Wednesday, March 18, 2020 – We Can Use This Time

However, take care and be earnestly on your guard
not to forget the things which your own eyes have seen,
nor let them slip from your memory as long as you live,
but teach them to your children and to your children’s children.

Deuteronomy 4:9

Never forget what God has done for us. Do not worship false idols. Teach this to our children, and their children. 

Except, we have. And we do. And we don’t.

I am inconvenienced and annoyed by this whole Coronavirus thing. I admit it. As are we all. All these cancellations, postponements, the fear and panic. And how it has affected the economy. Don’t get me wrong – I do understand the seriousness, and I understand the desire to “flatten the curve” as we’ve all come to understand. It is a serious situation, yes. But the panic and fear is unnecessary. 

We’ve seen this type of situation before, with the flu and SARS and MERS and so on… But what makes this so serious is how fast and wide it spreads and how we are contagious before we even realize it. And the fact that this is a new virus, that we don’t have an acquired immunity for, makes for many unknowns. 

And people fear unknowns.  And when people fear unknowns, we become irrational, and we panic, and we become selfish. And we forget Who is truly in control. We forget the lessons we learned about God, all the blessings God has done for us. We worship our own desires, our need to hoard for our own self-preservation, and perhaps this very fear in and of itself. We forget what we learned, and we fail to pass it on. 

This was the Israelites thousands of years ago in the desert, forgetting all the great things that God had done for them, and only thinking of their discomfort in the present moment. 

And this is us today – in a global pandemic. 

Yes, there are inconveniences. Yes, there is discomfort and suffering. And yes, unfortunately, there are people dying. But this is nothing to panic and fear over. There is only one thing to fear, and that is God. Have awe in Him, not only in what He has done in the past, but what He is doing through us now with this pandemic. The virus will fade. The economy will rebound. Yes, there will be lasting effects. 

But use this as a time to grow. Use this as a time to spend with your family, to help one another, and to just be together again. You know, my son is upset like many of us that the NCAA and NBA and Major League baseball are all either postponed or cancelled. And he’s disappointed that his baseball practices have been cancelled. And I think deep down he’s upset he can’t be at school, be with his friends, and has to do e-learning. 

But he told me today that he’s kind of happy that sports have been cancelled for a few weeks and he can have a break. He told me this while he and I were making dinner – together. And this was eye-opening to me. It made me think of and remember about all the things and activities we fill our days up with, and how that, no matter how hard you try, they seem to increase the busyness of our days and get into the way of family. And God. 

As inconvenient as this time is, I am thankful. Thankful for what may come out of it not only for my family, but for families throughout this country and throughout the world. It helps me to remember what is important, and as reader Sandi commented on Mary Ortwein’s article on Monday:

“It is not lost on me that this is all happening during Lent. God is drawing us away from many of the distractions of the world so we can focus on Him.”

It is not lost on me either.  This is a gift. We can use this time to increase our prayer, charity and almsgiving in ways we may not before. We can use this time and offer it up to God, to offer up our trials and suffering and inconvenience for God’s Will and Purpose. We can use this time to grow closer to those around us. We can use this time, to grow closer to God.  We can simply use this time – to grow. 

Perhaps every year, we should shut the world down for a few weeks. Imagine how we could grow and come together? But if left up to us, we will create the world that we live in, one of panic and fear, one of selfishness, one of false idols. One where we forget. Because we do this over and over. And so, from time to time, God lets us be reminded – and here we are. 

We can use this time, for so many things. 

Let’s continue to pray for the world in this time, for all of us during this pandemic, and especially for those who are suffering and who have died as a result of COVID-19. 

Prayer (by Pope Francis)

O Mary, you shine continuously on our journey as a sign of salvation and hope. We entrust ourselves to you, Health of the Sick.

At the foot of the Cross you participated in Jesus’ pain, with steadfast faith. You, Salvation of the Roman People, know what we need. We are certain that you will provide, so that, as you did at Cana of Galilee, joy and feasting might return after this moment of trial.

