Friday, November 2, 2018 – Jesus Christ | My One True Love

One thing we are guaranteed of in this life time is that we will experience both joy and sorrow.  Jesus certainly experienced the fullness of joy and sorrow while he was on earth. Both joy and sorrow afford pathways into a fullness of heart. Yet, it seems to me that sorrow offers a unique pathway into beauty beyond what the human heart can experience with joy alone. Looking at the cross we witness sorrow precipitating joy – our ultimate joy. Without the sorrow and suffering of the cross we would not have the joy that follows – a promise of everlasting life with our Triune God. After all, if God wanted human redemption and healing done differently he would have done it differently. Obviously, Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection was the best, and most perfect plan.

The Love of the Cross

Looking at today’s readings we are reminded that we are united with Christ on the cross. The pain he suffered is our pain. His pain on the cross is the pain he carried for us out of his perfect love. He carried this pain so that we could live. Being united with Christ on the cross means that we are united with both his sorrow and his joy. As Paul said to the Romans: “If, then, we have died with Christ, we believe that we shall also live with him.”

If we do indeed live with Christ (and we do) what does that mean? Can we even begin to understand what this means? Well, our humanity has built in limitations. I do not believe we can understand the fullness of what it means to experience God’s pure and perfect love revealed in the Passion. However, living with Christ does indeed promise a fullness of love that will be more than enough for us to live the life our heart desires.

We can live in perfect love – the pure, selfless, humble, sacrificing love revealed on the cross. The kind of love that poured forth from his Sacred Heart. This is the kind of love our great saints experienced. However there is a catch – we can only accomplish this through Christ. Because after all, he is the One we came into being through. We are all part of his sacred body. We live in the milieu of the body of Christ. To paint this picture I will share with you my story of the little fish.

The Little Fish & The Holy Trinity

Imagine a little fish in the ocean, floating around and bathing in the waters. The little fish breathes in this life giving water effortlessly. Water fills every part of this little fish and yet, the little fish is unaware of the water. Not only is the fish unaware of the life giving water, it has no clue that it would die outside of it. Without the water there is no life for the little fish.

Now let’s pause for a bit and think about the Holy Trinity. Father God is the one who created the water, the little fish, and the entire ocean. He perfectly orchestrated everything so that the little fish could live. Once Father God created the little fish it came into being through the Son. Then gazing at their creation together, the Father and the Son share an infinite divine love that envelops their little fish. Much like two parents gazing at their sleeping child, a special love lives between them. This divine love is the Holy Spirit.

The same is true for us. Except we are created in the image of our Triune God. God the Father created every human being in his love. Then he willed all of us into life through his Son, that is, we came into being through the Son. Together, God the Father and God the Son adore and love each of us. They continually gaze upon us with a divine love that immerses us – the Holy Spirit.

1 John 5:11 – “God gave us eternal life, and this life is in his Son. Whoever has the Son has life; whoever does not have the Son of God does not have life.”

We are like the little fish swimming in the God’s loving water, experiencing both joy and sorrow. The love of the cross, the living water, fills our cells and keeps us alive. We breathe in this water every moment of our life and it fills every part of us – every cell is filled with the true love of Christ. This water holds each and every person on our planet and it gives life to all. Without this sacred water we cannot live, that is, without God’s perfect love we will die. God not only wants each of us to experience this perfect love, he wants all of his little fish to live and return home to him.

“And this is the will of the one who sent me, that I should not lose anything of what he gave me, but that I should raise it on the last day. For this is the will of my Father, that everyone who sees the Son and believes in him may have eternal life, and I shall raise him on the last day.”

We will indeed return home to God when we surrender to our one true love – Jesus Christ. He will lead us home. And as Jesus told us, God’s Kingdom is within. Jesus lives inside our human heart. We will find all the love we could ever desire when we reach out to him there, especially when we seek him there during our sorrows.

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God bless all of you. See you next week Friday – Carolyn

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God the Father – hold us in your Fatherly love.

Sacred Heart of Jesus – heal us with your divine love.

