Saturday April 2, 2022: Does this dress make me look fat?

Today’s Readings

April Calendar of Readings

Does this dress make me look fat? What do you think of this new recipe for brussels sprouts I found? What do you think of my new toupee from “Hair Are Us”? I just started taking Tuba lessons. Wanna hear?

I am guessing you all can come up with some additional questions people ask that you might not want to hear a true response to. Truth is a tricky thing, isn’t it? We all say we want to hear the truth but inevitably we sometimes prefer people maybe resort to a little white lie occasionally to spare our feelings. Or maybe the brutally honest response is the best policy? The thing about the truth is that it sometimes leads to division. We all SAY we want to hear the truth but do we really?

Quid est veritas? What is truth? That is the question Pontius Pilate asked of Jesus when Jesus told him that he came to speak the truth. We all like to think that Jesus came to unite us. To bring us all together under the truth of the Kingdom of God. Kind of create Kumbaya moments. But we see in Luke 12, Jesus talks plainly about why He has come:

“Do you suppose that I came to grant peace on earth? I tell you, no, but rather division; for from now on five members in one household will be divided, three against two and two against three. They will be divided, father against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother, mother-in-law against daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.”

As a matter of fact, I realized that in compiling this reflection, it is likely that I will offend some of you. But in doing so, it will help make the point of our two readings today. Let me get right to it.

A few years ago, in the state of Illinois, the governor signed into law legalizing same-sex marriage. However, the Catholic Church has always maintained that marriage is between a man and a woman and bases it partially on Jesus’ statement in this verse:

(Matthew 19:4-5) “He answered, ‘Have you not read that he who made them from the beginning made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one’?”

At that time in Illinois, Catholic Charities would not adopt children to same sex couples. It went against the teachings of the Church. The state of Illinois threatened law suits against the Church in Illinois if they did not comply with the law. Catholic Charities elected to no longer handle adoptions to avoid compromising their position. To avoid compromising the truth. This truth has caused division between Catholics and Non-Catholics and also between Catholics. The truth may set you free but it can also cause conflict.

At our parish several years ago, our pastor gave a homily in which he summarized the Church’s position on In Vitro Fertilization (IVF). In short, the Church does not permit it because it 1) can involve the abortion of excessive fetuses in the uterus, 2) creates moral questions of what to do with unwanted frozen embryos, 3) bypasses God’s involvement in the process. As you may predict, a good percentage of the parish was not happy with this homily (many had children and grandchildren that were the products of IVF) and some left the church. Some were not aware of the Church’s stance on IVF and were glad to get this clarification.

And in Matthew 19:4 we see Jesus making a point about the truth of gender identity:

Jesus answered, “Surely you have read in the Scriptures: When God made the world, ‘he made them male and female.’

In today’s first reading, the prophet Jeremiah has been missioned by God to warn the people of Israel that the King of Babylon will be attacking and they have little chance of surviving. Rather than subject themselves to this destruction, they should surrender before the Babylonians. This was not a popular stance. To compound matters he was commissioned by God to warn the Hebrews of their sinful ways and in their breaking of the covenant with God. Also, did not make him a popular prophet. In fact he has become known as the “weeping prophet” because of his sadness with the behavior of the Hebrews toward God and toward himself.

And in today’s Gospel we see Jesus in Jerusalem during the festival of the Booths. He is teaching the people openly. Some are convinced that He is a prophet, while others say He is the Christ. The rest of the crowd are against Him. He cannot be the Messiah because He comes from Galilee, and the Messiah is said to come from Bethlehem. Of course, they are not aware of the birth story of Jesus. There was also division within the Pharisees over Jesus. The majority were looking at ways to kill him and ordered the temple guards to arrest Him. But the soldiers declined since they were spellbound by the wisdom that Jesus spoke. And Nicodemus stood up for Jesus in the Sanhedrin saying that their own laws could not condemn a man without giving him an opportunity to explain himself.

Jesus claimed the truth was His to proclaim as He was being interrogated by Pilate:

“You say that I am a king. Instead, in fact, the reason I was born and came into the world is to testify to the truth. Everyone on the side of truth listens to me.”

And this truth led directly to the division of Jew and Greek, Jew and Jew, relative against relative. And we are called to speak this truth as well. He tells us that He is “The Way, the Truth and the Life” and if we are to follow Him, we are to follow His truth. And we are to speak this truth as we speak the Gospel.

