Monday, December 23, 2019 Baby Smiles and the Opinion of God

Fifteen years ago, in the middle of a major ice storm, my first grandson was born.  We brought him home from the hospital on Christmas Eve.  As I watched my six-foot son so very carefully carry his son into the house through the snow, Christmas took on a new, a richer meaning.  The natural family love and riveting attention that surround a new baby transferred from our experience, our family, back to the Holy Land that first Christmas.

That grandson is six feet tall himself now, but the feelings of hope, of joy, of trust in God that poured over me on Christmas, 2004, return as I picture Zechariah, Elizabeth, and little baby John in today’s Gospel.

Zechariah

It had been almost a year since Zechariah saw the vision in the temple, was told that he and Elizabeth would conceive a child, and became mute.  It had been about three months since Elizabeth’s cousin Mary came to stay with them.  Mary had been a big help to Elizabeth!  Zechariah listened to their conversations as Elizabeth filled out with child.  There was such a joy in Mary and Elizabeth as they cared for each other and for him.

Because of the angel’s message, Zechariah had quieted his fears about the birth.  Even though, in those days, one in five women died in childbirth and Elizabeth was “past child-bearing age,” he thought, “surely, when the Lord has sent his messengers and blessed us so, all will be well.  Elizabeth will be safe.  John will be healthy.”

Elizabeth was safe.  John was healthy.  Yes, indeed, John had a healthy set of lungs!  Zechariah thought of the angel’s message, “And he will turn many of the sons of Israel to the Lord their God, and he will go before him in the spirit and power of Elijah, to turn the hearts of the fathers to the children, and the disobedient to the wisdom of the just, to make ready for the Lord a people prepared.” (Luke 1: 16-17)

Yes, his son’s cry had a fervor to it that spoke of the strength and the power of the Lord! Zechariah could believe he would be a prophet.

The Eighth Day

It was the custom to circumcise a baby eight days after birth.  Circumcision was a small cut with a very sharp flint.  Jewish law called for it for all male children.  It was a sign of dedication of the child to God.  With the circumcision, God claimed the child. 

Today was the day.  The neighbors came.  Once the child was circumcised, he would be named.  Zechariah heard the elders talking about the name.  They suggested Zechariah.  Zechariah was disturbed by that.  The angel had told him to name the child John.  That’s what Elizabeth told them. “Not so, his name shall be John.”  This departed from custom.  What should they do?  They could tell Zechariah had an opinion about this.  He was making gestures for a writing tablet.  They brought him one.  Zechariah wrote, “His name is John.”

Then Zechariah’s mouth opened and he praised God.  His canticle of praise was so beautiful that it is said every morning by the universal church in the Liturgy of the Hours.  It is the Gospel for mass in the morning of Christmas Eve.  In case you don’t get to read it for tomorrow, it is the prayer at the end of this reflection.

Zechariah, Elizabeth, John, and Us

Carl Sandburg, the American poet, said, “A baby is God’s opinion that life should go on.”  In the context around this famous quote, Sandburg noted that no machine, no invention of modernity, no accomplishment of technology, equals the intricacy and complexity of a newborn child. 

Nothing equals a baby’s capacity to call forth love, too.  We waited seven years for our first child.  We so longed for him.  Yet, when he came, Alan and I soon learned that babies take a lot of work.  They rule the house.  To paraphrase a saying, “If baby’s unhappy, ain’t nobody happy.”  Babies naturally strip away selfishness, laziness, rigidity, and probably a thousand other faults.  They do it without our noticing.  We forget ourselves, only to realize in the middle of some colicky night, “Life is deeper now.  Richer.  More exciting.  Love is required everywhere….And it’s wonderful!” Our children move us from a couple to a family…in a delightful way.

Babies bond families together—with their smiles, the beauty of their sleeping, with their wide eyes and open arms that reach out.  They often heal old family wounds. They create multiple conversions in their parents (and grandparents and siblings) as we hold them in the night, watch them all the day, and enter a whole new level of loving through the gateway for God they create.

They are joyful evidence of God’s opinion that life should go on….and the path through which many of us ordinary folks build the kingdom of God.

Smiles

On Saturday Pope Francis had the smiles of children on his mind.  He specifically talked about looking at babies and seeing the smile of Jesus.  He said,

“Jesus is the smile of God.  He came to reveal to us the love and goodness of our heavenly Father.  We need God’s smile to strip us of our false certainties and to bring us back to enjoying simplicity and gratitude.”

