Saturday, November 24, 2018: Death to Death!!

I am not a huge Disney fan. I know to some this is a sacrilegious comment. But, except for a few rare instances, animation is just not my thing. I think this has been more of an adult revelation since I would get up very early on Saturday mornings as a kid and be glued to the tube for hours until Saturday morning cartoons turned into college football.

One of these exceptions occurred recently when my eldest daughter was home visiting from Senegal. She convinced me to watch one of Disney/Pixar’s latest creations, “Coco”. For those who may not have seen it, it is the story of a young Mexican boy longing to be a musician but whose family has rejected music because of the boy’s great-great grandfather who supposedly abandoned his family to pursue his career as a singer. In the background of the story is the observance of the Mexican holiday, Dia de Muertos, The Day of the Dead.

The family celebrates the holiday by keeping the memory of relatives alive by keeping their pictures on an altar in the family home and praying to them. The legend goes that if these relatives are forgotten, their souls will be forever lost. And, as a result, they can never again visit their relatives in life. They cannot be present to them and celebrate with them. It is clear that these “dead” relatives are very alive and present to those who are living. As our pastor said recently, there is a much thinner veil than we realize between those that have died and the land of the living.

We know the many stories of those who have died, have seen a glimpse of heaven and returned to tell their story (if you have not seen the true story, “Heaven is For Real” it is worth your time). Or people who are close to death who see and speak with relatives or friends who have passed before them. Our pastor also spoke this past Sunday how we, as parents, should be talking to our children, even our very young children, about death. About how death is not the end but merely a transition to a greater life. If we do not, then what they see in comparison is a death surrounded by misery and, at times, violence. The death portrayed by Hollywood or in video games.

The other Spanish tradition that I love surrounding Dia de Muertos is the practice of spending time in the cemetery around the graves of loved ones who have passed. This is not a solemn occasion by any means. It is essentially a picnic in the park, only it includes the departed. I recall several years ago driving down the Eisenhower Expressway in Chicago and sitting in typical bumper to bumper traffic. As we crawled along we came upon a large cemetery bordering the highway. At the edge of the cemetery was a family celebrating Dia de Muertos around a grave as I described above. The traffic was slowing, then moved along at normal speeds. Why the slow down at this point? I believe it took people by surprise. No one has a party in a cemetery!! These places are for mourning and misery. We avoid them…not party in them!!

But the concept of death has been turned upside down by Jesus, hasn’t it? In the reading from Luke today Jesus makes the statement that “…for to Him all are alive”. There is no distinction. It is merely a transition. Like leaving high school and going away to college. This new life away at the university is a big unknown but we forge ahead into this unknown with the faith that growth will occur. Yes, growth occurs even after death. Jesus also rebukes the Sadducees who claim there is no resurrection (they are Sad-You-See because of their non-belief, as is distinguished from the Pharisees who did believe that the dead are raised). He tells them that even Moses knew there was a resurrection as evidenced by his praying to the God of Abraham, God of Issac and God of Jacob. He is the God of the living…not the dead.

And John speaks in Revelations about the resurrection of the prophets, the witnesses, who were killed by the beast from the abyss (Emperor Nero who was persecuting the Church). The people cheered their death because of the torment that the prophets inflicted on them during their life. How they pointed out their sins and short comings before the Lord. Or today’s saint, Andrew Dung-Lac and the Vietnamese martyrs who gave their lives for holding fast to their proclaiming the Gospel in Vietnam during the 19th century.

Conquest over death means we get to live a life that is not focused on the fear of death. We do not have to live such they we are always trying to “get our share” before we die. Life is not a race to the end to see who can wind up with the most. It is just the first leg of a long distance marathon that lasts for eternity.

