Saturday May 11, 2019: Truth or Consequences.

Several decades ago in the United States there was a TV game show called Truth or Consequences. The premise was that a contestant was given a question to answer and if they answered correctly they got a prize but if they answered incorrectly they were made to face some embarrassing stunt in order to be rewarded. They either spoke the truth or had to face the consequences. It is a conundrum we all face at one time or another.

About a year or so ago our pastor caught everyone by surprise when he gave a homily on a controversial topic. Actually, at the time, most of us in the congregation did not really even know that it was a controversial topic. That is, until the consequences of the talk began to become obvious.

The homily centered on the topic of IVF, or In Vitro Fertilization. For those of you who may not be familiar with IVF, it is a procedure designed to assist couples who are having difficulty conceiving a baby. The process involves collecting eggs from a woman, placing them in a solution in a dish then fertilizing the eggs with a man’s sperm. The fertilized eggs are then implanted surgically into the uterus of the same woman with the hope that at least some of the eggs implant in the uterus and can be carried to term.

There are a couple concerns with IVF from the Church’s position. One is that the procedure dissociates the act of intercourse from procreation. It moves conception from an act of the union of two people committed to each other and God’s will to a laboratory based process.

The other objection is that because multiple fertilized embryos can be implanted into the uterus, often a number which cannot be safely carried to term, it is necessary to destroy one or more of the embryos. Directly opposing the right to life of each of these new lives.

Our pastor’s words prompted a large backlash in the parish resulting in many families leaving the parish and creating division even among those who elected to remain. The reverberations still persist today.

In today’s Gospel from John, Jesus has just challenged his disciples with some words that caught them way off guard. He just told them that for them to have eternal life they must eat his flesh and drink his blood. Do what?!! Seriously?! Don’t forget that up to this point, Jesus had become a rock star. He fed the 5,000, he cured the lame, the blind and the deaf. Leprosy was no match for him and neither was death. He rose Lazarus and Jarius’ daughter back to life. His followers were growing in leaps and bounds.

But then, in the face of such popularity, he stops it all in its tracks. He essentially is telling them they must be cannibals. As well as telling Jews, who have a prohibition against consuming blood of animals, that they must turn their backs on Mosaic law. So, as can be expected, many if not most of his disciples turn and walk away from the Lord. They just can’t accept this teaching. This isn’t the feel good Jesus they had come to know and follow.

And what does Jesus do? Does he get their attention and say, “No, wait. I was just speaking symbolically. Not literally. Come on back. I can do the whole water into wine thing again for you.” Nope. He allows them to go. Then he turns to the twelve and asks them if they want to leave too. Peter steps up to the plate and tells Jesus what he had longed to hear. Peter affirms the apostles’ belief that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God. He has the words of eternal life. Quality in place of Quantity.

And this is what we are called to do. To be Jesus’ mouthpiece to the world. It means at times we will be admired for the love we spread in His name. But it also means that there will be times when the world will not like the message we convey. The truth often is in direct opposition to the idea of only speaking if our words create positive, “feel good” emotions. It will mean creating division. As it says in Hebrews 4:12:

For the word of God is living and active. and sharper than any two-edged sword, and piercing as far as the division of soul and spirit, of joints and marrow, and able to judge the thoughts and intentions of the heart. \

When we, as disciples of Christ, hear the truth being spoken will we walk away and run back to the world. Or do we say “Master, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life.”

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Hello! My name is John Ciribassi. I live in Carol Stream, IL in the USA. My wife Elise and I are parishioners at Corpus Christi Catholic Church. We have two adult daughters. One lives in Senegal, West Africa with her husband and her 3 sons. The other teaches Anthropology at the University of Oslo, Norway. We also have a home in Mainesburg, Pa in the North Central part of Pennsylvania. My wife and I are both retired veterinarians, and my specialty is in animal behavior. I attended college and veterinary school in Illinois, where I met my wife who is from the Chicago area, and the rest is history! My hobbies include Racquetball, Pickleball, Off Road Motorcycle Riding, Hiking and Camping. I continue to enjoy the opportunity to offer what little insight I have on the scriptures. But I have always felt that the scriptures can speak for themselves. My job is just to shine a little light on them for people who maybe don't have the time to look into the readings deeply. I hope you enjoy and find value in my writings. I continue to be grateful for this opportunity.

