Friday, July 7th in Ordinary Time

A retired Naval Admiral that I once knew were attending a Church dinner. The private conversation gradually evolved into the sinners and saints we served with in the military. We both agreed to the following statement, ” In a foxhole no one cares about your race, religious affiliation, belief in God, sexual orientation or state of grace.” Pretty much everyone is calling on God’s help and are all in the same boat.

Jesus says in today’s Gospel, What I want is mercy, not sacrifice. Jesus came to earth for sinners. Still how do we treat the homosexuals, adulterers, and other sinners in our lives? Do we shun them like some religions, or do we call them sinners like we are sinners and love them and show them mercy like Jesus did.

It is easy when you as most of us are involved in Church life to only associate with the saints at church. When I worked for the Post Office, I had a lesbian supervisor. She had some emotional problems and eventually was fired. It takes a great deal of effort to get fired from the government. However, she was not fired because she was a lesbian. Eventually she came back to our small post office unit. She had fallen on rough times and was homeless. She was looking for money to live and of course I gave her some. She was looking for mercy and, in some way, I hope gave it to her as Jesus would have done.

How do we treat sinners?

On January 25th, 2023 Pope Francis said, ““Being homosexual isn’t a crime,” He went on to say, ” “It’s not a crime. Yes, but it’s a sin. Fine, but first let’s distinguish between a sin and a crime.” “It’s also a sin to lack charity with one another,” he added.

So why did Jesus eat with sinners?

Was Jesus trying to teach us to be merciful and charitable?

It encourages me to see recent protests at the Los Angeles Dodgers baseball game by Catholic Bishops against the disrespect to the Blessed Virgin and Religion in general by homosexual group. The protest by the Bishop was speaking the truth about sin. Still, how do we treat the sinners in our lives. Remembering we are sinners as well.

My wife, Anna, has a stepson from her marriage to her deceased husband, Tom. The stepson is an award-winning Doctor and Radiologist. Do we not let him save the lives of the people we love because he is gay? Of course not!

Luke 6:37-38 “Stop judging and you will not be judged. Stop condemning and you will not be condemned. Forgive and you will be forgiven. Give and gifts will be given to you; a good measure, packed together, shaken down, and overflowing, will be poured into your lap. For the measure with which you measure will in return be measured out to you.”

What size is the size of the cup that you measure mercy and charity?

God Love You always

Bob Burford

PS: Please Pray for Cancer victims and their caregivers. Pray for the conversion of Russia and the salvation of the Ukrainian and Russian people and their soldiers. Pray for peace!

About the Author

My name is Bob Burford and am married to my lovely bride, Anna. I am a cradle Catholic and worship at Church of Saint Mary's in Tulsa, Oklahoma. I am active in the Knights of Columbus and praying where the Lord wants both of us to serve in our new faith home. College degrees in Economics and Accounting. My wife and I have eight grandchildren and six great grandchildren. Love Pope Frances and proclaiming the Word of the Lord in my life! Please pray for all the Ukrainian people. Pray for their salvation and physical and emotional health.

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14 Comments

  1. Remember it is no sin to be a non-practicing homosexual. It is a sin to participate. Heterosexuals have the same problem before a lawful marriage. I support Pope Francis because he is putting today’s Gospel into perspective for today.

  2. Thank u mr bob, even paul the apostle call himself a worst sinner and i am the most critical and selfish sinner. Lord have mercy on ur son

  3. Thank you Bob. I’m the last person who should shun anyone. Sexual sin is sexual sin regardless of orientation. Last time I looked, I’m not the judge of anyone’s soul nor do I want the job!! Groups such as ” Sisters of Perpetual Indulgences ” are mocking Catholic faith to elevate their ideology which is wrong.

  4. Wonderful food for thought this morning. Thank you, Bob, for this most excellent reflection.

  5. Please pray for all of us with cancer and ask God to end cancer in the world.
    A good weekend and an observant and restful Sabbath to all.

  6. Thank you for your straightforward teaching, very necessary in our broken world. God bless you and your family.

  7. Thank you, Bob! May we all show love, mercy and kindness to others, just as we hope God will show the same to us.

  8. Thank you Bob. Your points are well taken. Charity and mercy are part and parcel to our Catholic faith. To think we can be selective with theses graces is not right regardless of our position about someone s behavior. Peace with you my brother.

  9. Thank you Bob. I agree, we should love the sinner and hate the sin. We all struggle with sin in our lives, some more than others. We should be helping each other to face the truth of our sins so that by God’s grace, we can climb out of our sinful lifestyles and embrace our Loving Lord, who is waiting for us to abandon false love and run to Him. God bless you all.

  10. Thank you Bob!
    Hate the sin love the sinner. We are all sinners! Thanks be to Jesus who died so we may be forgiven!

    Have a Blessed weekend everyone! Sending out Rockets of Love🚀🚀🚀❤❤❤

  11. Such a wonderful reflection ! In today’s world, we sure need these words.

  12. Thank you Bob.I love the way you wove our modern day issues into the gospel reading and the healing message of Jesus.
    As I’ve become older I like to think that I have become less judgemental and perhaps more loving towards my brothers and sisters who are leading unhealthy sexual lifestyles.
    We are all human and called to love one another regardless.It’s good to have you back.🙏🏻

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