Friday, May 15th, Sixth Week in Eastertide

So, it is with you: you are sad now, but I shall see you again, and your hearts will be full of joy

Joy!

I have one grip about people. They never smile. They seem Joyless. I know that this is not totally true because I am friends with many people. Some live with pain, cancer, divorce, death and frown and look mad. There are some people that live with these things and have a smile on their face.

Please note when you go to the store the salesperson there is always smiling. Why? The reason is simple joy is contagious. You have no idea what emotional state the person is presently suffering and rejoicing. When you speak to someone of Christ and His teaching and the lessons you have learned in your life and witness to another person. Remember to smile.

The people that I try to be around are those who have a smile on their faces. They have problems but there is joy in their hearts. Look at the Pope. He is serious and prayerful, but Joyful. There are some who criticize him who are always mad or take issue with the Gospel the Pope preaches. These people do not have joy in their hearts.

Nonetheless, I am here to proclaim more joy in your lives. Yes, there is sadness in my life and my wife, Anna’s life. She is stage four cancer. Nonetheless, there is joy in both our hearts. Not because of death, but because we are witnesses to Christ’s love in our lives and our marriage. We do not know how long she has but we know that her death may be sooner than we think from a visit to her oncologist this week. She may try a short dose of Chemo, but we know that death is inevitable.

I don’t have words to change the sadness of the eventual death of my beautiful bride. In the meantime, we will smile and tell the world we love each other and give the reason is our love of Jesus Christ. Do not be afraid to speak out, nor allow yourself to be silenced: I am with you. We may not have words of comfort but we do have a smile of comfort. Keep Smiling to the World and spread His joy.

God Love You Always

Bob Burford

PS:  Please Pray for Pope Leo XIV. Please Pray for Cancer victims and their caregivers. Pray for the conversion of Russia and the salvation of the Ukrainian and Russian people and their soldiers. Pray for the Holy Land. Pray for peace! The impossible could and can happen. (Saint Rita) Never deny God! Pray for justice for immigrants! Pray for justice for our President and all government officials! Pray for Peace!

About the Author

My name is Bob Burford and am married to my lovely bride, Anna. I am a cradle Catholic and worship at Church of Saint Mary's in Tulsa, Oklahoma. I am active in the Knights of Columbus and praying where the Lord wants both of us to serve in our new faith home. College degrees in Economics and Accounting. My wife and I have eight grandchildren and seven great grandchildren. I love proclaiming the Word of the Lord in my life! Please pray for all the Ukrainian people. Pray for their salvation and physical and emotional health.

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13 Comments

  1. Stay strong brother. The joy of the Lord is your strength. The Lord knows all things. Shalom!

  2. Praying for you and your beautiful bride, Anna! May the joyful love you share bring strength for your journey together. God is with you both always.

  3. Praying for you and your beautiful bride. Thank you for all the joy and insights you share with the ACM community each week. Your deep faith shines through your reflections.

  4. Dearest Mr Burford. Know that many are praying for Anna and her comfort. A wife’s love, care and commitment are gifts to our families and our world. May God give you peace and gratitude for the gift of Anna in your life.

  5. Thank you for your beautiful reflection. I will keep you & Anna in my prayers. God bless you both. Both your love for each other, courage and faith in God is an inspiration to all of us dealing with cancer. Have a beautiful and joyful day.

  6. Thank you for this lovely, personal reflection, Bob. I am praying for you and Anna, and thanking God for your heartfelt posts each week that bring more joy into the world.

  7. Dear Bob, I am so saddened to hear the news of Anna, I am so sorry. I always have my ACM family in my prayers. Peace to both you and Anna during this difficult time.

  8. I am praying for Anna and for you, Bob. Your faith will see you through all difficulties. Thank you for sharing this difficult time of your life.

  9. Bob, thank you for sharing your personal story. I need to smile more often.
    Peace be with you and Anna.

  10. I always love your reflections and this one is heartfelt–praying for you and your bride!!

  11. I am awed that you still have joy in your heart. The contagious joy of christ. May joy remain in your lives. God bless you and Anna.

  12. May the peace and comfort of Christ be with you and Anna. Thankfully we have the hope of seeing our loved ones again when our time comes. Know that you and your beautiful bride will be together again where there is no pain or sadness. 🙏❤️‍🩹

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