lawn? No. Third, fourth and fifth. So we decided it was time. We wiped out the whole thing. Good grass and weeds alike. The place looked like we had transported it to the deserts of Arizona. All we needed was some cactus and tumbleweeds. In fact, an aerial photographer tried to sell photos of our neighbor’s properties and the selling point was that at least their yards didn’t look anything like the mess around our house. After a prolonged waiting period, we were able to get new seed to grow and the lawn was restored.

We gave our lawn a chance to recover. As did the master (God) when the gardener (Jesus) bargained for the life of the fruitless fig tree in today’s Gospel from Luke:

“There once was a person who had a fig tree planted in his orchard, 
and when he came in search of fruit on it but found none,
he said to the gardener,
‘For three years now I have come in search of fruit on this fig tree 
but have found none.
So cut it down.
Why should it exhaust the soil?’
He said to him in reply,
‘Sir, leave it for this year also, 
and I shall cultivate the ground around it and fertilize it; 
it may bear fruit in the future.
If not you can cut it down.’”
(Luke 13:6-9)

We don’t know how that tree did the following season. It may have produced fruit, it may have been cut down or maybe the master was once again convinced to allow the tree to have another chance at fulfilling its mission. Christ died for us so that we can receive the gift of a second chance. Of being forgiven of our mistakes and coming closer to bearing the fruit he intended for us to produce. To grow and mature and be ready for the kingdom that he has prepared for us.

When we first set up our veterinary practice we needed to hire a veterinary assistant. Money was tight but we found a program at the local high school that placed students into jobs that they might be interested in pursuing after graduation, if college was no in their plans. We were matched with a Sophomore student who had some behavioral issues at school and at home. She was in danger of being suspended. The director of the program saw something in her and worked with her as she adapted to working as an animal assistant in our practice. It was not smooth sailing at first. Attendance issues, performance lapses, etc. But her director stood by her. She eventually graduated high school and became a vital employee for us. She went on to get her degree as a certified veterinary technician and now works in a large veterinary specialty clinic in the imaging department. A perfect person? No. But none of us are. But one person gave her a chance to become the best version of her self (as Matthew Kelly would say).

The weed infested lawn, that little fig tree and our veterinary tech. And the errors we all make every day that someone sees, forgives and then gives us the opportunity to make amends, change direction and grow. The potential to become the person God intended exists in each of us. The same potential in each one of us that God sees and Jesus died for. God doesn’t make mistakes. May we all act towards one another as that gardener did for the fig tree. Water, fertilize, care for and wait patiently for God’s fruit to appear.

About the Author

Hello! My name is John Ciribassi. I live in Carol Stream, IL in the USA. My wife Elise and I are parishioners at Corpus Christi Catholic Church. We have two adult daughters. One lives in Senegal, West Africa with her husband and her 3 sons. The other teaches Anthropology at the University of Oslo, Norway. We also have a home in Mainesburg, Pa in the North Central part of Pennsylvania. My wife and I are both retired veterinarians, and my specialty is in animal behavior. I attended college and veterinary school in Illinois, where I met my wife who is from the Chicago area, and the rest is history! My hobbies include Racquetball, Pickleball, Off Road Motorcycle Riding, Hiking and Camping. I continue to enjoy the opportunity to offer what little insight I have on the scriptures. But I have always felt that the scriptures can speak for themselves. My job is just to shine a little light on them for people who maybe don't have the time to look into the readings deeply. I hope you enjoy and find value in my writings. I continue to be grateful for this opportunity.

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14 Comments

  1. What a reflection!!! with practical, learn from and doable examples.
    Very helpful
    Thank you John

    May the Lord continue to bless.

  2. Wow!! Thank you John for throwing light on this scripture, I have never seen it in this regard . “May we all act towards one another as that gardener did for the fig tree. Water, fertilize, care for and wait patiently for God’s fruit to appear.” Amen

  3. Really nice reflection Mr C. Giving people and things a chance to grow and thrive is a must. There are so many hidden gems to be had if we take the time and effort. Thanks for giving us the examples in your life…I think I’ve got a few of my own. Peace my brother.

  4. Thank you John!!! Literally was dealing with a major issue with my son and read your reflection, you wrote it for me!! Seriously, it was the Holy Spirit through your words, exactly what I needed as a Dad.
    God Bless and thank you.
    Joe

  5. I always enjoy your perspective but today it seems you were truly inspired. Thank you for expressing and sharing your insights to provide an opportunity for us to also be inspired.

  6. Thank you John. We are all that “weed-patched lawn” in some way or another. It kills the self-satisfaction and opens my eyes to the “real me.” Jesus sees us and loves us even in our sins.

  7. A wonderful reflection John.Our God is a giver of second,third,fourth and many more chances.He will never give up on us and your writing illustrates that so well.Thank you for sharing your insightful thoughts.

  8. Nice reflection John, thank you.
    Oh, you forgot one other setback of being a home owner – property tax!
    Ouch! My brother lives in Elgin.

  9. John, I have not told you this but I always look forward to reading your Saturday reflection. Your Lawn story and then the vet. Tech are actually two good Parables in their own right. Thanks a lot and as @Sean said, you really were inspired!

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