God is Close to The Brokenhearted

Jesus Healed the Royal Official's SonIn the first reading from the book of the prophet Isaiah, God said:

“Lo, I am about to create new heavens and a new earth; The things of the past shall not be remembered or come to mind.  Instead there shall always be rejoicing and happiness in what I create.”  

He goes on to say … “No longer shall the sound of weeping be heard there, or the sound of crying.”

God knows when we have a broken heart and He does not want us to hurt, be sad or cry anymore.  God is close to the brokenhearted.  He wants us to live life to the fullest and to be happy.  He truly does not want to see us to suffer. He wants to take our suffering away and bring happiness to his people.

In the gospel today, Jesus testified that:

A prophet has no honor in his native place… but … when he came into Galilee, the Galileans welcomed him.”  

Unfortunately, the same thing is true for us sometimes too. The people closest to us can hurt us the most, like the townspeople in Jesus’s home town.  Strangers are sometimes more open to seeing a person as they really are without all the baggage from our past. It’s pretty sad really, that strangers can sometimes treat us better and with more respect than those who are closest to us.

That’s not always the case though. It’s very evident in today’s gospel reading that the royal official who sought Jesus out – did so because he loved his son very much. This father went to great lengths to find this man who many people considered to be a miracle worker.  He desperately hoped that he might be able to save his son who was on the verge of dying. 

Jesus sounded a little exasperated though when he said “unless you see signs and wonders, you will not believe”.  

The sorrow and suffering must have shown on this father’s face though, when he asked Jesus to heal his son.  Our Lord was very compassionate and even if he  did seem a little frustrated initially – he granted the royal official’s request to save his son.
Jesus does not want anyone to suffer and neither does God. There are a lot of people that blame God for their suffering, or get upset with Him because He doesn’t do anything to end their suffering.  But, God doesn’t normally intervene in our lives.  Sometimes out of His infinite compassion for us though, He may grant our request and a genuine miracle can occur.  Jesus’ healing of the royal official’s son from such a great distance was such a miracle.

The last verses in today’s gospel said:

“Now this was the second sign Jesus did when he came to Galilee from Judea.”  

The signs, wonders and miracles that Jesus performed was out of his great love and compassion for people who are suffering.  He did what he could to end their misery, heartache and suffering.  However, miracles are not granted by God on demand.  Miracles usually occur for the benefit of a group of people, so that they will realize that God is real and that He is truly present in their midst.

What we might be able to learn from the readings for mass today, is that Jesus and God both love us deeply and they do not want to see us suffer, be sad or cry. It is not their will that we suffer.  However, we should be aware that when we pray for a miracle, God may or may not answer our prayer. It might be because what we ask for is not in union with His will for our lives or those we love. Miracles mainly occur so that people will understand that God is truly real and present in their lives in a personal way, so they will come to believe in Him, just like the royal official and his household did.

 

Daily Mass Readings:

Isaiah 65: 17-21 / Psalm 30: 2, 4, 5-6, 11-12a, 13b / John 4: 43-54

About the Author

Hello! My name is Laura Kazlas. As a child, I was raised in an atheist family, but came to believe in God when I was 12 years old. I was baptized because of the words that I read in the bible. I later became a Catholic because of the Mass. The first time my husband brought me to Mass, I thought it was the most holy, beautiful sense of worshiping God that I had ever experienced. I still do! My husband John and I have been married for 37 years. We have a son, a daughter, and two granddaughters. We are in the process of adopting a three year old little girl. We live in Salem, Oregon in the United States. I currently serve as the program coordinator for Catholic ministry at a local maximum security men's prison. I‘m also a supervisor for Mount Angel Seminary’s field education program, in Oregon.

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8 Comments

  1. Thanks Sis Laura for bringing our thoughts into a deeper reflections of the readings today.

    On imagination of the scene, I picture that It must took a lot of courage and purest intention of humility in the part of the royal official to get the attention of Jesus that time.

    Knowing he was a high official of the king- the king who also wanted Jesus to be out of his way, really he submit everything, his whole self, his life – a total surrender! There, Jesus see his brokenness, perform the miracle he ask, not for him but for his son.

    Thanks a lot! God bless!

  2. I believe we have more miracles happen all around us than any of us realize. They may not be the big things as in the physical healing of an ailment but sharing your lunch with someone at work who forgot their lunch and does not have the money to go out and purchase. A ride from a friend. Service at church in what ever ministry. God may heal your cancer by taking you home to heaven. We also have miracle drugs that do alleviate pain and suffering of some aliments . Still, I have a grandson on drugs and a nephew that lives off of his mom and many big problems that are still there , but never fear God is working. Working on that miracle.
    Thanks for reminding me.

  3. I need a miracle right now for my 29 year old son. He is addicted to narcotics and has been diagnosed with a drug induced mental illness. Today’s reading puts a lot in perspective. I know there is a greater reason for the suffering and today I may not understand it, but in the end it will become clear.

    All said, however this is testing my faith. My wife and I do so much for so many and yet we weren’t able to keep our own son on the right path. I keep praying and visualizing about how healthy and happy he is. He is a good man deep down, with all the right morals and a good family behind him.

    Please pray for us.

  4. Thank you Laura, I have a question in this paragragraph :
    What we might be able to learn from the readings for mass today, is that Jesus and God both love us deeply and they do not want to see us suffer, be sad or cry. It is not their will that we suffer.
    Why do you say Jesus and God both love us, I get confused with that, Jesus is God, is the second person in the Trinity.
    Please explain why do you refer as “Jesus and God”

  5. Dear Lord Jesus

    we pray for Rick’s family especially for his son who is struggling with drugs addiction now. As humans, we hope You cure Rick’s son from the addiction. We’re asking You to take Rick’s son back to the right path. We hope that what we’re asking You Lord is in accordance with Your Will and big plan.
    But Lord, if You have a big plan behind all this, we pray that You give power, strength, patience and understanding to Rick and his wife as parents so they will take this situation sincerely and always stay faithful and thankful to You
    And for us, Lord, help us understand everything that we’re going through every single day in our lives is in Your control so that we will always be strong and patience to live this uneasy life.

    Mother Mary, please for Rick’s family and for us. AMEN

    # Thank You Laura Kazlas for the reflections , God bless you and your family

    Greeting from Indonesia

  6. We will suffer I this life. Someone will die, get hurt, be ill, make bad chioces.
    God is not saying there will be no storms for you. What he says is take up your cross and follow me. He is there in the storm. Sometimes he holds his hand out to lift us up when we sink. Other times he is in the back of the boat asleep on a cushion. He is always with us. Close to our hearts, especially ones breaking from grief.
    To suffer is to love. Look at the cross.

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