Friday, December 7, 2018 – Humility | The Cure for Pride

Pride, ahhhhh. The dangerous pitfall we need to avoid if we are to experience the vast love God has for us. Yet, how many times do we find thoughts of “I’m better than the other” welling up from within. One moment you are perfectly happy, living your life, and then BAM – out of the blue a thought wells up from within that ruins your mojo and you see yourself as superior to another human being.

Ugly Pride

Perhaps you find yourself believing you are younger, richer, smarter, wiser or holier than another – and therefore more worthy of love. (Pride, when brought into the light, always reveals our underlying need to be loved.) Or maybe you see yourself as poorer, less advantaged, or more humble than another and you believe this makes you more blessed, and therefore more lovable, in the eyes of God. Then there’s the spirit of Vainglory, where pride convinces us that we are more enlightened, more spiritual, and a better servant to God than another. Pride comes in more flavors than Baskin Robbins does ice cream!  And pride always creates separation and dualism.

Jesus modeled something completely opposite of pride when he healed those who sought his aid. He modeled humility. Dare I say he became humility. Jesus, a faithful Jew, didn’t limit healing to his own people. The New Testament is full of stories of Jesus healing non-Jews. The demoniac who lived among the tombs, the Centurion’s paralyzed servant, the Royal Official’s son, and the Syrophoenician’s daughter are examples of Jesus healing outside his “tribe”. Jesus crossed tribal lines time and time again. To Jesus there is no line, no division, no tribes. His love and healing is open to all who have faith.

God is Bigger

How did Jesus heal the people? Well, of course Jesus was fully human and fully God. Given this he carried divine healing powers within. It’s impossible for us to grasp what this really means. As always, God is bigger than our human minds can imagine. I believe Jesus healed people during his earthly ministry because he knew his place in the whole cosmic universe. He knew he was (is) the Second Person of the Trinity, the Word Incarnate – the One who came into the world and the One whom all life flows through.

Jesus saw humanity through his divine lens of truth and through this lens he understood the hearts of those who sought him. Nothing had the power to move him from the truth of who he was (and will be forever more). Unlike Solomon who was led astray when he followed the god’s of his pagan wives, Jesus stood firm in divine truth.

When Jesus healed the people he revealed the truth of his nature to those who could see and hear the truth. And what is so unbelievably amazing is that the same healing power Jesus carried within is also living in us! Jesus Christ dwells within the human heart and we are eternally, and completely, immersed in Him. We are one with Christ. This oneing with Christ extends to the whole Trinity. We are in the Holy Trinity and the Holy Trinity is in us. (see John 17:22-23) We are called to participate in the healing love of Jesus.

Model Christ’s Humility

Before we can really participate in God’s healing love we must model Christ. This is accomplished when we strengthen our relationship with him. You know, spend quality time with Jesus Christ. Then we begin to know who we really are in the eyes of God – beloved adopted sons and daughters.

Can we stand before others who are not Christian, especially our family members who have fallen away from the Church, and love them without judgement like Jesus calls us to do? Can we extend love to others of another tribe like Jesus did? Can we see Christ in one another and love Him in the other? Because when we do, when we see and love Christ in every human being, pride losses its foothold. Humility then reigns in our heart and our heart expands in love. Honoring Christ dwelling in our fellow brothers and sisters, for me anyway, is the surest pathway into humility and away from ugly pride. I think Advent sets the perfect stage to honor, and love, Christ dwelling in everyone we meet.


Global Light for Christ (GLFC)

If you are struggling with pride (or anything else) I invite you to share your petition below. Our community, GLFC, is a group of sojourners supporting one another through prayer and love.

I want to thank all of you who post here. I honor the humility you express when you share your stories. The love we share for each other is special indeed. When I sit with your petitions, often in the Adoration Chapel at my parish, my heart is deeply touched when I feel both your pain and your love. Even though we are separated by space and time we are together in the living waters of the Holy Trinity.


My Book – Understanding The Jesus Code

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I have been working hard on the revised version of my book, Understanding The Jesus Code. In it I have added important information on how our personality type effects our spiritual journey into wholeness. The paperback and Kindle version are now available on Amazon and the audio version will be available soon!

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God bless all of you. See you next week Friday – Carolyn


If you would like to learn more about my work and my ministry I invite you to visit my website: CarolynBerghuis.com


Saint Ambrose – pray for us.

God the Father – hold us in your Fatherly love.

Sacred Heart of Jesus – heal us with your divine love.

God the Holy Spirit – immerse us in divine love.


Today’s Readings Isaiah 29:17-24; Psalm 27:1,4,13-14; Gospel Matthew 9: 27-31

About the Author

Carolyn Berghuis MS, ND, CTN is a best-selling author, inspirational speaker, traditional naturopath, and free-lance Catholic writer. Carolyn is currently pursuing an MA in Pastoral Theology at Saint Meinrad Seminary and School of Theology. Carolyn also holds a BS in Mathematics, a MS in Holistic Nutrition and a doctoral degree in Naturopathy. www.CarolynBerghuis.com

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23 Comments

  1. Please pray for my husband to be delivered. I also need a prayer of healing and protection for my children. I thank you.

  2. Pray for my father and mother in law healing and protection for my family. Pray for my contract to be converted into permanent….

  3. God bless you Carolyn. Please pray for my two sons and daughter to accept Christ as their Lord and Savior. For peace in my community and the world. And for all petitioners on GLFC…for God to hear and answer our prayers through Christ our Lord.

  4. Thanks Carolyn. Plse remember my husband and my two sons, that they may come back to the church. That God may touch them in this Advent season.

