Thursday, December 26, 2019 – Feast of St. Stephen, first martyr

Merry Christmas!

There, I said it. And I will say it again.

Merry Christmas!

These days when the world seems to always be in a hurry to go somewhere, get something, be someone … it’s important to remain steadfast in observing the true Christmas season.

Christmas did not “end” on December 25, despite what many may say today, on December 26.

The season is not “over” simply because our merchants conduct popular “after Christmas” sales. We understand that on the contrary, Christmas “began” on December 25 (actually on the Eve of the 24th) and will continue until January 9 when we observe The Baptism of the Lord.

So, we keep our trees decorated and lit. We continue to send traditional Christmas cards. We continue to gather with family and exchange gifts.

In other words … we “walk the walk” of a true Christian who knows the Season is not determined by the merchants eager to move on to the next holiday. Nor is it determined by many of our friends and neighbors eager to box their decorations and toss their trees into the recycling pile. And neither is it determined by the media, Facebook or Twitter.

We must “walk the walk” of liturgy. We are a liturgical people.

Interesting … that phrase “walk the walk.”

If you do some online searching, you will find most people use this expression as a way to say that in order to be authentic, one must actually do what one preaches. The extended version of this phrase goes something like this: “If you talk the talk, you need to walk the walk.”

Today’s first reading is all about this notion … the story of the first martyr, St. Stephen who certainly rose to the occasion.

“When they heard this, they were infuriated, and they ground their teeth at him. But he, filled with the Holy Spirit, looked up intently to heaven and saw the glory of God and Jesus standing at the right hand of God, and he said, “Behold, I see the heavens opened and the Son of Man standing at the right hand of God.

“But they cried out in a loud voice, covered their ears, and rushed upon him together. They threw him out of the city, and began to stone him. The witnesses laid down their cloaks at the feet of a young man named Saul.  As they were stoning Stephen, he called out “Lord Jesus, receive my spirit.”

Stephen was evangelizing as he felt was his duty. At our baptism into the Church, that same duty became ours. To evangelize and to spread the joy of the Gospel – the “Good News” – that Christ has come as our Savior.

Stephen’s audience wanted none of that. He preached anyway.

It reminds me of a prayer that many know as a prayer of Mother Teresa. It stands as words of encouragement whenever difficult circumstances cause you to hesitate or have doubts about living up to your Christian calling.

I’ve mentioned this in a previous column, but it certainly bears another mention today.

People are often unreasonable, irrational, and self-centered … Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives … Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some unfaithful friends and some genuine enemies … Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and sincere, people may deceive you … Be honest and sincere anyway.

What you spend years creating, others could destroy overnight … Create anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, some may be jealous … Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, will often be forgotten … Do good anyway.

Give the best you have, and it will never be enough … Give your best anyway.

In the final analysis, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.

Pray that we continue to “walk the walk” … anyway.

And we say again … MERRY CHRISTMAS!

About the Author

Dan McFeely is a Carmel, Indiana, writer, communications business owner, book editor and a former professional journalist. Dan also works as an Adult Faith Formation Minister, currently serving as a spiritual director for the men's and women's Christ Renews His Parish program at St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Catholic Church in Carmel. He is a graduate of the Ecclesial Lay Ministry program offered by the Diocese of Lafayette-in-Indiana and has studied theology at Marian University.

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11 Comments

  1. Dan; Have a Blessed Christmas Season. Thank you for including the Prayer of Mother Teresa. This is a great reminder for us to reflect upon what we should do each and every day.

  2. Thanks for the reminder that Christmas isn’t over yet. We still have time to contemplate the beauty of Christmas. I have to admit that I was saddened by the thought of all the Christmas joy fading away as everyone focuses their attention on the next event. You remind me that it’s only just begun. It’s time to spread the joy and remind those around us. Thanks and Merry Christmas!

  3. Thank you Dan for “walking the walk” and ” writing the write” as you do so well. I pray that I can impact others in some encouraging way. After all it is between me and God…any and every way. MERRY CHRISTMAS!

  4. Merry Christmas, Dan. Thank you for the prayer from Mother Teresa. It has become one of my favorite prayers.

  5. Merry Christmas!! I always enjoy reading your explanations of the readings. It IS so important to do as you say, thank you for the reminder. I just moved to Indiana this year and I am doing my confirmation at St. Vincent. Happy Holidays from Elkhart, IN.

  6. Merry Christmas, Dan, to you and yours. As I read this, I’m looking at the sun brilliantly lighting up the garland on our Christmas tree and making it sparkle. I’m drinking tea that I got as a Christmas present this year from a Christmas mug that I got as a Christmas present years ago. We’re wearing Christmas shirts and socks and Santa hats. Tonight, our lights will be shining as they did yesterday and during the Advent wait. Abd when we visit relatives this weekend, we will wish them “Merry Christmas!” We continue celebrating up to and including Epiphany, but know thst in the Church, it will go on until Jesus’ Baptism. I’m glad to know that there are plenty of others who celebrate with us that long. Last year, we made ornaments on this day and put them on our Christmas tree. And we put them up this year. We took Christmas pictures on the 28th or 29th and sent them out wishing everyone “Merry Christmas!” Lots of ways to keep celebrating. In Polish tradition (our heritage), and in Poland itself, today is the Second Day of Christmas and is a statutory holiday.

  7. And thank you for focusing on the joy of Christmas today! It’s still a time for joy! Some writers (including on here in previous years) have brought down doom and gloom on the Second Day of Christmas, focusing on Saint Stephen’s death. That has its place, but let’s “walk the walk” of Christmas. Yes, it leads to Good Friday, but that leads to Easter Sunday and the whole Easter season. Let’s be joyful!

  8. St. Stephen is considered the first martyr. What about the Holy Innocents? They are listed as martyrs also, and surely came before Stephen.

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