Saturday February 19, 2022: Lingual Lessons

Today’s Readings

Teachers tend to have a very large impression upon us. They can often shape us into the people we will eventually become. I still remember my second grade teacher’s name. Mrs. Belasco. Also a substitute teacher in 5th grade named Miss Barci. I recall the class giving her a lot of grief and it was the first time I remember getting up in front of a group to speak my mind…yelling at the class for treating her so harshly. And, yes, she was very cute. Not that that had any bearing on me defending her. Then there was Mr. Colletti. My high school biology teacher who fostered my love for medicine and, eventually, veterinary medicine. All three had tremendous impact on my development as a student and as a person.

And, as they say, with that power comes awesome responsibility. There were also those who had more of a negative influence based on their demeanor and management of their classes. But these will go nameless. Teachers are given a very powerful role in terms of how they effect those they have had the privilege to be put in charge of. And the apostle James seems to agree with me.

In the first reading, James begins by telling his audience that, “Not everyone should become teachers..” Well, I could have told him that after barley surviving the sister who taught my 7th grade class. I recall losing most of my allowance money to fines for dropping my textbooks on the floor. But she was also the person, along with my 8th grade religious sister teacher, that I now recall fostered my passion for reading. And this skill carried me throughout my college and professional career.

James talks about how the tongue is a small but powerful member of our bodies. The tongue can bless God but also then curse our neighbor…who carries God’s divinity. The tongue can praise and it can insult. It can quell or it can start a fire. He compares it to the bit in a horse’s mouth allowing us to control a beast much larger than ourselves. Or use the same bit to inflict harm and punishment on an innocent creature. He also describes the tongue as like the rudder of a great ship allowing us to steer into or out of rough seas.

Of course the tongue is neither inherently evil or inherently beneficial. It can be described as good since all that comes from God is good. But it is the bearer of this fickle organ that can turn its use into something for good or use it to inflict discourse and anguish. Elise and I just started watching the BBC series, Downton Abbey. We are into season 4 I think. Two characters stand out in my mind that illustrate James’ lessons about the use of one’s tongue.

One of the characters is Thomas. He has become notorious for manipulating people in the household so as to benefit his own goals and desires, at the expense of the reputations of his co-workers. It seems apparent that he has had a difficult past which likely is influencing the choices he makes but we have not gotten to that part of the story yet.

Then there is Mrs. Hughes. She, like Thomas, is always watching and is aware of the goings on in the Abbey. Both with the royal family as well as with the household staff. She, however, uses the knowledge of the difficulties the household experiences to gives advice and aid in the struggles they encounter. She is always ready to guide troubled souls along a better path. In one case with Thomas we see someone who has not learned to control the gift of speech while Mrs. Hughes had tamed the beast that is in her mouth to the betterment of all.

The reality is that we all have a bit of Thomas and a bit of Hughes in our personalities. At times we inflame and at times we douse the fires around us. We at times use our rudder to steer the ship out of turmoil and at other times intentionally sail into a hurricane. How do we train that beast to serve God as it was intended to be used for?

We have guides, don’t we? We have teachers, we have parents, we have priests and friends that are placed into our lives to steer us along the right path. To act as guard rails to prevent us for going over the edge of the cliff. And God gave us His Son to help us to know when the guides are doing His will and when they are trying to take us out into the rough water. As God said to Peter, James and John during the Transfiguration on the mount: “This is My Son. Listen to Him”.

About the Author

Hello! My name is John Ciribassi. I live in Carol Stream, IL in the USA. My wife Elise and I are parishioners at Corpus Christi Catholic Church. We have two adult daughters. One lives in Senegal, West Africa with her husband and her 3 sons. The other teaches Anthropology at the University of Oslo, Norway. We also have a home in Mainesburg, Pa in the North Central part of Pennsylvania. My wife and I are both retired veterinarians, and my specialty is in animal behavior. I attended college and veterinary school in Illinois, where I met my wife who is from the Chicago area, and the rest is history! My hobbies include Racquetball, Pickleball, Off Road Motorcycle Riding, Hiking and Camping. I continue to enjoy the opportunity to offer what little insight I have on the scriptures. But I have always felt that the scriptures can speak for themselves. My job is just to shine a little light on them for people who maybe don't have the time to look into the readings deeply. I hope you enjoy and find value in my writings. I continue to be grateful for this opportunity.

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10 Comments

  1. Dear John, a nice treatise on teachers indeed. A good teacher inspires always, but a wicked one can cast disastrous influences. I guess that is why the lyrics appear in “Another brick in the wall, Part II”. Yes, I am reminded of why only three professions in the world can be called “noble”: the teacher, the preacher, and the healer. For these were the roles that Jesus Christ took.

  2. I was just thinking of this as I was doing the dishes tonight. How do I get the best perception of people I meet daily in my life. Not everyone intends to do harm, but they do. Not everyone does good. How do I stay safe and yet love? I wondered if Jesus ever worried about his safety in life. I speak about safety because of my past. So often we hear about the “guard rails” in our life that have taught us, kept us safe, etc. What I enjoyed hearing in you writing was that God gave us His Son to help us know when the guides are doing His will when they take us out into rough water. Time for prayer, conversation and listening to/with God.

  3. Teachers contribute in shaping our destinies. Growing up,I still remember the names of all the teachers,who taught me in primary school,except one who said something derogatory about where I came from. Those words stuck in my memory till now. That is why in the first reading of today, St James admonishes us to do all in our power to tame the Tongue.

  4. Thank you John. Today’s first reading is one I can honestly say hits home…how many times am I hearing and NOT listening. That gift takes time and discipline. I’ve got work to do. Blessings to you JC for another great reflection. I’m all ears!

  5. Thank you for your reflection. I love how you are able to relate the scriptures into everyday life i.e. the Thomas & Mrs. Hughes example. May God continue to bless you & your family & the Holy Spirit continue to inspire you.

  6. Thank you John, I enjoyed your reflection.
    You write with more ease than when you first started writing here at ACM.

  7. Thanks John for another inspiring reflection. If we only listen more and talk less (remember God gave us 2 ears and one mouth…). We also must realize that whatever comes out from our mouth, we can never take it back. We pray that God give us the wisdom and grace to say the proper words at the proper time. Peace and blessings to all.

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