  5. Please pray for my daughter to want to go to school, to go to school, to have good friends, teachers, principal, and assistant principal. For her to be respectful and obedient. For her healing in the absence of her father, and to accept God as her Heavenly Father. Please pray for our home; for safe heat, electricity and water so we can move back home. Please pray for our health.
    Adore Jesus!!!

  6. Kindly pray for the return of our Diocesean President who has been missing since the 20th August,that God may return him safely to his family. Also,kindly pray for the spiritual liberation of my elder brother from any bondage preventing him from embracing the love of Christ. May God gear and answer our prayers.

  7. Thanks Carol for your wonderful reflection. It sounds quite awakening to those of us who have not fully left our pride and so request for your prayer in order to humble ourselves. God bless you

  8. Thank you Carolyn for your wonderful reflections and the example of humility you set with GLFC and your publications. You are amazing!

  9. Thank you Carolyn for another thoughtful heartfelt reflection. I ask you to pray for my husband. Today is his birthday. He has multiple serious conditions, most recently a spot on his lung. The doctor wants to operate but his heart doctor says his heart is too weak for surgery. My husband is a generous man who embraces life everyday even when I know he is not feeling well, he never complains.

  10. Please pray for to be humble in every situation at all times.
    Pray for careful/sensible driving and journey mercies for travelers in this festive season.
    Pray for divine peace in many troubled areas of my country-in the middle belt,north-east,some communities in Cross River state and other areas.
    For the peaceful repose of the souls of a battalion that lost their lives recently in the hands of boko haram militants,and those they left behind,the fortitude to bear the painful loss.
    Pray for our government to sit up,be responsible and responsive,and bring to an appreciable end the hardship and poverty ravaging my country at the moment.
    Thanks for the wonderful reflection on the need for us to model humility on our Christian journey…

  11. After reading this, I realized my sin of pride is thinking not even my Lord can help my family deal with my sister’s mental illness. But He can! I need to accept His timing in all this and not mine. I need to ask to be lifted up in prayer, because I am tired and I,along with family members need wisdom on how to take care of her.

    Thank you Carolyn for what you write and what you do.

  12. Please pray for my brother who started dialysis 2 weeks ago. Please help him have a successful Kidney transplant in the future. Please pray for his son who is the kidney donor.

  13. Dear God please help my grandma heal from her hip and give her strenght with the therapy also give her clarity of mind. Please give us her caretakers patience Amen

  14. Please pray for my daughter who has become bitter sad and has narrowed her spirt to just seeing herself and her needs. I want so much for her to love back again. Also I ask for help through pray for her work place and work in general be more rewarding to her. She is in a difficult place right now. Thank you

  15. Please pray for my wife. She has a follow up doctor’s appointment today to go over a sonogram after low kidney readings. She is 84 and has been fairly healthy except for a heart attack to years ago.
    Bob in Florida

  16. Thank you, all for your prayers for my father. His heart ablation went well yesterday. Please continue to pray for him that he may regain sufficient strength to go back home and not require assisted living. Please pray for me for my sins of pride. May God bless me with the grace to better handle situations.

  17. Pride rears its ugly head on a daily basis for me; and yet it’s only after the thoughts and words escape my mouth that I realize it. I need to recognize it sooner and halt the process right there. Stop me from hating Muslims; end my pride over those less educated and fortunate; cease my battles with political rivals; open my heart for more LOVE and humility!!

  18. Please continue to pray and ask Jesus to heal my ears from hearing my heart beat constantly . It is such a distraction. I feel like the blind men in today’s gospel asking Jesus to heal them. I want to be heard.

  19. Wonderful reflection. I read A Catholic Moment each morning to start my day after the mass readings. My prayers are for all who have posted today. Please pray for me as I struggle with alcoholism. It is an awful disease. Pray for all who suffer with addictions. Thank you God Bless

  20. Carolyn, you are right in saying Jesus healed many non-Jews, that he modelled humility by this loving act. He was fully human and fully divine, he could not do otherwise. The men and women, Jews and non-Jews alike had to swallow their pride in asking for help. It is when we are in dire need that we too, like the blind men in today’s Gospel ask for mercy. They asked with faith, perhaps another word for humility. Interesting that Jesus asked them if they thought he could heal them. When they said yes, he healed them because of their faith. It is the same with us, when we ask others to pray for us, we ask in faith, believing God, through Jesus and the power of the Holy Spirit grants us what we ask, swallowing our pride in an act of humility. There is nothing more humiliating than confessing that we are in trouble and need help.

    I love Psalm 127: The Lord is my light and my salvation.
    Keep me and my family in your prayers as well as those who I have spoken of before. I pray that before the year ends, and new one begins God will bring peace of mind and heart to all who have asked for prayers for themselves, family, friends and the world at large.
    God bless

  21. Thank you Carolyn for your reflection, helps me to understand. Thank you for your prayers as well.
    Please pray for my mother who is in the beginning stages of Dementia, pray for my family as we begin this journey with her. Please pray for my husband that he returns to church, mass and communion.
    Thank you and may God Bless everyone!!

  22. Carolyn, I look forward to your e-book. Thank you for all your prayers. Sandi, so glad your dad surgery went well and Bob from Florida please keep us updated as to how your wife is doing. We’ll keep praying for you all as well as all the other petitions posted. Please pray for my husband to allow God’s forgiveness to flood his soul, and that he know His love and support during this difficult time. Help me to be a Godly wife. Praise God for his goodness (and for Williams adoption yesterday as well as for the future adoption of JJ).

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