Friday, October 25, 2018 – Jesus | My True Love

What would our life, and our world, look like if we did not have love? A scary thought. And sadly, many individuals in the world today feel abandoned and unloved. However, love is ever present and always available. Love can never abandon us because we are created to love and be loved in return by a creator who loves us beyond all human comprehension. As God’s children we are called to live in this manner – a “manner worthy of the call you have received”. In order to live this calling we must seek right relationship with Jesus Christ – the one who all life came into being through. We need guidance from Jesus because he is the source of all love, peace, and happiness.

However, if love is ever present (and it is), then I have a question for you to ponder. Why do we judge, why do we hate, and why do we fall short of God’s plan for our lives? Some say it is our sinful nature, and they are partially correct. However, is there more to it?

To begin, make no mistake about it, multitudes upon multitudes are seeking Jesus Christ today, regardless of what the world may look like. Peoples across the globe are looking for a savior to come and rescue the hurting world. Yet, these very multitudes are still are not living in a manner most pleasing to God. We must admit that we are not on overwhelmingly humble people, nor are we patient, and as a whole it doesn’t look as if we are striving to love one another and preserve unity of spirit among us. Same as Paul’s days huh. So what are we still missing?

Hidden Wounds

I write extensively about hidden wounds in my book, Understanding The Jesus Code. Wounds that hold us back from becoming the loving, humble, and patient sons and daughters of the one true King, live inside each and every one of us. Wounds that are the manifestion of original sin that still sting our interior. Given these hidden wounds, we will never be pure enough to stand in God’s holy place on our own – we need a pure and all-loving savior to carry us there. A savior who will heal our every defect and transform our inner darkness into radiance for the glory of God the Father. Through Jesus Christ we will become a race who receives the blessing of the Holy Trinity.

But how? How do we accomplish such a feat and surrender to the will of Christ. Well, we can, and must turn to sacred scripture as part of our journey. In Luke today we see evidence of our sinful nature and hidden wounds. However, we must remember that no one judges and hurts another who has not himself suffered internal pains and hidden wounds – hurt people hurt others. When we judge another we create walls of separation between ourselves and our brothers and sisters. You are there, I am here, and there is distinction between us. Yet, is this true? Can we really create such walls and separation? No, we cannot – they are an illusion. In Christ Jesus we are one body.

For just as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of the body, though many, are one body, so it is with Christ. For by one Spirit we were all baptized into one body—Jews or Greeks, slaves or free—and all were made to drink of one Spirit. – 1 Corinthians 12:12-13 (RSVCE)

Our Personal Relationship with Jesus Christ

In order to fully life a life of love, peace and happiness we must become free of the burdens we carry. Burdens of judgement, hate, anger, revenge, violence, unforgiveness, and loss of hope all interfere with happiness and peace. Further, they are tools the Evil One uses to distract us and hide from us the truth God constantly reveals. God continually tells us that we are unconditionally love, adored, wanted, and we all matter.

Through Jesus Christ, we will receive all the support and guidance we could ever need so that we will become free from the bondage our hidden wounds create within our hearts. Because after all, it is through Jesus Christ that all good things come. So how do we have this personal relationship with Jesus Christ and experience all the happiness and peace our hearts desire?

To begin we must understand that our personal relationship with Jesus Christ is anything but a one-on-one relationship. While it feels very personal at times, like a relationship with a best friend, it is much more. We are created in the image of a communal God; Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, and given this we are also created to live and love in a community.

We will find our relationship with Jesus Christ in our relationships with our fellow brothers and sisters in the world. When we love one another, we experience the love of Christ. When we, out of faith and love for God, practice Corporal and Spiritual Works of Mercy in this world, we will enjoy the deep and profound love relationship with Jesus our hearts cry out for.

Global Light For Christ (GLFC)

We are a group of Christ lovers who seek to support our fellow brothers and sisters on their journey into wholeness through prayer and petition. I invite you to share your prayer requests below and to pray for one another. Be blessed my brothers and sisters in Christ!

God bless all of you. See you next week Friday – Carolyn

If you would like to learn more about my work and my ministry I invite you to visit my website: CarolynBerghuis.com.


God the Father – hold us in your Fatherly love.

Sacred Heart of Jesus – heal us with your divine love.

God the Holy Spirit – immerse us in divine love.


