Saturday, December 1, 2018 – Avoiding the holiday hangover

Andrea Schaufler

Happy December everyone! The countdown to Christmas has begun! In 25 days we will celebrate an event that is so sacred and special to us as Christians, we will literally spend the next 24 days getting ready for it. The shopping is started (or completed) and the purchased packages are wrapped, tagged and bagged before being placed under a festively decorated tree. We listen to carols on the radio until we are hearing “Jingle Bells” in our sleep. Cards are selected and mailed, parties are planned, wardrobe is chosen and food is assembled in preparation for the events that lay ahead. And although these four weeks may feel like a lifetime to the youngest among us, we know how quickly the time will fly by. Christmas will be here before we know it and we have to be ready for it. We tell ourselves we have to get it right.

While it is easy to get caught up in all of the holiday reverie, sometimes I wonder why we do it. We don’t get extra credit for our piety during the Advent/Christmas season. Jesus isn’t going to ask for a copy of our holiday photos in order to evaluate how well we celebrated His birthday and let’s face it…He’s not going to ask to taste our holiday ham. In fact, in today’s gospel, He actually warns against the undo holiday stress. He tells his followers not to lose sight of the big picture –especially when they are living in the moment. He tells them to prepare for Him every minute of every hour of every week in every month rather than falling all over ourselves a few times each year. He points out the pitfalls of “partying until you puke” and the punishing hangover that will undoubtedly follow when we fail to heed His words. Over the next four weeks we will make our lists and check them twice, but when the season is over, are we more naughty than nice?

Do we remember that the gift of the Christ child and the promise of His return is the greatest of God’s presents to us? Do we celebrate His presence every day and pray for His return or do we put him back in the box with the other symbols of the season when we take the decorations down? Do we go through all of the motions at this holy time with the idea that Jesus knows what is in our hearts or do we wear our hearts on our sleeve and keep Christmas alive the other 364 days of the year. (365 if it’s a leap year…no, I didn’t forget about that.)

In today’s gospel, Jesus gives us permission to temper our excitement, but He does not give us a break. He wants us to await his arrival with intention…but not a flashy show. Those who seek to create the perfect Christmas often wind up disappointed, but those who remember the reason for EVERY season will find their lamp will burn even brighter through this period of light.

 

Today’s readings for Mass: RV 22: 1-7; PS 95: 1-2, 3-5, 6-7AB; LK 21:34-36.

 

 

About the Author

Julie Young is an award-winning writer and author from Indianapolis, Indiana in the USA, whose work has been seen in Today’s Catholic Teacher, The Catholic Moment, and National Catholic Reporter. She is the author of nine books including: A Belief in Providence: A Life of Saint Theodora Guerin, The CYO in Indianapolis and Central Indiana and The Complete Idiot's Guide to Catholicism. She is a graduate of Scecina Memorial High School in Indianapolis and holds degrees in writing and education from Saint Mary-of-the-Woods College. She can be found online at www.julieyoungfreelance.com

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6 Comments

  1. Dear Julie, I always enjoy reading your straight-to-the-point reflections, thank you, and today’s was a really important one. Just one thing, for the sake of accuracy: there are 365 days in a normal year, and 366 in a Leap Year. Hope you don’t mind me pointing that out…..not that it makes the slightest difference to your message!

  2. Leslie Judd,Julie mentioning of 364 days for a normal year and 365 days for a leap year is right-Christmas is excluded.
    Thanks Julie for your straight-forwad and somewhat humorous reflection.
    Got some picture of humour in the sentence,…put him back in the box with other symbols of the season when we take…
    Have a blessed weekend!

  3. Always a great connection to the readings. Ok then, we must prepare and always be prepared for his coming and with that let the celebrations begin. Thank you Julie!

  4. There would be no Christmas without Christ and the word is on everyones lips at the moment even the ones who forget him. It is because of him that families all over the world will gather together at this special time of year.

  5. Thank goodness Jesus won’t judge me on my holiday ham! I’m a terrible cook. Fortunately for me, my sister used to host Christmas dinner every year till her oldest daughter grew up, got married and took on the holiday hosting responsibilities. One year I decided, I would host because it seemed the right thing to do. I did my best! After we had eaten, my niece said to me, “Aunty Chris, don’t cook, you come our house!” I did not take it personally. My sister and her daughter are awesome cooks. I’ve often told them they should open a restaurant.

    Every year, we see signs on Church billboards to put Christ back in Christmas. Conversations around “it’s not happy holidays, it’s Merry Christmas!” Catherine is so right in saying that the name of Christ is on everyone’s lips. Everyone, even non-Christians. The city is lit up, Christmas trees everywhere with boxes wrapped up to look like gifts, Christmas carols playing in the malls. No wonder non-Christian children get excited. One Hindu mother was interviewed while her son was being photographed with Santa. She said, she could not deny her little son this joy, so they too decorate their home and give gifts. But she also explains to him the reason for the Christmas season along with the Hindu festive season which precedes Christmas by a few days. And yes, even the lapsed Christians will gather to celebrate with family and friends. It is a joyous time.

    God bless.

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