About the Author

Hello! My name is John Ciribassi. I live in Carol Stream, IL in the USA. My wife Elise and I are parishioners at Corpus Christi Catholic Church. We have two adult daughters. One lives in Senegal, West Africa with her husband and her 3 sons. The other teaches Anthropology at the University of Oslo, Norway. We also have a home in Mainesburg, Pa in the North Central part of Pennsylvania. My wife and I are both retired veterinarians, and my specialty is in animal behavior. I attended college and veterinary school in Illinois, where I met my wife who is from the Chicago area, and the rest is history! My hobbies include Racquetball, Pickleball, Off Road Motorcycle Riding, Hiking and Camping. I continue to enjoy the opportunity to offer what little insight I have on the scriptures. But I have always felt that the scriptures can speak for themselves. My job is just to shine a little light on them for people who maybe don't have the time to look into the readings deeply. I hope you enjoy and find value in my writings. I continue to be grateful for this opportunity.

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16 Comments

  1. I so enjoyed this piece. I learned about the Day of the Dead. I see so many items in stores with skeletons and skulls and thought they were bizarre. I now realize how important this is for certain people.
    Thank you

  2. Lovely piece John. I came from a culture where All Souls’ Day and All Saints’ Day are important family celebrations, but I guess growing up, the importance of that tradition didn’t sink in much. Great to be reminded that our God is a God of the living, and that we’re just paasing through in this life, towards a more glorious life afterwards.

  3. Love this. We should all remember, constantly remember, that our God is a God of the living and not of the dead, for all live to Him. So going to eternal life, and celebrating with those who have gone, should be something we live by. Thank you for giving me much cause for though. God bless.

  4. “Life is not a race to the end to see who can wind up with the most. It is the first leg of a long distance marathon that lasts for eternity”. Nice message for those of us who tend to cling to earthly things forgetting our mission or purpose here. Thanks John.

  5. Well articulated and orderly presented reflection!Thanks for your wonderful work,John.May God continue to inspire and bless you.About to share this on Facebook.

  6. Wow what an inspirational way of putting our way of viewing our eternal life into perspective. Thank you my prayers to you, that the lord continue to use you to help us see his teachings much clear each and everyday.

  7. Thank you John. A wonderful reflection. It reminds us of the hope in eternal life. Jesus was trying to get this point across for his entire ministry…he’s still working on it through people like you. Blessings to you!

  8. Hey John,

    Pretty thought provoking reflection.

    I do disagree with quite a few things you said, but I give you credit for bring up what is for the most of us a depressing subject, death.

    I did run across a quote the other day that seems very appropriate for the topic:

    “In the final analysis, for the believer there are no questions, and for the non-believer there are no answers.” – Chaim

    Mark

  9. Wonderful reflection this morning. I pray for family and friends who have gone on …this month I love to remember laughing crying sadness joy anger and forgiveness in each eternal rest, rest Grant to them I Lord and let perpetual light shine upon them

  10. Thank you for this timely reflection. I was thinking about death last night after watching the movie, “The Hostiles.” It was hard to watch at times, as it portrayed the reality of violence and hardship that resulted from the murdering of natives and settlers in the late 1800’s United States West. Thanks be to God, as Christians, we do not live for our lives here on earth. We live for eternal life in Heaven. Thank you for the reminder.

  11. I remember the movie Heaven is for Real. Also Miracles from Heaven, and my favourite To Heaven and Back about surgeon and scientist Dr. Mary Neal. I’ve seen her interviewed many times. Her story is extremely compelling, especially when she talks about some scientific tests she performed about her experience after her recovery. Thank you John. P.S. I am curious about the title of your reflection Death to Death?

    God bless

  12. Thanks John for reminding us of our duty as children of God to to prepare ourselves to meet the Lord at His second coming together with the faithful departed . Continue the good work of inspiration. God bless you and guide you through everything. Amen.

  13. Hey Chris.
    The Title, “Death to Death”, is what Christ gave to us by dying on the cross. He achieved the death of the state of death as it was known to be then. Now, death is not the end, but only the beginning. His death accomplished that for us.

  14. John, Well done!

    Your reflection reminded me of a statement told to me by my Dad as he was dying from liver cancer. He said, “Do not worry about dying Son, instead worry about living.” Our focus should be toward “Life” both here and on into eternity and the good works we are able do in service to others…

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