Thou shall not kill – Thursday 10/11/20

I reside on the 6th floor of my building , the topmost with a huge terrace attached. Every day since past few weeks into lockdown I have made an honest attempt to sit there and watch the sunset and the changing colors of the sky … while I read through the a book “the tattooist of Auschwitz” and finally just saying the rosary with the best view ever !

The novel describes the love story of the tattooist of the Auschwitz camp and the girl he met there. Every time they describe the gas chambers and the human bodies, I have goosebumps! I cannot imagine such a sight of death. I cannot fathom the fact how a human can kill another when the very instinct of me as a doctor is to save lives!

And then I realized , we do it every day. Sometimes more than once when we slander some one with our very own tongue when we roll out the thoughts from our mind. The gossip and the rumors.. the half information and the rest is an assumption… when we “discuss ” about the lives of others and their decision, form opinions about their life decisions and then propagate opinions to public with a little added salt and pepper!!

Each and every one of us is guilty of slander and killing the reputation of another person !! or misinforming another about some facts which we conjure up on opinions… constituting to near character assasinations and murders!!

Let us the keep an awarness of what we speak out especially about other brethren and watch our words thus making life so much easier and less complicated and following the commandment…

you shall not kill and whoever kills shall be liable to judgement

PRAYER: Help me Lord to refrain from spreading any lies, gossip or rumors about any one at home, work or in my neighborhood. Help me to ask for your forgiveness for the times that I have done exactly that. Help me Lord to serve you and my brothers and sisters in Christ with love and humility. Amen.

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Hello! I’m Dr Analise Maria D’ Mello, (MBBS, MS obgyn, DNB) from the beautiful state of Goa in India. I was born and raised in a Roman Catholic family, learning my prayers, catechism and Catholic values from my parents and grandmothers. I am currently practicing as an obstetrician and gynecologist for 3 years since my residency. I often speak on anti-abortion to college students and married couples, and counsel distressed pregnant women with appropriate medical advice. I am part of the St Luke's Medical Guild of Catholic Doctors in my state providing services in prisons, and Lenten and advent retreats for medical professionals and their families.

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8 Comments

  1. Thank you for a simple and to the point reflection. This is what Jesus asks us to do. I need to reflect myself…how am I doing?

  2. Thank you for those wise words. What a wonderful world this would be if we would all practice this.

  3. Thank you Analise for your reflection. Simple and so very true.
    The final prayer is beautiful. Peace and harmony…………

  4. Thank you for these beautiful and direct words. In these troubled times I’m finding out the people I’m the closest with are not always in agreement with my thoughts. I have to remember to be opened minded and not judgemental. It can be a challenge to live in peace and harmony! God give us grace…🙏🏼

  5. Thank you for this reflection. We all make judgments everyday…in fact we rely on our judgments to make right decisions. And these judgments also include people, whether we make it consciously or instinctively. However, when such judgments become critical of others or result in negative behaviour, e.g. gossip, insult, envy, etc. then it becomes sinful. I say when we reach that point…return to the Lord and ask for guidance. Lord, grant us wisdom and grace to do the right thing in accordance with your will. Peace to all!

  6. Very nice reflection Doc, thanks. As someone here said earlier “direct and straight to the point “.
    So much easier said than done though. I guess we should all follow the old instruction “bite your tongue”. It’s bad enough we these thoughts in our mind.
    Lord, have mercy on me a sinner.

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