Saturday 3/23/19 Finding your character

At various times in my spiritual journey, I have commented that Jesus could have benefitted tremendously from the efforts of a darned good editor. Now maybe it’s because I am a writer, but I can’t help thinking that if He had one, the Beatitudes would have been easier to memorize. Perhaps we would know for certain whether that particular sermon was delivered on a plain, on a mountainside or was a regular feature of His set list. Perhaps we would know how many people were in attendance when He provided lunch for everyone and perhaps some of His parables would be easier to understand. 

            Now, don’t get me wrong – when it comes to storytelling, I believe Jesus was right up there with Aesop in spinning a yarn, but some of them require a dab of context. While we may be able to follow the general plotline of the Mustard Seed, unless you understand that it was considered to be an unruly weed back in the day, you can’t appreciate why it might be considered a theological threat. According to some biblical scholars Jesus was known to tell a few jokes now and again, but unless you are up on First Century pop culture and socioeconomic references, I guess those punch lines fall into a “you had to be there” kind of thing. 

            But in my opinion, the Parable of the Prodigal Son is a literary masterpiece. It stands the test of time. It’s easy to understand and it tends to resonate with everyone. It does not require any inside information to grasp the symbolism of the three main characters. God is the sympathetic father who gives his child the free will to screw up his life however he sees fit and who manages to forgive even when the other son, who represents any number of innocent bystanders, thinks he’s crazy for doing so. 

            That alone makes it an incredibly powerful story, but what makes it a classic is the author’s ability to help you identify with more than one character, depending on the circumstance in which you encounter it. If the Parable of the Prodigal Son had been a stage production when I was little, I would have easily played the part of the wayward kid who constantly makes mistakes and who hopes her parents would still love her as she learned her life lessons. 

            As a teenager, I would be that resentful youth who eschewed the idea that “good things come to those who wait.” I wanted it all and I wanted it now. And on occasion, when my parents gave me the freedom and responsibility I was ill prepared for, they were there to take up the slack when I crawled back in defeat and willing to admit that they were right. And of course as an adult, I have been the judgmental older brother who shakes his head in amazement as family members continue to forgive those folks who routinely take advantage of them. 

            But the older I get, the more I realize we are called to be the father in the story: the person who never stops hoping that someone will turn their life around and who is willing to forgive them and rejoice with them when they do. Like Shakespeare’s King Lear, it is a most demanding role. It is not as much “fun” as the other two parts and it is one that requires the most experience and nuance. That’s why the Master thespian best plays it while the rest of us are second-rate pretenders to the throne. 

            The Parable of the Prodigal Son is a story that needs no reboot or re-imagination. It is perfect the way that it is. It is  a plot that remains worth reading for it is a tale that never grows old, a story that takes on new meaning each time we read it and one that we are happy to return to no matter how long we have been away. 

Today’s readings for Mass: MI 7:14-15, 18-20; PS 103: 1-2, 3-4, 9-10, 11-12; LK 15: 1-3, 11-32. 

About the Author

Julie Young is an award-winning writer and author from Indianapolis, Indiana in the USA, whose work has been seen in Today’s Catholic Teacher, The Catholic Moment, and National Catholic Reporter. She is the author of nine books including: A Belief in Providence: A Life of Saint Theodora Guerin, The CYO in Indianapolis and Central Indiana and The Complete Idiot's Guide to Catholicism. She is a graduate of Scecina Memorial High School in Indianapolis and holds degrees in writing and education from Saint Mary-of-the-Woods College. She can be found online at www.julieyoungfreelance.com

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9 Comments

  1. Hi Julie,
    Thank you for sharing the word of God. We are called to be the forgiven father. Blessings.

  2. You summed it up well. A great story that gets better with age…my age. And to put yourself in all the characters shoes is a perfect growing up in life and spirituality. So well done. Written almost 2000 years ago and it never gets old. Amazing! Thank you Carolyn

  3. we can learn from the “son” figure by choosing to humbly return , admiting have wronged & ask the father for forgiveness

  4. Dear Julie, I just wanted to let you know how much I enjoy your style of writing. I feel as though we are sitting at a kitchen table having coffee and talking and laughing and maybe even tearing up about what character we would be.

  5. Thank you, Julie. I never really thought about how I relate to all the characters in the story but it’s true. Especially as a parent when we forgive our children. I think sometimes about the parents whose children have committed heinous crimes and how they stand by them at their trials. How heartbreaking that has to be for them. I imagine it’s the same for our Heavenly Father as He stands by us through the trials of our lives, always welcoming us back with open arms and forgiveness.

  6. The first reading from Micah and Psalm 103 fits in beautifully with the Parable of the Prodigal Son
    ….the God who removes guilt
    and pardons sin ….
    Who does not persist in anger forever,
    …delights in clemency,
    ….have compassion on us,
    treading underfoot our guilt?
    ….cast(ing) into the depths of the sea all our sins;

    The Lord is kind and merciful
    Pardons us, has compassion, heals …

    Just like the Father in the story.

    As of August 5, 2018 I stopped going to my Church because of the sheer humiliation I suffered from the parish priest and deacon, and the new priest I told my story to wouldn’t believe me. In fact, things just got worse. Certain new priests and the deacon started rumours about me. Lay people started humiliating me as well so I left and stopped going to any church. I have thought about going back to Church, but unless I can find someone who will listen and not judge me, like the Father, going to confession is a farce! I have had long chats with Him, but so far, have not received any direction what He wants me to do.

    Today’s readings and your reflection Julie, shines a tiny light. On an aside note, I was born on the Feast of the Annunciation. I was given three beautiful names, according to biblical definitions, all three relate to Christ. I thought I was blessed, and I was, until I started working for my Church. Who knew, that ‘good’ faithful Christians can be so cruel. Then I realized Christ suffered aggregiously at the hands of those closest to Him. Unfortunately, I’m not that strong, and I pray He will touch the heart of someone who knows the story, who will have the courage to come and tell me what they know so my humiliation will come to an end.

    Bless the Lord, O my Soul, and all my being bless His Holy Name

    God bless

  7. Chris if Jesus could forgive his murderers then you can forgive the people in the Church who you feel let you down. Move on with your life, put the past away, and embrace the church of your choice. The only judgement worth considering is God’s. He gave you a life to fulfill — please don’t squander it with regrets and shame if what you really want is to be back inside a Church community. God bless you.

  8. Chris, Stel is right. Don’t isolate yourself, don’t separate yourself from the love of God. That’s giving the devil a second victory.

  9. Thank you Stel and Brigid for your thoughtful insight. I assure you I have not separated myself from God’s love. Participating in these reflections is one way for me to keep the faith. Stel, I have forgiven these people, over and over (in my heart), because to actually tell them I had forgiven them for their behaviour toward, they would justify their behaviour. I keep asking God to send someone who knows something I may not have considered, but nothing so far. Please keep me in your prayers. Thank you, and God bless you both for your thoughtfulness.

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