Friday, 1/19/18 – Mercy and Love

This week’s readings reveal captivating palace intrigue in the houses of Saul and David. Battles, miraculous victories, jealousy, betrayal, and murderous thoughts are woven throughout their relationship. One can only begin to imagine the rumor mill of the day! As captivating as this story was (and still is), the underlying current of God’s mercy and love is the real message. David was presented with many struggles and in the end he chose mercy and love over anger and murder. God, in turn, was faithful to David.

Choosing Mercy and Love

Can you imagine for a moment what would have happened if David did indeed choose against mercy and love? If he would have killed Saul in that cave? It seemed David had every “right” to kill Saul. After all, Saul was hunting David down with the aid of three thousand men! Yet, David surrendered to mercy and love and in doing so David’s heart become more united with the heart of God. In the end David even bowed to Saul and paid him homage. Now that’s real kingly strength. We are called to do the same in the face of adversity, no matter how big or how small. We are called into humility, mercy, strength, and love – like our King Jesus Christ.

Like David we are also chosen for a special role in God’s Kingdom. It’s true that we will likely not become an earthly king (or queen) like David. I for one am thankful for this – what a weight to carry! However, we are sons and daughters of the one true King – our Triune God. A gift given to us through Christ Jesus.

Revealing Mercy and Love

Given our royal status as God’s children what we say and do matters. Christianity is in full view on the world stage for all to see. Let’s give everyone a great show of mercy and love. Maybe we can start the show by offering mercy and love to our fellow Christians – Catholic and non-Catholic Christians alike.

God blessed David many times during his lifetime and God desires to bless us too. God doesn’t want to hold anything back from his children – not his mercy, love, or any spiritual gift he has for us. However, we must orientate our hearts toward God before we can receive such blessings. There is only one way we can do this – through Love – through Jesus Christ.

Jesus’ Way

Jesus also calls his followers into battle. In our Gospel reading today we see Jesus pulling together his warriors – the Apostles. We know the palace intrigue that followed – battles, miraculous victories, jealousy, betrayal, and murder itself. Yet, this battle is different than the battles of Saul and David’s isn’t it.

Jesus’ battle reaches beyond the earthly realm and into the spiritual realm where principalities and powers can wreak havoc. For this battle different weapons are required, weapons Jesus encourages us to take up every day – mercy and love. As Christians we are called to use them to the fullest.

Choosing mercy and love requires true strength. After all, it is easy to give way to anger or revenge – a false sense of power arises within our human heart when we do. However, our true strength as Christians manifests through us when we follow Christ into battle – using his weapons of mercy and love. Mercy flows through forgiveness and love expands when we look at others through the lenses of compassion and understanding. When we do these things everything changes in our hearts.

Prayer Intentions

I want to thank everyone who shares their prayer intention here – I have been praying for all of you and holding you in my heart. I know our little prayer community is together in spirit praying inside the comfort and beauty of Christ.

Let’s continue to pray together for our leaders, praying that they become holy leaders, seeking the aid and counsel of the one true King. And let’s continue to pray for all who struggle with oppression, addictions, and brokenheartedness, asking God that they may find Christ through their struggles.

If you would like me to pray for you this upcoming week please leave your prayer request below or email me privately. Also, I invite you to join with me in prayer for all of the intentions shared here.

Chloe

That picture up there is my loving dog Chloe. This week we had to say goodbye to our sweet baby as she passed away. Chloe was part of our family for 15 wonderful years. Our relationship with her was filled with love and companionship. Chloe was with us during the hard times, offering comfort and love. She was also there for the good times too, sharing in our family joy. Today my heart is hurting deeply and I miss her dearly. Our house feels so empty without her. If you have ever loved and lost a pet then I know you understand. They are true gifts from God.

“If you have men who will exclude any of God’s creatures from the shelter of compassion and pity, you will have men who will deal likewise with their fellow men.”

― Francis of Assisi

God bless all of you. See you next week Friday – Carolyn

Sacred Heart of Jesus – have mercy on us.

Father God – consume us.

Holy Spirit – enter into us.

Blessed Virgin Mary – pray for us.