Today’s Readings Ephesians 4:1-6, Psalm 24:1-2, 3-4AB, 5-6; Alleluia Matthew 11:25, Luke 12:54-59

About the Author

Carolyn Berghuis MS, ND, CTN is a best-selling author, inspirational speaker, traditional naturopath, and free-lance Catholic writer. Carolyn is currently pursuing an MA in Pastoral Theology at Saint Meinrad Seminary and School of Theology. Carolyn also holds a BS in Mathematics, a MS in Holistic Nutrition and a doctoral degree in Naturopathy. www.CarolynBerghuis.com

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12 Comments

  1. Thank you Carolyn.
    I pray for my mom who will be receiving test results next week, as well as the intentions of everyone in this community.

  2. Please pray that I may be relieved of the many burdens I am carrying that have prevented me from feeling the pure unconditional love of God. Thank you.

  3. Please pray for my daughter to want to go to school, have great teachers, schoolmates, principal and assistant principal, to be respectful, obedient and kind, and to accept and know God as her Heavenly Father.
    Please also pray that we get safe electricity, water and heat in our home so we can move back home. Please pray for my health.
    Thank you.
    Adore Jesus!

  4. Thank you always for your wonderful reflections. We are a community of love held tightly by the Father, Son and Holy Spirit. I we could only embrace it. Blessings, Love and Peace to all.

  5. I am rethinking what a personal relationship with Jesus Christ is. Thank you for that Carolyn. Please pray that my husband give himself to the Lord, that he give God his past hurts and disappointments. Please also pray for my cousin Jessie and his 3 children as he lays his 38 year old wife/ mother to rest in the Lord’s arms (she died from a quick battle with cancer). Lord help us to love as you love.

  6. Well put, Carolyn. If we could remember that for those who feel unloved, we must show the love of God to them by works of mercy. With kindness, patience, everything that Saint Paul talks about in the selection from his letter to the Ephesians today, we can show God’s love to others.

    How do we know who feels unloved and abandoned? Perhaps it’s the ones who act aggressively, act tough, insensitively. They are showing their deep sensitivity that somehow someone taught them is a bad thing, and they are trying to hide that part of themselves, which has negative consequences.

    It could also be that we don’t know who feels unloved and abandoned. So that places the responsibility on us to show God’s love to everybody through works of mercy to everybody.

    I pray for my mother-in-law, who is one of the most sensitive people I know, but acts aggressively. It took me a long time to learn that she was wounded inside and was therefore reacting to the world around her that taught her that being sensitive is a bad thing. Reflections on this site, most definitely including yours, Carolyn, helped me to understand her predicament. I have since tried to show patience and other works of mercy to her, so that she can put down her internal armour. I fall far short of the standard to which the Lord is calling me, but my efforts have proven to be fruitful. She is less aggressive than she has been. Praise the Lord!

    Heavenly Father, Lord Jesus, and Gracious Holy Spirit, please heal her with your love, however you see fit to manifest it. I ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen.

  7. Thank You for this beautiful reflection. It truly is hard to show love when one is wounded! Praying for strength to accept the evil in our world and know the love of Jesus!

  8. Thank you,Carolyn, for another wonderful reflection. I am so far from living my life the way God wants me to. I pray for His strength and guidance to handle myself in better ways when faced with unpleasant situations. I ask for His healing during this time of struggle in my work life and guidance on how to move forward to gain some sort of life balance. My prayers are with you all.

  9. Eph 4:1-4 I, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to live in a manner worthy of the call you have received, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another through love, striving to preserve the unity of the spirit through the bond of peace; one Body and one Spirit, as you were also called to the one hope of your call; one Lord, one faith, one baptism; one God and Father of all, who is over all.

    The week of Prayer for Christian Unity celebrated every January is based on this passage from St. Paul. And I recall during Pope St. John Paul II pontificate, he advocated evalengization within the Catholic Church.

    Carolyn, your reflection, if I understand it correctly, ties in with the above. That “we are created in the image of a communal God; Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, …. we are created to live and love in a community.”

    I pray not only for Christian unity, but for all human beings struggling to make sense of the devastation and horror sweeping our world, even in religious countries. As Laura mentioned on Thursday: “the only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.” Problem is, good people are justifying striking out at others who don’t believe what they believe. Dr. Phil called it ‘confirmation bias’. He said you can show them irrefutable evidence to the contrary, but they won’t budge. Hmmmm!

    History is repeating itself …. Jesus’ words (last paragraph in Luke) has fallen on deaf ears. I am struggling to find a prayer for these times.

  10. Thanks Caroline and fir all the people who prayed for my husband healing, he was totally healed, to God be the glory.Pls continue to pray for my daughter so she can get a good secondary school gor 2019…many thanks for all your love

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