Help us, Mother of Divine Love, to conform ourselves to the Father’s will and to do what Jesus tells us: He who took our sufferings upon Himself, and bore our sorrows to bring us, through the Cross, to the joy of the Resurrection. Amen.We seek refuge under your protection, O Holy Mother of God.Do not despise our pleas – we who are put to the test – and deliver us from every danger, O glorious and blessed Virgin.

About the Author

My name is Joe LaCombe, and I am a Software Developer in Fishers, Indiana in the USA. My wife Kristy and I have been married for 19 years and we have an awesome boy, Joseph, who is in 5th Grade! We are members of St. Elizabeth Seton Parish in Carmel, Indiana where we volunteer with various adult faith ministries. I love writing, and spending time with my family out in the nature that God created, and contemplating His wonders. I find a special connection with God in the silence and little things of everyday life, and I love sharing those experiences with all of you.

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20 Comments

  1. I don’t believe in coincidence and l find it interesting that all of this is going on at Lent.

  2. Thank you for the new perspective of this global a pandemic as a time to grow closer to God and loved ones.

  3. This is a wonderful reflection .What a coincidence? To be able to grow spiritually we need time ofg to put aside everything and listen to God voice. I have learn a lesson

  4. Thanks Joe for redirecting our thoughts to think positively about the results of this Corona virus…The power of positive thinking.. For sure,time to take a break be closer to God and to family..God bless you bro.

  5. Wow Joe, tks for your perspective. Surely, something good can come out of these terrible times. Our God needs our attention. Help us Lord to return to you

  6. Thanks Joe, God is speaking to us. This is a time to pray more and move closer to God. Great Reflection.

  7. Yes we can use this time…a bit of a reality check…for all of us too busy to slow down and recognize how fragile life is. Gods will and purpose will make us better for this if we use the time wisely. Thank you JL for helping us through this with good thoughts and words.

  8. Thank you Joe. I need to hear this and pray that prayer. I realize I have been focusing on the virus instead of using this time to draw near and focus on God.
    I love the thought of shutting the world down for a few weeks every year…

  9. Thank you so much for this wonderful reflection. You put this whole situation into a different light for me and for many others as well. Thank you for reminding us that everything is not just about US and how it affects US.

  10. Thank you Joe. Tremendous reflection. What an act of mercy God is giving us right now. A chance to come to know Him through a situation out of our control. And through going without certain distractions. To long for Him again through the Mass (all Masses here are cancelled). And yes, even through suffering. I pray I take advantage of this time to think about others more. To pray more. To love my family more. God bless you all.

  11. Thank you, Joe. Your reflection is spot on as always. I’m praying the annunciation novena in the hopes of stopping the spread of the virus.
    Prayer is our strongest weapon against this pandemic.
    I pray for you and all our Catholic Moment community for continued health.

  12. That is Joe, I always look forward to reading your reflections. We have similar thoughts on many topics. I would take it a step further than “Time” to deal with (God, family, community, Etc…) What about resources? Think of all the money spent on these sporting events that have been canceled – it’s mind boggling. If the people who attended these events have just half of what they would have spent to charity it would be a meaningful amount.
    And perhaps one this virus runs out of gas, people may be more inclined to engage in more meaningful activities other than sports.
    Don’t get me wrong, I like sports but I personally feel it has mutated into a new kind of monster (virus) over the years.

  13. Thanks Joe, you are so right. Hopefully we can remember to get out of his way, pray and let him take care of it / us!!!!!

  14. In addition to the daily reflection, I enjoy reading the comments because I learn from them as well. I noticed “Sandi’s” comments earlier this week about all that is happening now during Lent, perhaps not coincidentally. It made me think about how we, individually, could take time to think about how we could “be better” and also how we, collectively, could “be better” people and come out of this a better society…especially less selfish and more compassionate and caring.

  15. We all need to hear comforting words at this time. Thank you for your truthful reflection.

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