Today’s Readings: 1 Samuel 24:3-21; Responsorial Psalm 57:2, 3-4, 6, 11; Alleluia 2 Corinthians 5:19; Gospel Mark 3:13-19

About the Author

Carolyn Berghuis MS, ND, CTN is a best-selling author, inspirational speaker, traditional naturopath, and free-lance Catholic writer. Carolyn is currently pursuing an MA in Pastoral Theology at Saint Meinrad Seminary and School of Theology. Carolyn also holds a BS in Mathematics, a MS in Holistic Nutrition and a doctoral degree in Naturopathy. www.CarolynBerghuis.com

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31 Comments

  1. Don’t really connect with Saul’s jealousy/envy and how that can actually relate to God’s mercy and love or Saul’s relationship with the people of Israel.

    I also can’t quite understand David (at the end) mercilessly killing the Philistine. Why was that necessary? Is routing the enemy the only way? Was there another way to rout the enemy? Maybe I’ve lost the plot here, but these readings are not at all easy to comprehend along Christian lines?

  2. Hi Helene,

    As I see today’s readings David choose mercy and love towards Saul in the end and this was a turning point for them. Saul’s heart changed as a result of the mercy and love David showed him.
    As human beings we will fall short of showing mercy and love to others (like David obviously did when he killed the Philistine) – this is why we need Christ to show us the way.

  3. So sorry for you. Pets bless our lives so much and may your memories bring you comfort and peace.

  4. Thank you Carolyn. Your reflections just fit with our Diocesan Thrust this year: Year of the Clergy & consecrated persons – ” Renewed servant leaders for the new evangelization.

    To quote from your words:
    “In the end David even bowed to Saul and paid him homage. Now that’s real kingly strength. We are called to do the same in the face of adversity, no matter how big or how small.”

    As servant leaders – we have to do ask the Lord the “kingly strength” in our swervice as we share the three functions of Christ: Royal Priesthood, As King, and Prophetic functions.

    Thank you Carolyn, Its so refreshing to my soul reading your reflections every week.

    Joining you always in my prayers with your created “praying community”.

    God bless us all!

  5. I’m sorry about the loss of your dog.
    I wish to pray for my sister who’s hoping for a gift of a baby, for my brother who’s in a war torn zone and for my mother, who’s a widow and lives alone. I also pray for for my heart desires.
    I also pray for all those who need my prayers

  6. I wish to pray for the health of my unborn baby, and for the intentions of this community.

    Carolyn, my sincere condolences on the loss of your beloved Chloe.

  7. Hi Carolyn thanks for the reflection, the story on Chloe adds a welcomed personal touch.
    Please pray that my two sons Peter and James that through the intervention of our blessed mother , they may experience a spiritual renewal and return to church and the sacraments.God bless.

  8. God bless you Caroline.May our good lord, grant you strength and peace during this difficult moment. Lots of love from Kenya

  9. Hi Caroline.
    I could feel the heartache as you typed those words, regarding the death of Chloe. I pray that God fills in the vacuum she left behind with peace and joy.

    Regards.

  10. Thank you Carolyn for your reflections. I am writtening from Poland. Originally I useed Catholic Moment just for learning English but right now I believe God helps me to figure more about His Words. Today i understand that sometimes the the hardest thing is to forgive yourself. Marcy starts at home … I am asking for prayer 🙂 thank you

  11. May God comfort you and your family with the loss of your faithful Chole. Thank you always for your deep reflections.

  12. Carolyn, I’m so sorry for your loss of Chloe. Our pets give us unconditional love, always wanting most just to be with us, just like Jesus. May Jesus be with you now in your sorrow.
    My prayers join yours for all the intentions posted and in the hearts of our community. Lord, hear our prayers.

  13. Thank you for this wonderful reflection….Your words keep help me get through tough times. So sorry about Chloe….I know how you feel… God bless you and your family.

  14. I, too, am sorry for your lost. It looks as if she, like David, was being merciful to not give that cat in the background a little push! My pets add so much love and laughter in my life as well. Please let us all pray for more people to be kind and caring to all of God’s animals they may encounter in their lives.