Yes! God’s smile and the smiles of all the little ones God gives us. Not every child is born into a family of love. Not every loving family is smiling today. Not every child conceived is even born. There are so many troubles in the world. But, it seems to me, it is most of all in that context that God smiles in every newborn child. Every child is a gift from God of life and of all that that life can create in this world. Newborns grow up to be six feet tall. And the love invested in a child bears fruit–for them, for us, for God.

Blessed Christmas to everyone. 

Zechariah’s Prayer:

Blessed be the Lord, the God of Israel;
for he has come to his people and set them free.
He has raised up for us a mighty Savior,
born of the house of his servant David.
Through his prophets he promised of old
that he would save us from our enemies,
from the hands of all who hate us.
He promised to show mercy to our fathers
and to remember his holy covenant.
This was the oath he swore to our father Abraham:
to set us free from the hand of our enemies,
free to worship him without fear,
holy and righteous in his sight
all the days of our life.
You, my child, shall be called the prophet of the Most High,
for you will go before the Lord to prepare his way,
to give his people knowledge of salvation
by the forgiveness of their sins.
In the tender compassion of our God
the dawn from on high shall break upon us,
to shine on those who dwell in darkness and the shadow of death,
and to guide our feet into the way of peace.”
(Luke 1: 67-79)

About the Author

Mary Ortwein lives in Frankfort, Kentucky in the US. A convert to Catholicism in 1969, Mary had a deeper conversion in 2010. She earned a theology degree from St. Meinrad School of Theology in 2015. Now an Oblate of St. Meinrad, Mary takes as her model Anna, who met the Holy Family in the temple at the Presentation. Like Anna, Mary spends time praying, working in church settings, and enjoying the people she meets. Though formally retired, Mary continues to work part-time as a marriage and family therapist and therapy supervisor. A grandmother and widow, she divides the rest of her time between facilitating small faith-sharing groups, writing, and being with family and friends. Earlier in her life, Mary worked avidly in the pro-life movement. In recent years that has taken the form of Eucharistic ministry to Carebound and educating about end-of-life matters. Now, as Respect for Human Life returns to center stage, she seeks to find ways to communicate God's love and Lordship for all--from the moment of conception through the moment we appear before Jesus when life ends.

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11 Comments

  1. Thank you Mary for this beautiful reflection. Merry Christmas in advance to you and all the readers here.

  2. Merry Christmas Mary. Thanks you for all your good work in bringing us the “good news” of our Lord and Savior. I love all this baby talk…especially all the talk about smiling. When a baby smiles there is something so precious and Godlike about it. What blessing is greater than that?

  3. Just beautful. Thank you and a Merry and blessed Christmas to all at Catholic Moment and my fellow brothers and sisters who I start my day with!

  4. I don’t know how you do it each week but I always find your reflections enlightening. Reading them every Monday morning is a good way to start the work week (even though I am retired and just work around the house and do some volunteering).

    Thanks as always.

  5. Thank you for the background on Zechariah’s prayer. I enjoy learning these details about our faith. I love starting my day with the readings and the Catholic Moments reflections. It is so great to be party of this worldwide community discussing the word of God. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you, all. 🎄❤️💕

  6. Oh Mrs Mary, How I relate to you! I too, celebrate the birth of my own son 15 years ago yesterday and remember well bringing the blessing of God to our home on that Christmas Day!

    Today, we struggle as our child is confronting temptations in this world, as I pray to St John the Baptist to increase my prayer to Jesus in turning my child’s disobedience to the wisdom of the Holy Spirit to guide him towards righteousness and for my husband to turn his heart toward his stepson and to St Joseph to help in guiding him in the way of fathers and God.
    We lost my son’s birth father 3 years ago around Thanksgiving, and were blessed with a baby in our family a day after; life goes on! Prayers for the poor and holy souls of purgatory and the faithful departed.
    My mother was hospitalized suddenly yesterday and will receive a pacemaker today; I pray for her health and trust in Jesus! God is with us, Emmanuel!!!
    And, yes the love invested in a child does bear fruit to our world and God’s plan! Thank you for sharing your reflection and beautiful prayer of Zechariah! Mary Christmas!!! Peace of Christ with all ❤️🙏🏻

  7. Jennifer, I will pray for your concerns. May all our prayers for families bear fruit in graces this Christmas!

    Mary

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