Monday, December 30, 2019 – The Upbringing!

The gospel today ends: “they returned to Galilee, to their own town of Nazareth. The child grew and became strong, filled with wisdom and the favor of God was upon him.”

I grew up in the place of my birth, was brought up with the favour of God, of amazing parents and extended family who instilled the sense of home and love for my faith in my being. I attended a prestigious convent school for girls, along with girls of various backgrounds and faith.  My non catholic neighbors came over to greet us for christmas and a glass of cheer while I never missed the festivities and fireworks of Diwali, my patients gave me boxes of biryani for Eid and I helped finish the rangoli at the entrance of my ward. 

I trained in a classical form of indian dance called bharatnatyam and learnt hindu mythology and performed and ate at every temple in Goa. I touched my Gurus feet in gratitude and even participated in a sanskrit competition being the only catholic there. In all of my 31 years of existence, my closest friends have been from other faiths and religions. I never once was told to leave their homes or debarred from participating in their festivities.

This was home! Today my country is burning! My brethren of Islamic faith have been ostracized by government policies and detention camps set up all over the country to house people who the government states “don’t belong” to this country. I can see the fear in their eyes, who look toward my church and Lord for refuge! A few priests took to the pulpit to vocalize their opinion while most chose to remain silent about the situation, the reason is mostly suspected to be fear!

Prayer: Lord bless those with hatred and violence, with the wisdom to realise the value of life! Forgive us for the judgements we pass on others! Help us to live and accept everyone as equals! Amen.

P.S. please pray a decade of your rosary for the safety of all the minority religious communities in India.

About the Author

Hello! I’m Dr Analise Maria D’ Mello, (MBBS, MS obgyn, DNB) from the beautiful state of Goa in India. I was born and raised in a Roman Catholic family, learning my prayers, catechism and Catholic values from my parents and grandmothers. I am currently practicing as an obstetrician and gynecologist for 3 years since my residency. I often speak on anti-abortion to college students and married couples, and counsel distressed pregnant women with appropriate medical advice. I am part of the St Luke's Medical Guild of Catholic Doctors in my state providing services in prisons, and Lenten and advent retreats for medical professionals and their families.

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14 Comments

  1. God in his mercies, continue to bless and sustain your good deeds, my prayers and thoughts with the oppressed minorities.

  2. Thank you so much for this short but very touching reflection,may God give us wisdom to love,live,and accept others in life.Amen

  3. This is quite sad to read. I pray that God causes a change in the minds of the leaders and decision makers in India and all over the world to stop this inhumane treatment of the Muslims and minority religions in various countries, especially India and China, Amen.

  4. So sorry to hear of such conditions in your country. Please Lord hear our prayers and help this situation.

  5. Thanks Dr Maria D’ Mello. Your today’s reflection is a big teaching on religious tolerance. Hope all its readers will be motivated to spread tolerance in every society they may find themselves. Amen.

  6. And this is why I love “The Catholic Moment “! You have brought my mind/thoughts to a whole different lifestyle that I will never see. Just eye opening and beautiful. Loved your prayer. I will put it in my notes in my phone so I will not forget it and pray it daily.

  7. After reading your reflection all I could think was of yesterdays second reading. What would Saint Paul write today? Paul gives the Colossians a household code meant to govern their familial and social relationships. It includes compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, patience, forbearance, forgiveness, and respect for one another in the name of God. This letter expresses the value that Paul attaches to the family life and his understanding that faith cannot flourish if families are in disarray.
    God bless you and India, prayer are always here for you.

  8. I’m so sorry to hear of the internment of the Islam’s in India. I worked with many Muslims and found them to be very loving and caring people. I prayed a decade of the rosary as requested. May the power of prayer help change the hearts of the lawmakers in India.

  9. Analise, I’m so sorry about the overtness and severity of such treatment to your brother and sister Islams. I too prayed a decade of the Rosary as requested. We all have to be on guard for the mistreatment of all human beings.

  10. Hindus and Muslims have been feuding for centuries; even Ghandi couldn’t stop it. Perhaps more prayers to God might just do the trick! Let’s have faith and pray for the oppressed all over this troubled world.

  11. Thank you for the reflectìon & call for spiritual intetvention for tolerance.
    Religious intolerance is happening all over the world.
    We should not relent in our efforts to stand in the gap for minorities in all facets of life.
    God bless you and yours now and always.

  12. Surely Mary the Mother of us all is pleased with your request and love of her children. Thank you for the idea to pray a decade for them. It’s good to know we pray together even though we are oceans apart.

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