Monday, September 28, 2020 Is Happiness as Good as It Gets?

It is a very big thing every year at our local high school:  Drive Your Tractor to School Day.  The FFA (Future Farmers of America) have permission that one day to drive their family’s tractor to school.  This past spring it didn’t happen because of COVID, so, one evening in July, social distancing and all, the FFA kids drove their tractors to school—and paraded around the community.  It wasn’t the same, but—well, it was something.  They all wore the T-shirt you see in today’s picture. 

It makes sense to me that high schoolers would see 2020 as the year that COVID messed everything up.  Learning has been virtual—which pretty much every teen sees as “no fun.”  Last spring, graduation didn’t really happen, and football has been canceled this fall because one of the players had the virus.  You can’t even go sit down in McDonalds.  Most of the opportunities for fun and just “hanging out” don’t exist.  There’s not much to make a teen happy.

We adults, too, have had many of our even simple pleasures curtailed.  In many ways we are experiencing what Job experienced.  You could say that 2020 is a “Job year.” 

Job

Today we begin a week long study of the book of Job.  Like Ecclesiastes and Proverbs last week, Job is considered “Wisdom Literature.”  The Wisdom Literature was written during the Babylonian exile to help people make sense of their experience of exile, regain their sense of dependence on God, and have a new vision of hope for the future.   

Job is a “teaching story,” NOT historical biography.  A teaching story’s message is Truth, but the story itself may be fiction (like the Prodigal Son or the Good Samaritan) .  I think this is important for us to remember as we follow Job’s journey this week. 

In fact, the passage today might bring us up sharp if we do not see it in context.  The book of Job begins with a conversation between God and Satan. They exchange pleasantries, then God brags on Job.  Satan retorts that Job loves God because everything is good in his life; Job is happy.  God disagrees, then gives Satan permission to do evil to Job.  Right away, all in one day, Satan causes the death of Job’s family, people take his cattle and his camels, and fire comes down on his sheep and shepherds.

Our modern minds, with awareness of Christ and 2000 years of church history, recoil at such a picture of God.  Would God let Satan kill my family to prove something to Satan?  If I thought God cared that little for people I love, my loyalty to God would be sorely tested.

However, we need to think of Job as a teaching story—like Dante’s Inferno, Stowe’s Uncle Tom’s Cabin, or the movie The Wizard of Oz.  The people for whom it was written could easily enter into the plot via this created scene in the beginning.  The Satan-God dialogue would have fit with their world view.  If I see it as a story created to get me to consider what St. Pope John Paul II identified as the greatest threat to faith, the problem of suffering, it entices me to enter into its dialogues with at least a search for Truth.

Suffering and Happiness

In his encyclical Gospel of Life (Evangelium Vitae), St. Pope John Paul II says, “More than anything else, it is the problem of suffering which challenges faith and puts it to the test.  How can we fail to appreciate the universal anguish of man when we meditate on the Book of Job?  The innocent man overwhelmed by suffering is understandably led to wonder: ‘Why is light given to him that is in misery, and life to the bitter in soul, who long for death, but it comes not, yet they dig for it more than for treasure?’  (Job 3: 20-21) But even when darkness is deepest, faith points to a trusting and adoring acknowledgment of the ‘mystery’: Job goes on to say: ‘I know that you can do all things, and that no purpose of yours can be thwarted.’” (paragraph 31)

As St. Pope John Paul says a few pages later, “Life is always a good.”  Even when there is great suffering.  Why? “The life which God gives man is quite different from the life of all other living creatures, inasmuch as man, although formed from the dust of the earth, is a manifestation of God in the world…. The life which God offers to man is a gift by which God shares something of himself with his creature.’ (paragraph 34)

We know what Job and his original audience did not:  we know that when Jesus came to be with us, he suffered—to both redeem us, giving us entry into eternal life within the love of God—AND to rob Satan of his power over us through suffering.

Happiness depends on circumstances.  Rare is the person who is suffering and is happy.  Joyful—maybe; happy—no. 

Do We Worship the Great God Happiness?

Happiness is a gift of circumstances. When we have a lot of things that naturally give us happiness, happiness can become an expectation.  When we expect happiness, it can plunge us into depression, despair, resentment, anger, fear, anxiety, rebellion….(the list goes on) when the circumstances which give us happiness are taken away. 

Life is such (even without COVID) that circumstances which give happiness come and go.  I am disturbed by the many messages my grandchildren receive that tell them:  happiness is what is most important.  Be happy.

That frame of mind can lead to selfishness in relationships (“I’m not happy, I want a divorce”), addictions of every kind (“It feels so good”), and mental turmoil (Look at our epidemics of depression, anxiety, bipolar behavior, ADHD). It can lead to an insipid internal dishonesty: “I don’t feel happy, but I’m supposed to be, so I better ignore the reality of circumstances and my thoughts and feelings. I will pretend to be happy.”

When we think of it that way, we can see that too much pursuit of happiness leads eventually to misery instead. In a very real sense, we sell our souls to a god who is not God at all.

Job, COVID, and Perspective

The world-wide death count from COVID will reach 1,000,000 this week. More than 200,000 of those deaths are from the US. Job was written when people were experiencing distress—as we are. Job does not blame God. He does not give up on God—or himself. He faces his dilemma with fortitude and honesty.  He suffers and names his suffering.  He is overwhelmed and sits in his misery.  He and his friends question the meaning of suffering and of life.  He runs from nothing.

Through Job we can face suffering in a story, and, through the story, have the courage to acknowledge some of the Mysteries and questionings in our own lives. We can question the lesser god, “Happiness.”