So let the objections fly!! These are all difficult issues to speak of and I know opinions fall at least on two distinct sides of the arguments. After all, The Word of God divides like a two edged sword. Is there such a thing as absolute truth? I believe that Jesus was clear that there is absolute truth and it is His truth that we should absolutely follow. After all He did not say “I am A Way, A Truth and A Life.

Oh yeah, one question. Does the lab coat in my profile picture make me look fat?

About the Author

Hello! My name is John Ciribassi. I live in Carol Stream, IL in the USA. My wife Elise and I are parishioners at Corpus Christi Catholic Church. We have two adult daughters. One lives in Senegal, West Africa with her husband and her 3 sons. The other teaches Anthropology at the University of Oslo, Norway. We also have a home in Mainesburg, Pa in the North Central part of Pennsylvania. My wife and I are both retired veterinarians, and my specialty is in animal behavior. I attended college and veterinary school in Illinois, where I met my wife who is from the Chicago area, and the rest is history! My hobbies include Racquetball, Pickleball, Off Road Motorcycle Riding, Hiking and Camping. I continue to enjoy the opportunity to offer what little insight I have on the scriptures. But I have always felt that the scriptures can speak for themselves. My job is just to shine a little light on them for people who maybe don't have the time to look into the readings deeply. I hope you enjoy and find value in my writings. I continue to be grateful for this opportunity.

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12 Comments

  1. Great reflection. Did the Pastor also say the children that came from IVF were innocent and a blessing as all children are? We are facing future IVF grandchildren and after saying what you said above we are now keeping quiet with non-stop prayer and love as only God can give His Grace. Thanks John.

  2. Catherine. Yes. He said that the children should be loved regardless of how they were conceived. Same with children who are conceived by rape. They did not choose how they came to be and deserve the same amount of love and respect.

  3. No, it doesn’t not make you fat.
    It is interesting how we want people to accept our truths forgetting that Jesus is the only way, truth and life.
    Thank for the reflection.

  4. Church teachings can be very much harder for some people to live by than for others, but that doesn’t make them less true. And in the long run, living by the truth will bring more peace and joy in our lives. I leave the judgement to God, just loving and praying for those who go against His teaching. Maybe this is cowardly, not speaking out.

  5. Thank you John. So many good points to ponder. In the end the truth always rules. If it’s not the truth…what is it? And your lab coat…it makes you look like a doctor. What can I say…its the truth. Peace my brother.

  6. I love this reflection mainly because the truth is written and simple to understand. Faith, Love, Prayers and the truth of our Lord’s passion has set us free to live a good life here on earth. God Bless you Dr John…you look professional in your white coat…carry on! 🙏🏼

  7. Many within the church are afraid to speak the truth because of the division it can create. Thank you for a reflection based on the truth that comes from our Creator……regardless of public opinion.p

  8. Wow John, that reflection up there with your best IMHO.
    Like Jack Nicholsons famous line from (a few good men). “You want the truth? You can’t handle the truth”!
    Now we have a federal government who is going to start issuing “Gender X” passports next month. This is what our great “One nation under God” has come to!
    Lord have mercy
    Christ have mercy
    Lord have mercy…
    PS: your photo makes you look bald!
    From one baldy to another lol.
    My uncle was a Chaplin in the army for 30 years. He told me “God created a few great minds and the rest He covered with hair” ;-).

  9. John, I agree the issues you point out could well open a can of worms. I understand the teachings of the church but also do my best not to judge. It’s not my place to judge. We have friends that invited us to their wedding. It was canceled due to Covid but we had planned to attend and celebrate with them. They are wonderful women. I am much more comfortable calling these legal unions rather than marriages but I don’t believe that’s the way those that enter into same sex unions feel about it. It takes away the emotional part of it—that they are joining together out of love and commitment to each other. I leave it in God’s hands.

  10. Thanks John for being brutally honest. Yes, often we want to know the truth, but find it difficult to accept it. And yes, there are many Catholic teachings that are hard to accept or follow…that many just leave the Catholic Church for that reason. And as Skip mentioned about Jack Nicholson…sometimes, we can’t handle the truth! We only need to seek God’s grace that we accept His truth. After all, He is the Way, the Truth and the Life!

  11. The truth, sometimes,it hurts and it heals too.

    Oh! Your lab coat is good on you!

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