Wednesday, July 15, 2020 – Abandoning the Lord

2 Chronicles 24:20 ” Then the spirit of God clothed Zechariah, son of Jehoiada the priest. He took his stand above the people and said to them: “Thus says God, Why are you transgressing the LORD’s commands, so that you cannot prosper? Because you have abandoned the LORD, he has abandoned you.”

I am not sure if I am speaking for you the reader or just myself. There are times in my life when I have felt abandoned. In no-way is this a pleasant feeling but, praise God, only temporary.

Sin is when we abandon God. That must be hard for Him because He loves us.  Thankfully, we have the Sacrament of Reconciliation.  Just like in Zechariah’s time, we as a people do not listen sometimes. This is not just following the Ten Commandments (Exodus 20) . It is about loving one another and seeking the Kingdom of God in our daily lives.

Let me tell you of an experience that I had this week when I abandoned the Lord . Florida is hot and humid in the summer. Even a healthy person can get heat stroke and get dehydrated in a short amount of time. As I was waiting at a bus stop, a man and a woman approached me and asked if I had any spare change.  One thing I noticed was the woman was wandering from side to side as she walked. This is a sure sign of the beginning of heat stroke. With debit cards today I carry little if any money but, as it happens, I did have a dollar in my wallet but I said, “no”. Then I regretted it, but I did not chase after them and to give them the money. Pan-handlers are all around us and Jesus said the poor will be with you always, but I should have given the money to them. I did not need it.  It was so obvious a moment of grace but I closed the door. It did not matter whether It was obvious that they needed help. That dollar could have purchased a cool drink at a convenience store.

As a people we listen to the Sunday sermon  or read reflections like ” A Catholic Moment “and we say yes, yes  to the instruction but only come out of Church with no, no in our actions. Jesus says today from  His Sermon on the Mount Matthew 6:24  “No one can serve two masters. He will either hate one and love the other, or be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon.”  

At what point will God abandon us as a people?

Jesus answers this question as He continues in Matthew 6:25 “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat [or drink], or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing?”

I have so many mixed feelings about this passage. Fine, I say why should you worry. You are God ! Then I try to take that thought back because Jesus answers my silly thoughts right away when He gives us the answer in Matthew 6: 31-34  “So do not worry and say, ‘What are we to eat?’ or ‘What are we to drink?’ or ‘What are we to wear?’ All these things the pagans seek. Your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom [of God] and his righteousness, and all these things will be given you besides. Do not worry about tomorrow; tomorrow will take care of itself. Sufficient for a day is its own evil.”

Life is not about the being obsessed with the cares of the world, but in all things to address the evils of this world by seeking the Kingdom of God in our daily lives and depend on God for the rest. Still, we have to do our part. We have to look at the world and say how will I today try to make this world a better place. There  are opportunities everywhere, but we have to be open to them.

Just like my own example, I missed an opportunity to eliminate the evil of human suffering of two people in distress. My prayer is that by seeking the Kingdom of God in my own life that I my seek only one master in everything I do.

Please pray for immigrants and families throughout the world. May God not abandon us for our mistakes and our lack of love and compassion.

God Bless

Bob Burford

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My name is Bob Burford and am married to my lovely bride, Anna. I am a cradle Catholic and worship at Church of Saint Mary's in Tulsa, Oklahoma. I am active in the Knights of Columbus and praying where the Lord wants both of us to serve in our new faith home. College degrees in Economics and Accounting. My wife and I have eight grandchildren and six great grandchildren. Love Pope Frances and proclaiming the Word of the Lord in my life! Please pray for all the Ukrainian people. Pray for their salvation and physical and emotional health.

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12 Comments

  1. Many thanks Mr Bob for your good and practical words that root our faith deeply in Christ’s teaching. We have to see the opportunity and take it. Many blessings sir.

  2. Hi Bob, I am afraid of reaching for my wallet in front of a person asking for money. Afraid they will push me down and grab my wallet and hurt me. My friend had a knife put to her throat in the daytime after helping that person home. We are to look at others as Christ looks at them, and I pray for them, but I have to be aware that there are people in this world who do not look at others that way. I find other ways to help others in need.

  3. We all matter! And at times we all could use a helping hand. I pray for the strength to reach out and help when help is needed. It is way to tempting to turn away and not get involved
    Have a blessed day

  4. A monk at St. Bonaventure University in upstate New York, told his students, and our child, that panhandlers, people asking for money were placed in our path as a gift from God reminding us to help others. Whether they had Addis’s sneakers on or were in rags it was an opportunity to help. That it was not our place to judge what they would do with the donation but simply an opportunity for us to help someone who asked for help. I too have said NO when that dollar burned in my pocket and recall that message from the friar. A simple dollar has had a way to so humble me. Thank you for your thought provoking reflections . What a wonderful gift you share.

  5. Thanks Bob, I’ve always liked what Jesus said about worry. We are a culture of worriers.
    As far as giving money to panhandlers, especially the ones you see on the same street corner every day – Uhhh? I’d rather donate to Peters-pence.
    I volunteered at my church 20 years ago and seen many coming looking for money for various reasons. Some where repeaters and threepeaters at which time our business office manager had to determine if they where really trying to get back on their feet or gaming the system. Man, I’m glad that I did not have that responsibility.

  6. Thank you Bob, well done. I had a similar experience last year. A guy approached me with a note. I stopped, read it and then proceeded to ask a few questions, making conversation. He was looking for a weeks rent. I give him less than half. Even though I had the full amount on me, I could of given it to him. It was unsuspecting moment I suppose.
    I felt afterwards that I should of given him what he asked. There was a lesson in there. As me and him departed he kissed the back of my hand and thanked me very much. How he managed to grab my fingers and hand is mystery.
    Peace and harmony………..

  7. Today’s readings are from IS 10:5-7, 13B-16 & MT 11:25-27
    Is there a mistake somewhere?

  8. Yes, thankfully we have the sacrament of Reconciliation. I abandon God on a semi-regular basis with two particular sins that I commit over and over. Sometimes there is a decent time span between them, other times I do it often. I pray daily and go to Reconciliation often, but still struggle with these sins. So far, God hasn’t abandoned me, praise be to Him!! Thanks for your words, Bob, they help guide me towards obedience to our Lord’s Commands.

  9. Bob — Thank you for your reflection. Please advise what mistakes are being made with regard to immigrants and families throughout the world? How or where are we showing a lack of love and compassion?

    I could be wrong, but as a long time reader of A Catholic Moment, I can state that you seem to be going back to the days of being political.
    Blessings.

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