  15. Let God’s love fill up the empty spaces left by Chloe. Thank you for her life and all animals who brighten our world. Prayers please for my husband’s faith and for my niece and her mother who are coming together after a long time of physical separation.

  16. I am truly sorry for your loss of Chloe, Carolyn. Thank you for sharing that with us. I have such difficulty coping with the death of my numerous pets over the years. I am constantly seeking the answer to ease that pain, never finding one. Can you please pray for all those unwanted, abused pets in shelters and to soften the hearts of people when it comes to these creatures. Compassion for animals means compassion for our brothers and sisters in Christ

  17. I am so sorry for your loss. Our beloved pets do become part of our family. Thank you for the spiritual direction. I am so happy I chanced upon this website, I am getting so much out of it.

  18. My daughter has a beloved dog named Chloe, too! I am so sorry for your loss. I know how much joy and companionship pets bring to our lives and the hole they leave in our hearts when they are no longer around. Will keep you and your family in my prayers!

  19. Carolyn so, so sorry about Chloe. Your love of Chloe and her love for you was/is truly a gift from God. God has used you both for a purpose. It’s amazing how he links all creation together…forever.

    My prayers for you and all those on this list. I offer a decade of the rosary each day for all of you.

  20. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family. Loosing a pet is very difficult, may your memories make you smile and know your fur baby has crossed over the rainbow!
    Please pray for my friend Cydney, she is battling Cancer.

  21. Dear Carolyn,
    I’m so happy that your family had Chloe to fill your lives with companionship, love and joy. A true blessing. I know your pain and I’m sorry. Your family is in my prayers. May God hear the prayers of all here.

    Please pray for my lovely, wonderful husband to come into the Catholic Church. He loves our Savior dearly. It sure would be nice to receive communion together as a family. We have two small boys, 3 years old and almost 6 months. We love them dearly. Please pray that they will always have eyes and hearts devoted to Jesus. Peace, love and prayers to you and all here.

  22. I’m sorry for your dog. Can you please pray for my colleagues daughter health, my family and my relationship. Thank you ? God bless you

  23. So very sorry to hear about the loss of your faithful companion, Chloe. While you will miss her here on earth, I have faith that she is now with our Lord, has her wings, and will be one of your family’s Guardian Angels from this point on. God bless you and yours.

  24. So sorry for the loss of chloe . I have lost two dogs who lived long lives. I know how heart breaking it is. I would like you to add Sandy to your prayer list. She is 10 weeks into her pregnancy and has had a complication that has put her into a crisis pregnancy category. She has a blood clot in her leg that extends from her knee to her ankle. She can’t twist at her waist for rear of the clot going to her heart, they have also recommended amniocentesis ,which has @35 percent chance of causing a miscarriage. She is giving herself a shot in her leg to dissolve the clot. Thank you for you reflections and prayers

  25. So sorry you have lost your sweet puppy. I have a 15 1/2 yr old Cairn Terrier who will not be with me much longer. I live alone and he has been a wonderful companion along my journey. I truly believe that somehow God has a reward in store for all these faithful creatures who have enriched the lives of their humans. May little Chloe rest in Gods arms and may your soul rest in His peace.

  26. Thank you for this wonderful reflection!! Choosing mercy and love requires true strength indeed, and even if i fall short or lose a battle, i know that Jesus, our Lord and saviour, will help me pick up or even give me a better armor of mercy and sword of love to eventually win.
    I pray that may my fellow seafarers find strength in the Lord..
    Keep choosing mercy and love everyone.. God bless us all!

  27. Carolyn. I ask that you include in your prayers my intentions for all of us who suffer from depression. I ask that you include in your prayers my intention that our country come together as one nation under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all. Thank you. I too lost a pet this week. And I understand the Heartbreak you are feeling. I am so sorry for your loss. God bless.

  28. Writing this reflection when you just lost your beloved pet, Chloe, means a lot. Find solace in the fact that Chloe is resting in peace. I just want to thank you for being able to write this reflection as you grieve the loss of your dog. God will comfort and console you.

  29. Please pray for my mother who is currently on hospice care for a holy and peaceful death when God calls her home.

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