Helping ‘the least’

 

You are walking down the street, your arms swinging, your eyes taking in the sights of the big city.panhandling

Up ahead, there is a man … standing against a building. He has a plastic cup in his hands and he is shaking it so passersby can hear the sounds of a few coins jingling together.

Clearly, he is begging for money.

Suddenly you are faced with a choice.

Do you lower your eyes to your feet and walk by quickly … perhaps he won’t see you.

Do you stop and engage him in conversation … maybe tell him he needs to get a job!

Do you hold onto the money in your pockets and ignore him … he will probably just use it to buy drugs or alcohol, anyway!

Do you give him money?

Such are the choices faced by many people across the world as they live, work and play in areas where the poor actively seek help on the streets and sidewalks of the world’s cities.

These interactions come to mind as you read today’s Gospel.

“Amen, I say to you, whatever you did for one of these least brothers of mine, you did for me.”

So says the Lord when he decides who are the goats and who are the sheep.

Who will live forever with God and who will die?

These decisions, which take place on the sidewalks of life, are not to be taken lightly.

If you have the means to help the helpless … should you not do all you can?

The story of Ebenezer Scrooge comes to mind … the perfect portrayal of what happens when you hold on to your wealth while others struggle to survive.

At the same time, it seems quite reasonable to deny your fellow man who is begging for money. After all, shouldn’t he get a job? Shouldn’t he find his way to a shelter? Won’t he just drink it all away?

Truth is … we don’t know.

And an even bigger truth … we don’t judge.

I no longer work in an urban setting, but when I did, I was often met with those begging for money, for food, for attention.

I generally had just one rule: If I had cash in my pockets, I would gladly share. I would also share food, coffee or other sources of nourishment if I had them with me.

That was not always the case, but often times I was given the opportunity to help. And I took it.

Where did that money go?

Was it spent on wine, whiskey or beer? Maybe.

Was it spent on drugs? Perhaps. Or was it spent on a warm meal for the recipient and perhaps a family member we never saw? Possible.

The key is that we don’t know; we don’t judge. That’s the beauty of following God’s word … we don’t need to …

Our salvation does not hinge on what others do with the gifts we impart. We need only follow the command of our Lord and help when we are asked.

Pretty simple. Plant the seed.

God will do the rest.

About the Author

Dan McFeely is a Carmel, Indiana, writer, communications business owner, book editor and a former professional journalist. Dan also works as an Adult Faith Formation Minister, currently serving as a spiritual director for the men's and women's Christ Renews His Parish program at St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Catholic Church in Carmel. He is a graduate of the Ecclesial Lay Ministry program offered by the Diocese of Lafayette-in-Indiana and has studied theology at Marian University.

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12 Comments

  1. Thank you. You have awaken my senses.

    What you have told were exactly what I did; so many questions asked in myself before giving, doubtful where the money goes, and even in giving tithes- thinking where does it goes?

    Thank you Bro. Dan, a big help to change how I think.

    God bless!

  2. Thank you Dan. I have personally struggled with giving to the beggars because of all the possibilities listed above. Good to know that I am responsible for my part – giving, while the beggar is responsible for how he uses the gifts. I bless you.

  3. Thank you Dan, I have learnt today what to do in situations you rightly enumerated. I don’t know and do not judge is certainly my rule now. God bless you.

  4. Thank you, Bro. Dan. Everything that you mentioned here makes sense to me. You gave me enlightenment on taking every given opportunity to help. God bless you and your family more and more…

  5. Dan,today I was asked for a couple of dollars as this young man said he was having a bad time I only had $5 so I gave it to him.The look of thanks made me want to cry. God bless you.We all need to be more humble and giving. Shirley from Australia.

  6. Giving looks easy. However, this does not automatically lead us to do such an action. This is especially because we are too afraid to share because sharing means losing. And, we judge other’s motive before giving. Lord, please forgive us!

  7. Thank you! In our judgmental society, it is too easy to join the crowd; but being a follower of Christ usually means going against the norm.

  8. This is one dilemma I face sometimes and I am glad you shed some more light on this.. Sometimes it isn’t as if I do not know these things are the right things to do but I begin to try to unravel the unknown within me.. the unknown being what would they do with the money.

    Thanks a lot for the reflection.

  9. Thank you! Who are we to judge? There are many among us who are weak; oppressed. And if they use the money for booze, drugs, or cigarettes….so what; we saw Jesus sitting there in someone’s weakness and oppression and we helped them. We helped Jesus! That’s all that matters.

  10. Bro. Dan, thank you for this enlightening thoughts about giving and sharing on what we have to people who are in need especially in giving alms. Now, anyone who knocks at my door, meeting beggars on the street asking for food or money … sharing is the key. It doesnt matter how are they going to use it. All we need to do is to follow what the Lord has commanded us … Simply beautiful!

    You are an angel to people like us.

    God bless you and your family!

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