God is faithful.  Jesus said, “I have come that you might have life, and have it more abundantly.”  Perhaps by considering Job’s life this week and contrasting his questions and statements with our own we will be more deeply aware of the goodness in life and claim it—not as happiness, which comes and goes, but as living in relationship with God—in good times and in bad, through sickness and health, til death do us JOIN for all eternity.

Prayer:

Lord, give me the courage to read Job this week and let myself enter into his mystery.  Use the story of Job and this COVID time to discipline me to put happiness in its place.  Let the absence of happiness at times not overly discourage me or lead me away from fidelity to You.  You are the great God, not happiness.  Happiness is not as good as it gets. 

About the Author

Mary Ortwein lives in Frankfort, Kentucky in the US. A convert to Catholicism in 1969, Mary had a deeper conversion in 2010. She earned a theology degree from St. Meinrad School of Theology in 2015. Now an Oblate of St. Meinrad, Mary takes as her model Anna, who met the Holy Family in the temple at the Presentation. Like Anna, Mary spends time praying, working in church settings, and enjoying the people she meets. Though formally retired, Mary continues to work part-time as a marriage and family therapist and therapy supervisor. A grandmother and widow, she divides the rest of her time between facilitating small faith-sharing groups, writing, and being with family and friends. Earlier in her life, Mary worked avidly in the pro-life movement. In recent years that has taken the form of Eucharistic ministry to Carebound and educating about end-of-life matters. Now, as Respect for Human Life returns to center stage, she seeks to find ways to communicate God's love and Lordship for all--from the moment of conception through the moment we appear before Jesus when life ends.

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23 Comments

  1. Will your lessons on Job appear on this site all week? If not, where can we view them?

    P.S.I truly enjoy your inspiring and instructional posts here at A Catholic Moment.

  2. I truly enjoy your inspiring and instructional posts here at A Catholic Moment.
    Will your lessons on Job be posted here for this week? If not, where can we view them?

  3. Sadly, Covid worldwide death is 995 thousand with 204 thousand of those coming from the USA, not approaching 200k this week as you mentioned

  4. Yes, Elizabeth, I just noticed the mistake in sad numbers and corrected it. I’m sorry, Paula, but I only write posts for Mondays. You give me a thought, though, to do a study of the whole book of Job.
    Blessings,
    Mary Ortwein

  5. Very helpful to me today as I just got the news that my brother is dying of cancer. We will both try to focus on joy instead of happiness during this time before he goes to meet the Lord.

  6. Thank you for bringing the book of Job or Job’s story into perspective.
    These are trying and confusing times and this understanding is encouraging and inspiring us to walk on in faith.

  7. Thank you for your insights on Job, the mystery of suffering and true happiness. Always a pleasure to read your reflections.

  8. Hi Mary, Thank you for your in depth teaching as we begin to delve into the book of Job. Dear Lord, may we find true happiness in your word.
    Be blessed.

  9. Thank you Mary for sharing your deep knowledge of our faith and applying it to our current state of affairs. We do not want to see anyone distressed or suffer. The discipline to reach for God’s hand in troubled times is the saving grace of our time on earth. I pray for the power to overcome in the challenges of my days here. Thanks for a reflection that gives me strength. Peace with you.

  10. I had tears in my eyes as I read this. Thank you Mary for sharing your gift of knowledge and writing with us.

  11. Hello Mary, thank you for sharing your wisdom today. If I may, I am reading a small booklet by John Gillespie at the moment called “The key to powerful prayer”.
    Also see the The Miracle Ship. I am finding it really inspiring. He was a man of faith.
    He was responsible for numerous healings and miracles.
    Peace and harmony……….

  12. Thank you Mary, I needed a reflection like this to start off my week.
    I’m guilty of telling people in my life to find something (Career, life choices etc…) that makes you “Happy”. I need a better choice of words.
    God bless and with love,

  13. Thank you, Mary, for the time and effort you put forth to deliver this powerful message. I, too, am disturbed by the message of “happiness entitlement “ that even my young grandchildren have absorbed. COVID has at least given me an opportunity to be with them more (as a newly minted, somewhat clueless, virtual learning “teacher”) and I will search this week for ways to help them ( and their parents) see that a pursuit of happiness is not the ultimate goal.

  14. Thank you Mary for your wisdom-filled reflection! Mostly, thank you for reflecting on the Old Testament. As Catholics, we gloss over the majority of God’s love story between God and humanity. Job is one of my favorites! Just last week I was using Micah to discus issues with oppression and racism. Bless you and your ministry!

  15. Thanks Mary for your inspiring reflection. I always remember Job when there is suffering and turmoil. Somehow, it gives me comfort to know that there is really nothing worse than what Job had experienced…and yet he still praised God. May we all realize that only God can make us complete and give us that everlasting joy! Peace and love to all.

  16. Mary I look forward to your reflections every week. Thank you always for your thought provoking words.

    Angela sorry to hear about your brother’s cancer. I prayed for you and your brother. Take care.

  17. Thank you so much for your inspiring wisdom and insights. This has given me a fresh perspective on the quest for “happiness.” It echoes St Augustine in that our hearts are restless until they rest in the Lord. Thank you for your beautiful reflection.

  18. Mary — You write very well and always provide good historical context. You have a special gift with your insight and communication skills. You can also be personal in a nice way — you connect well with your writings. God bless you.

  19. Hi Mary – such an excellent commentary – and worth sharing, maybe LOL my colleague has never heard of a “teaching story”. My colleague asks how u came to this understanding and if it’s sanctioned by the Catholic Chirch. I am not qualified to answer and she would, in this era of “fake news”, like to know how this is not a real story- I kinda think it would take an entire course on History of the Bible, but can you give it a shot?

  20. Hi, Patricia,

    I just happened to see this post. You have excellent questions. I will take a stab at answering in my post next Monday.
    Mary Ortwein

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