Saturday January 19, 2019: Jesus, the model of empathy

My wife and I have been visiting north central Pennsylvania in the U.S. It is a very rural area and we are trying to get used to life with slow or non-existent internet. One of the sacrifices is not being able to get Netflix. So, we have been renting movies from the local library.

One movie we checked out is a film starring Russell Crowe and Amanda Seyfried. Crowe plays the single father of a young girl. He struggles with seizures, and his work as an author, that hamper his abilities to care for his daughter, Katie…though it is obvious they love each other greatly. Bruce Greenwood plays the girl’s uncle who, along with his controlling wife, wants to adopt Katie out from under Crowe. In a tense scene in the movie, Greenwood lays bare all the reasons he feels Crowe should give up his daughter to them. His seizures, financial struggles, up and down success in his writing career. This is not done for Crowe’s benefit but to pummel him into submission and relinquish his daughter. Crowe refuses.

In today’s first reading, we hear how the word of God is like a two-edged sword dividing soul and spirit, joint and marrow. In other words, God’s word gets to the point and can function to expose to us our weaknesses and failings. It is kind of like the 12 step program of Alcoholics Anonymous. There is no way that we can improve our behavior unless we are made aware of the problem behaviors we have. It is as simple as reflecting on the 10 commandments and seeing where we fall short. No, we may not have murdered anyone lately, but maybe we are in the habit of letting our tongues murder the character of another. Maybe we didn’t shoplift today, but did we steal someone else’s ideas and claim them for our own.

In Fathers and Daughters, Bruce Greenwood took Crowe’s failings and used it to tear him down. It was not meant to heal. But in today’s Gospel, Jesus calls Matthew out from his sinful life and in a sense puts him on display for others when Jesus dines with Matthew. But he does not do this to carve up Matthew in front of all, but does so to heal. To bring Matthew in as one of his apostles and begin the journey to health. Health coming from the great physician.

God’s word reveals, but doesn’t stop there. It instructs us on how next to proceed to gain spiritual healing. And Jesus was able to do this because he is able to show empathy for us as sinners. Empathy meaning the ability to not only listen to someone but to FEEL what they are feeling. And Jesus can do this because he became one of us. He walked in our sandals. A very special high priest.

And Fathers and Daughters provided an example of this point as well. Crowe’s daughter, Katie (played by Amanda Seyfried) suffered greatly over the loss of her Mother in a car accident when she was only 2 or 3 years old and then, just 1-2 years later, her Father died as well leaving her without parents. As an adult she became a psychologist and was assigned the case of a young girl (Julie) whose Mom was murdered and, as a result, had not spoken a word for a year. Katie was able to connect with her and begin her on the road to healing because she could understand Julie’s pain and grief. Julie and knew that Katie not only listened but she felt this pain.

Jesus does not know us in the abstract. He knows us in person. He knows our weaknesses, the temptations we face and the struggles we go through every day. And as the great healer he has the medicine..the word of God.. that shows us how to go from illness to healing, from sin to life.

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Hello! My name is John Ciribassi. I live in Carol Stream, IL in the USA. My wife Elise and I are parishioners at Corpus Christi Catholic Church. We have two adult daughters. One lives in Senegal, West Africa with her husband and her 3 sons. The other teaches Anthropology at the University of Oslo, Norway. We also have a home in Mainesburg, Pa in the North Central part of Pennsylvania. My wife and I are both retired veterinarians, and my specialty is in animal behavior. I attended college and veterinary school in Illinois, where I met my wife who is from the Chicago area, and the rest is history! My hobbies include Racquetball, Pickleball, Off Road Motorcycle Riding, Hiking and Camping. I continue to enjoy the opportunity to offer what little insight I have on the scriptures. But I have always felt that the scriptures can speak for themselves. My job is just to shine a little light on them for people who maybe don't have the time to look into the readings deeply. I hope you enjoy and find value in my writings. I continue to be grateful for this opportunity.

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11 Comments

  1. Very nice reflection. Jesus our doctor guiding us to good health…spiritual health. Thank you John

  2. Thank you for the post and movie suggestion. Our adopted daughter has trouble connecting to God and Jesus; I think she feels like He gave her a bad deal as she suffers from anxiety, learning issues, and loss of birth family.

    Movies have been one of the ways we try to get her to see/feel God at work. We will watch this one and talk about your explanation of empathy.

  3. TM
    Just a note about the movie. There are scenes in it that are not appropriate for young people. However, these scenes show the brokenness of Katie in the movie and the healing that she needs. While this is not a Christian movie, it shows the complications our lives can develop when we are not guided by God.
    John

  4. Thank you.
    It’s good to be reminded that we are not alone when we struggle and suffer. Jesus is with us. He knows our deepest pain.
    And we can offer it up.
    Adore Jesus!!!

  5. Dear John,
    Thanks for additional input on movie. She is 16, but I will watch it first. I like your explanation of the brokenness without God.

  6. ‘God’s word reveals, but doesn’t stop there. It instructs us on how next to proceed to gain spiritual healing’
    I especially love this line. Such a beautiful and encouraging reflection. Thank you for this.

  7. You’re in a beautiful rural area and you need to watch movies to pass the time? Get out there and snow-shoe! Cross-country ski! Hike, if there is no snow! There will be plenty of time to watch movies when you’re old and can’t move around as well as you do now.

    Also, I don’t understand. How is Russell Crowe a single dad when you say that Katie’s father (so Crowe) dies a year or two after her mother? I don’t understand.

  8. Very nice reflection thank you. I am From a rural community. I live in a lovely wooded area. Walking in the woods is lovely. However after working all day, a nice walk I look forward to a little Netflix too. I’m glad you are able to utilize your local library. Thank you again for your reflection.

  9. Spoiler Alert!! In the movie, Crowe, Katie and her Mother (can’t recall the name of the character or actor) are in a car wreck because of an argument over Crowe’s past infidelity. In the wreck the Mother dies and leaves Crowe with brain damage causing seizures. He has to raise his daughter alone until his death while she is still a young girl. Causing her difficulty with relationships as she fears every person she loves will leave her.

    And, yes, we were in a beautiful rural area with great hiking opportunities that we did take advantage of. We also cross country ski but no snow until after we left. But kicking back at night and watching a movie or two is a great way to end the day.

    John

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