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11 Comments

  1. Good reflection. We can be taken by surprise with the realization of how lax our thinking has become. There are many things now accepted by society, and made legal, that are in fact wrong. We don’t have to judge or jail people who believe otherwise, but we do have to stick to the truth. Thank you so much for this piece.

  2. In what seems a gentle way Jesus gives us a chance to make up our own minds…his truthful way…not threatening just truth with all its sharp edges. Outstanding refection John!

  3. When you really put yourself in those people’s shoes, honestly, what would your reaction be? They had no fore knowledge of the Eucharist. Maybe a lot of those people came back to following Christ after His resurrection. I am so thankful for those 12 apostles, who some how understood what our Lord was talking about.

  4. Awesome reflection John. It’s the Holy Spirit, not us, who moves in and through us. Jesus said He would separate the sheep from the goats, though He wants us all to be sheep and follow Him. He even goes after the lost sheep. That is why we can never give in to discouragement with our loved ones who choose not to follow Him. The truth will always offend others. That is the nature of the truth. God bless all today.

  5. It must have been painful for Jesus to see so many of his disciples leave him, especially after he had been with them so long, taught them, loved them, supported them, healed them. He had been a good friend to them. According to some biblical scholars, Jesus did not use the standard Greek verb “to eat”. The verb most literally translated as “to bite, chew, gnaw.” One can easily be turned off even in our day. But today, we use the words eat and drink and it does not sound as offensive. In fact when we do receive the body and blood of Christ in Eucharist, what we see with our eyes is a round white wafer that the priest has consecrated. I recall many years ago, a priest giving a talk on the Eucharist. He said most people let the wafer stay on our tongue before we swallow it. He said, in fact, we should be chewing on the bread of life. If we put ourselves back in the time of Jesus, and recall the Jewish traditions, it would have turned our stomachs. Perhaps Jesus was asking them to stretch their minds beyond the physical into the spiritual realm. There was a case where a priest who doubted the wafer was the actual body of Christ saw the bread and wine change into real flesh and blood as in the case of the Lanciano Miracle (in the 8th century). I visited Lanciano in 2010 to see these relics. Because of the number of pilgrims, one could only have a brief look and move on. But it leaves a deep impact on most people who have the privilege of seeing.

    Have a blessed weekend

  6. Hey John,

    I like your insight on today’s Gospel reading. I think a better title may be “Truth and Consequences”, considering the end point of Christ’s ministry.

    To answer Peter’s question, “Master, to whom shall we go?”, your quote from T.F. Tenney pretty much sums it up. Anywhere but here. For all but one of the Apostles, the first law of nature seems to kick in…self preservation.

    Mark

  7. I’ve been thinking about how the Catholic Church authorities are behaving like the Pharisees and scribes. Putting in all those laws (compare all those 600+ Jewish laws and the Catechism), but not looking at what Jesus actually said. Not treating people with love and compassion. The stance on IVF is one of those issues. The Church is a broken record with its “have babies, remember to have babies” song, and then when couples (married heterosexual couples, no less!) try a way to have a baby, the Church condemns them. This situation is not only ironic, but sad.

    I would have left that parish, too. Kudos to those who did. Just like kudos to the people who walked out of Mass one day when the priest was pontificating about homosexuality. That was at a parish I used to attend when I lived in another city. I would have walked out with them, had I not been out of town that Sunday.

  8. John, I really enjoyed your reflection. It makes me wonder what group I would have been in: the ones who left or those who stayed. The older I get the more I can see the gray areas, some things are not so black and white anymore. I am not sure if this is good or bad, I am just praying I am stay on the right path to God.

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