God the Holy Spirit – immerse us in divine love.


Today’s Readings Wisdom 3:1-9, Psalm 23:1-3A. 3B-4, 5,6; Second Reading Romans 5:5-11 or Romans 6:3-9, Alleluia Matthew 25:34, Gospel John 6:37-40

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Carolyn Berghuis MS, ND, CTN is a best-selling author, inspirational speaker, traditional naturopath, and free-lance Catholic writer. Carolyn is currently pursuing an MA in Pastoral Theology at Saint Meinrad Seminary and School of Theology. Carolyn also holds a BS in Mathematics, a MS in Holistic Nutrition and a doctoral degree in Naturopathy. www.CarolynBerghuis.com

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16 Comments

  1. Please pray for my daughter to want to go to school, to go to school, have good friends and schoolmates, teachers, principal, assistant principal and school. Please also pray for her healing with the absence of her biological father. Please pray for her to accept and know God as her Heavenly Father.
    Please pray for safe electricity, water and heat for our home so we can move back home. Please pray for our health.
    Adore Jesus!!!

  2. Our lady of perpetual help come to our aid o loving mother, thanks for this wonderful reflection

  3. Our lady of perpetual help come to our aid o loving mother, thanks for this wonderful reflection

  4. Thanks Carolyn for your wonderful message. Let us pray that we shall find mercy in God’s presence on the last day.This is because we cannot live without sin as the Bible says “If we say we are not sinners we are telling a lie” So it is due God’s mercy that we shall see Heaven. God bless you Carol.

  5. Please pray that my husband give himself to Christ. Help me to be an inspiring, godly wife supporting him in all ways. Prayers for healing for Amanda and her cat, strength for those (especially my sister’s family) who are coming up on the anniversary of the death of their loved one, and that I receive strength from God so I can make sacrifices through God’s love, and for ALL your intentions.

  6. Please God open the eyes of our heart so we can see you. Make our light grow and glow like the sun. Help me but be a hipócrite when praying to you. Lead me to your peace amen

  7. Please pray for my son and all the teens and young adults struggling to navigate the waters of life. Thank you Carolyn fo your beautiful words.

  8. pray for my mother who underwent a brain surgery in Bethlehem when she went to holy land for a trip …. she was blessed by the services of the amazing doctors and nurses… presently back home she is much better and recovering!!!

  9. Thanks Carol, please include me to your prayer as I need the protection from the holy trinity. And let me have pure love to conquer anger and hate. Thank you.

  10. November 2: Commemoration of All Souls Day
    Jesus, dear Saviour
    On this day we prayerfully remember
    All our loved ones who have died
    Please give them comfort and hope
    And may they be at peace
    Knowing that they will rest in God’s arms eternally
    Thank you for our memories of them
    And for the good times we shared.
    We ask you please, through their intercession
    To deepen our faith, strengthen our hope and increase our love
    That we too, may stand before you some day
    Ready to enter your Kingdom
    Amen

    In remembrance of my 96 year old uncle who passed away earlier this year, for my friend who passed away before her 70th birthday this year. For my parents and oldest sister who passed away more than 20 years ago. May their souls and the souls of all the faithful departed rest in peace. Amen

  11. Thank you Carol! Please pray for my husband so he give his life to Jesus. I need help of pray for my friend who is going through lot of difficult times. Thanks and God bless you plus family

  12. Chris, that was beautiful. We pray every night for the souls of the faithfully departeted threw the mercy of God to rest in peace, and may those left behind find peace, comfort, and healing.

  13. Let’s pray for Ashley, who posted a message on Wednesday (in a comment to Steven’s reflection) that showed how much she needs to know God’s love. Please pray for her healing.

  14. Carolyn – Thank you so much.

    Please pray for me – I lost my job about one and a half months ago. Please pray that I may find a new one that allows me to do God’s will.

    Please also pray for my family and me – my wife gets frustrated with my faith or the faith I put in the Lord. She does not have the deep faith that I do, which leads to tension between us as I always try to put God first.

    Thank you.

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